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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:07

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 11:56

The gentle giants thing is pretty universal when it comes to mastiffs. They are known for being great in families. Anyone who knows dogs knows that. Of course there is a spectrum. English mastiff at one end, Dogo Argentinio (something like that) at the other (those are banned here). Corsos are somewhere in the middle. But they've always been known as dogs that protest family homes while adoring the family. Real women's dogs.

No thank you. Not this woman.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:09

Deadleaves77 · 10/04/2026 12:02

The problem is not thick scum bags. Not every dog who bites is a poorly trained dog kept in terrible conditions.

Dogs do bite. The difference is a smaller breed will make a smaller wound. A bigger more dangerous breed can kill. One bite from a big bully breed or a cane corso style dog will cause significant harm because they are powerful animals. All dogs should be regulated/licensed and we should acknowledge that some breeds are too dangerous to be owned

And who is buying these bully breeds if not thick scum?

if there’s no market for the thing, the thing doesn’t exist.

GreyfriarsJobbies · 10/04/2026 12:09

Ilovelurchers · 10/04/2026 10:49

Horribly sad news.

I wonder if getting too obsessed with breeds is a bit of a red herring? XL bullies are a relatively new "breed", and if all efforts are focused on irradicating these, surely another "breed" will simply arise to take its place? Plus it can be difficult to determine a dog's "breed" anyway - how much XL blood does a dog need to be defined as an XL itself? Etc etc.

Legislation needs to be focused on size and weight of dog, I would think, rather than the confusing issue of breed.

And yes, that would be unfair on owners of large, docile dogs ....

But better this unfairness, than a single other human being, especially a child, loses their life in this horrendous and preventable way.

I was thinking along the same lines when I considered what you could actually do about this problem. Like you suggest, as a species dogs are so responsive to selective breeding that banning a particular breed is a) very difficult as it's so hard to define, and b) largely pointless as a dodgy breeders will quickly come up with another one that falls outside the definition and flog that to the knuckle-draggers instead. So really it might have to be something like 'from date X [a decent amount of time in the future], you need a licence for a dog weighing more than 25kg (or whatever)' with a presumption against granting new licences unless you can say why you need a big dog or if it is a known 'safe' breed. No it wouldn't be perfect but neither would any other way of dealing with the problem.

AlphaApple · 10/04/2026 12:11

Just licence every single dog and every single dog owner. It's gone beyond a debate now.

I have a dog, I love dogs, I didn't think it was necessary or proportionate to do this but now I do.

God bless that poor child and their family.

Helpingoutwithasdkids · 10/04/2026 12:12

cadburyegg · 09/04/2026 22:20

All XL bullies should be put to sleep. Otherwise we will just have 10 more years of this.

I agree they need to all be immediately destroyed they are just too dangerous.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:14

GreyfriarsJobbies · 10/04/2026 12:09

I was thinking along the same lines when I considered what you could actually do about this problem. Like you suggest, as a species dogs are so responsive to selective breeding that banning a particular breed is a) very difficult as it's so hard to define, and b) largely pointless as a dodgy breeders will quickly come up with another one that falls outside the definition and flog that to the knuckle-draggers instead. So really it might have to be something like 'from date X [a decent amount of time in the future], you need a licence for a dog weighing more than 25kg (or whatever)' with a presumption against granting new licences unless you can say why you need a big dog or if it is a known 'safe' breed. No it wouldn't be perfect but neither would any other way of dealing with the problem.

You decentivize ownership usually by attributing a financial penalty to it - what they are doing with car ownership currently but let’s add in some actual proper criminal penalties to ownership of a dog that kills. Dogs need to be seen as weapons. If any dog kills a person the owner of that dog should feel the full weight of the law. Similarly anyone that kills through dangerous driving. Proper prison sentences.

GlovedhandsCecilia · 10/04/2026 12:15

Katemax82 · 10/04/2026 12:03

A family member just bought a cane corso and has 3 kids....I'm bewildered as to why??

I cant say whether its a good idea for that individual. I think its best if the owners have a very good idea about how to pick a good dog and then how to train it, continually, throughout its life. I dont think its a bad idea just because you have 3 kids.

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:21

I’m going to wade in here with some love for XL bully’s - all the ones I have met have been brilliant dogs, well trained, cared for, where the owners have put in significant time, effort and training with them. More so than the brigade of ‘my dogs friendly cockerpoos’

Would I trust them around children? No!
Would I trust any dog around a child? No!

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:22

Fully expecting some hate for my post…

LordofMisrule1 · 10/04/2026 12:23

I've noticed that since the 'ban', a lot of the deaths are no longer random strangers on the street, but family members in the home. Hopefully this means that the muzzling is working. Still wouldn't willingly be near an XL bully in a muzzle as I've seen some people with plastic ones and it would take them seconds to tear through that. But it's a positive that only the morons dumb enough to adopt these animals are suffering. Just heartbreaking that their children have to pay the price.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:24

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:21

I’m going to wade in here with some love for XL bully’s - all the ones I have met have been brilliant dogs, well trained, cared for, where the owners have put in significant time, effort and training with them. More so than the brigade of ‘my dogs friendly cockerpoos’

Would I trust them around children? No!
Would I trust any dog around a child? No!

