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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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BackToLurk · 12/04/2026 13:38

SerendipityJane · 12/04/2026 12:22

A very simple start would be to require dogs are kept in appropriate conditions. With minimum requirements for space and access to exercise. Prison for anyone who is caught keeping dogs illegally

However new laws are a waste of time. We have plenty of laws that no one enforces now. Why waste time on more ?

Your second paragraph is key I think. We don’t enforce low level laws across the board, so there is escalation and we end up with “something must be done”. Another example is e scooters. Not legal to own and ride on public roads, but widely owned and ridden on public roads. We’ll wait until enough people are killed or seriously injured and then ‘do something’. We could have just enforced the laws we have.

There’s also a degree of community responsibility. There are at least two examples on this thread of people describing clear breaches of the law on XLs, but not reporting them. So report, report and complain when reports aren’t followed up.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:09

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 13:19

Why do you have a 40kg guardian breed? For what purpose?

Why shouldn’t she? It’s her choice. I have friends with GSD’s and Rottie’s, all fabulous dogs, well trained and a joy to be around. Great hiking companions.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:10

Helpingoutwithasdkids · 10/04/2026 13:20

XL bullies literally are bad dogs regardless of owner as every single one regardless of how well it’s trained or not etc has the genetic predisposition to suddenly snap and kill.

Yes the XL’s with genes from Killer Kimbo are just not safe. They are just wired wrong. They should be humanely PTS for everyone’s safety.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:14

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 13:25

Will the parents be charged with the murder of the baby girl?

It might not be the parents, could have been someone visiting the house and bringing the dogs? Or has it been confirmed it was the family’s own dogs?

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:20

takealettermsjones · 10/04/2026 13:33

Out of interest, do you think you could control him if he were to turn? Are you faster than him? Can you restrain 40kg of angry dog?

40kg is about six stone, if my maths is right, the weight of an average 8-10 year old child. I have picked up and carried off an angry, hitting, meltdowning not listening to anything child of that age and size before, more than once. And I’m an average female.

nocoolnamesleft · 12/04/2026 14:23

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:20

40kg is about six stone, if my maths is right, the weight of an average 8-10 year old child. I have picked up and carried off an angry, hitting, meltdowning not listening to anything child of that age and size before, more than once. And I’m an average female.

Your maths is wrong. (age+4)x2 ergo 10 year old average is about 28kg.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:27

TwoSwannits · 10/04/2026 14:06

That is horrifying reading and at the same time, really sad. What I simply do not understand is if they already know the very high aggression profiles of so many of these dogs, why do they continue to shelter them instead of just euthanising them instantly?

They can't possibly ever re-home those dogs, so what is the point of keeping them alive in such stressful conditions? As I said before, I adore dogs, but I refuse to get sentimental about keeping any dog alive if it's really not in anyone's best interests to do so. The dog doesn't know it's going to die. It can be euthanised peacefully and painlessly and then the problem is solved. Why spend so much money that could be used to help dogs with a good chance of a better future, instead of keeping hundreds of killing machines alive absolutely pointlessly? Nobody loves them, nobody wants them and they live stressed, unhappy existences. It would be kinder all round to just put them all to sleep as soon as they've been assessed as a danger.

I agree, just put them to sleep. Though I don’t fancy being the vet tech that has to sedate them to do the job.

Littlewrenn · 12/04/2026 14:30

BackToLurk · 12/04/2026 13:38

Your second paragraph is key I think. We don’t enforce low level laws across the board, so there is escalation and we end up with “something must be done”. Another example is e scooters. Not legal to own and ride on public roads, but widely owned and ridden on public roads. We’ll wait until enough people are killed or seriously injured and then ‘do something’. We could have just enforced the laws we have.

There’s also a degree of community responsibility. There are at least two examples on this thread of people describing clear breaches of the law on XLs, but not reporting them. So report, report and complain when reports aren’t followed up.

Precisely. If the authorities wanted to, they could have dealt with XL bullies under the DDA 1991 before there was an explosion in the numbers of the bloody things. 5 years ago we saw peak numbers of them, fuelled by the puppy breeding boom during the Covid lockdowns. I remember seeing more and more of them on every street corner, and thinking, jesus what horrific things they were. Chilling.

So many attacks and deaths could have been avoided if they'd used common sense and jumped on it. It was all so sadly predictable.

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 14:31

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:20

40kg is about six stone, if my maths is right, the weight of an average 8-10 year old child. I have picked up and carried off an angry, hitting, meltdowning not listening to anything child of that age and size before, more than once. And I’m an average female.

I actually have a photo of my children on the airport scales age 6 and they’re 20 kg
So by 10 probably guess they’re about 27/28kgs

Bollixtothat · 12/04/2026 14:31

Poor child. I hope the owners of the dog are changed with manslaughter.

Unfortunately some people are just incredibly stupid and think it will never happen to them. All xl bullies should be pts.

Bollixtothat · 12/04/2026 14:33

Littlewrenn · 12/04/2026 14:30

Precisely. If the authorities wanted to, they could have dealt with XL bullies under the DDA 1991 before there was an explosion in the numbers of the bloody things. 5 years ago we saw peak numbers of them, fuelled by the puppy breeding boom during the Covid lockdowns. I remember seeing more and more of them on every street corner, and thinking, jesus what horrific things they were. Chilling.

So many attacks and deaths could have been avoided if they'd used common sense and jumped on it. It was all so sadly predictable.

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It’s just another form of natural selection. Stupid people own vicious dogs who kill their own children. You couldn’t make it up!

TwoSwannits · 12/04/2026 14:42

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:27

I agree, just put them to sleep. Though I don’t fancy being the vet tech that has to sedate them to do the job.

A tranquiliser dart would do it. Probably the only way.

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 14:49

Bollixtothat · 12/04/2026 14:33

It’s just another form of natural selection. Stupid people own vicious dogs who kill their own children. You couldn’t make it up!

That’s quite a high price to pay age 3 months though, isn’t it?

We’re meant to protect the most vulnerable in society

Bollixtothat · 12/04/2026 14:52

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 14:49

That’s quite a high price to pay age 3 months though, isn’t it?

We’re meant to protect the most vulnerable in society

Was the child only 3 months old? That’s horrific. Poor baby. The parents are supposed to protect their children. They failed spectacularly. And they’ll live with that for ever. I hope it hurts! At least it wasn’t the child of someone who has nothing to do with the dog.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 14:59

OonaStubbs · 10/04/2026 22:32

Just ban all dogs, then there would be no arguments over which breeds should be banned, is that dog really a banned breed etc etc. It would save so many lives.

You’re on every single dog thread saying this. It’s never going to happen.

igelkott2026 · 12/04/2026 15:01

Solenoidal · 11/04/2026 15:30

People’s fear is the reason that Neanderthals acquire these monsters.

Ultimately, I feel that legislation is futile. The kind of people that choose to get XL bullies, Staffies, cane corsos etc are scummy people who want to look hard and take joy in parading their creatures out and about and causing fear.

Whatever the law you always get people who ignore it, but it does help to maintain some sort of order in our society. Ok most drivers speed at some time or other, but generally speaking they stick to the rules - or at least a bit above them. With no speeding laws at all, it would be a free for all.

At the moment we have a free for all for dogs, albeit that there are stiffer penalties for people who let their dogs maul livestock. I do think if we had licences and strict liability for owners if their dogs injure someone it would reduce incidents.

Also stop foreign rescues coming in - they are not "rescues" they are bred in puppy farms for gullible Brits.

igelkott2026 · 12/04/2026 15:03

Bollixtothat · 12/04/2026 14:52

Was the child only 3 months old? That’s horrific. Poor baby. The parents are supposed to protect their children. They failed spectacularly. And they’ll live with that for ever. I hope it hurts! At least it wasn’t the child of someone who has nothing to do with the dog.

They should go to jail for manslaughter. But they won't.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 15:22

Spaghettea · 11/04/2026 13:33

I saw the local XL today. No muzzle. Really visible nipples which makes me wonder if the idiot owner has bred from her recently.

Can you report this - as you probably know, breeding is illegal under the ban.

BackToLurk · 12/04/2026 15:36

@igelkott2026 "Also stop foreign rescues coming in - they are not "rescues" they are bred in puppy farms for gullible Brits"

Also often entitled Brits who demand a dog, but responsible breeders and rescues won't let them have dogs for reasons such as young children, unsuitable premises or lifestyles etc, They bypass this by looking at overseas rescues that may have more lax regulations and/or don't have the facilities to take dogs back if there are problems.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 15:36

AcquadiP · 11/04/2026 15:54

The UK dog population is estimated to be 13-15.5 million with a third of all households owning at least one dog. There are over 220 recognised breeds of dog. If you look at the stats of fatalities caused by dogs over the last 5+ decades, there's about half a dozen breeds which have been responsible for these fatalities and of those the majority were caused by the American Pitbull Terrier (banned in 1990) and the XL Bully, (banned in 2024), both imported from American. The solution is not to ban all breeds of dog, the vast majority of which are innocent. The solution is to ban the importation of breeds which have a terrible reputation in their home countries as was blatantly obvious in both cases here. But the government still allowed them to come into the country.....
Now we are dealing with the consequences and will be for at least a decade until the XL Bully naturally dies out of existence.

Yes this. The XL should have been stopped before it started. But now a full euthanasia campaign is the only answer. Especially any descendants of Killer Kimbo.

The other 200+ breeds of dogs provide huge amounts of joy, companionship and love to millions of people. A few demented frothers ain't going to change that.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 15:44

OonaStubbs · 11/04/2026 19:08

There are many animals that we do not allow people to keep as pets because they are dangerous. Lions, tigers and bears for instance. It wouldn't be that drastic a measure to add dogs to the list.

I’m just laughing now. Bless your heart. There we are then.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 15:45

FishingInTheRiversOfLife · 11/04/2026 23:01

According to a local Facebook group, the mother was in the home with her baby, and left a door open as it was warm. Two offleash dogs (currently described as pocket bullies) ran into the house and attacked the baby.

Tragic. That poor family. Makes it worse for the parents than it being their own dog/choice/risk.

Oh my god that’s awful.

TwoSwannits · 12/04/2026 16:22

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 13:24

More misinformation
Prolific shoplifters are traced and prosecuted and spend time in jail
Unfortunately, most of the ones caught our drug addict so it doesn’t matter if you do anything to them bar hanging them. They are still going to commit these crimes over and over again.
councils do have the power to wish you fixed penalty notices to people smoking cannabis in the street
that falls to council employees with zero training and zero powers of enforcement if the smoker tells them to get fucked
If we want laws enforcing we need more police officers but people don’t want to pay for that

People do want to pay for that. They don't want to pay of a ton of the other shite our taxes get wasted on, but effective and adequate policing is exactly what most people are happy to pay for.

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 16:23

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 15:45

Oh my god that’s awful.

So not actually her dogs 😳

Allseeingallknowing · 12/04/2026 16:35

PartQualifiedAcca · 12/04/2026 16:23

So not actually her dogs 😳

Who ever these beasts belong to doesn’t alter the fact that it’s a terrible tragedy.