Would I trust them not to kill my cat who might be sitting on my doorstep sleeping No!
Would I trust them with small dogs who might be in the end of a lead who might be on a walk with their owner? No!

Orherwise they’re fabulous! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:25

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:22

Fully expecting some hate for my post…

I don’t have enough hate for your post.

YourWinter · 10/04/2026 12:26

AlphaApple · 10/04/2026 12:11

Just licence every single dog and every single dog owner. It's gone beyond a debate now.

I have a dog, I love dogs, I didn't think it was necessary or proportionate to do this but now I do.

God bless that poor child and their family.

Ah ok. If the owners of every XL, pocket or any other bully had a licence the dogs would never had attacked?

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 12:26

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 09:53

YABU OP to use a child's death to make a point about bullies.

We all know there is a problem. But there is no need to use another death - particularly that of a child - to hammer home your point. It's crass and needless.

And it's stupid because inevitably, it ends up with particularly stupid posts on this thread by people who know nothing about dogs, or about Bullies even, but who have read a few articles and think they are experts. Bully jaws do not lock. They do not go for the neck. Yes, they're horrible dogs, but let's not perpetuate misinformation.

A child is dead.

Perhaps instead of people on this thread using it to advance their own agenda, they could focus on the horrible fact a child died in appalling circumstances. But that would probably require a level of emotional intelligence and selflessness that is impossible to find on Mumsnet.

How is a dead child the starting point of a AIBU thread? Disgraceful.

You're clearly the owner of a 'land shark', so you know exactly what it is but you're a cult member so you defend it.

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 12:28

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:25

I don’t have enough hate for your post.

Same here.

AlphaApple · 10/04/2026 12:29

YourWinter · 10/04/2026 12:26

Ah ok. If the owners of every XL, pocket or any other bully had a licence the dogs would never had attacked?

Of course not. But it would weed out the idiots and low-level scum.

Driver's licences, traffic lights and car MOTs don't stop car accidents but we still think they are a good idea.

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:30

@EvangelicalAboutButteredToast how many have you met? And trained? Just out of curiosity

I have met and trained a small proportion of the ones in the UK - I can only comment on the ones I have.

I’ve met far worse than them…

Any death of a child by a dog is completely unacceptable - but a lot of the responsibility is on the owners.

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:31

If it’s the devises attack the news reporting has been sensational and click bate as you can get 🙄

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 12:33

Some people will defend these dogs like they’re a family member.

HungryHungryLandsharks · 10/04/2026 12:33

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 12:26

You're clearly the owner of a 'land shark', so you know exactly what it is but you're a cult member so you defend it.

Landsharks is a well known term for Golden Retrievers. See below.

They are quite a different breed from XL Bullies, or indeed any Bull breed.

Unless you also have objections to Golden Retrievers? In which case, I really don't blame you. Evil little bastards - should definitely be banned.

Another child killed by a dog...
EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:34

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:30

@EvangelicalAboutButteredToast how many have you met? And trained? Just out of curiosity

I have met and trained a small proportion of the ones in the UK - I can only comment on the ones I have.

I’ve met far worse than them…

Any death of a child by a dog is completely unacceptable - but a lot of the responsibility is on the owners.

I don’t care where the blame lies. I’ll lay the blame at the animal AND the owner. Fine the owner, cull the animal. I’d be delighted.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 12:34

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 12:33

Some people will defend these dogs like they’re a family member.

And the last one I read about did exactly that and they killed her.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3gg6zql03eo

tnorfotkcab · 10/04/2026 12:34

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:21

I’m going to wade in here with some love for XL bully’s - all the ones I have met have been brilliant dogs, well trained, cared for, where the owners have put in significant time, effort and training with them. More so than the brigade of ‘my dogs friendly cockerpoos’

Would I trust them around children? No!
Would I trust any dog around a child? No!

until those "brilliant well trained" dogs kill a child... I'm sure that the previous owners if killer dogs thought they were lovely,well trained dogs.

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ClaudiaWankleman · 10/04/2026 12:36

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:21

I’m going to wade in here with some love for XL bully’s - all the ones I have met have been brilliant dogs, well trained, cared for, where the owners have put in significant time, effort and training with them. More so than the brigade of ‘my dogs friendly cockerpoos’

Would I trust them around children? No!
Would I trust any dog around a child? No!

The result of misplaced trust in a cockerpoo is bruising, cuts, maybe stiches and psychological trauma.

The result of misplaced trust in an XL bully is death.

The two aren't comparable and I find it disingenuous to pretend that they are.

We draw lines like this in society all the time. All cars pose dangers to pedestrians, and that danger boils down to the adult operating them. However we have chosen to not allow US style super trucks on UK roads because, regardless of how responsible the adult operator is, the residual risk to pedestrians is too high.

Cockerpoos are Peugeot 107s and XL bullies are Chevrolet super pick up trucks.

LordofMisrule1 · 10/04/2026 12:39

EvilNextDoor · 10/04/2026 12:22

Fully expecting some hate for my post…

You don't deserve hate. You having had positive experiences with some XL bullies doesn't in any way counteract the fact that they're responsible for the vast majority of dog attack fatalities, or make them safe to be in society.

It's like if I said 'honestly, I've been on car journeys without a seatbelt loads of times and never been injured', the fact that not wearing a seatbelt is a dangerous and stupid thing to do doesn't make my experience not true.

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