WIBU not to pick up this Vinted order?

[feedmefudge]

Hi. I purchased something on Vinted a couple of days ago. Despite trying to convince myself that I really liked and wanted it, I decided that I had changed my mind. I saw that the seller hadn’t yet sent it, so at 7pm last night cancelled the order and sent her a very apologetic message to explain.
I didn’t hear anything back and at 12pm this afternoon received a notification from Vinted to say that it couldn’t be cancelled, followed by a message from the seller to say that she had just sent it. Unfortunate, but one of those things.

I regularly buy on Vinted but have never been in this position before. What happens if I don’t pick it up when it arrives? Will I be refunded in due course? And will the seller be able to leave negative feedback about me?

Thanks.

It’s not about being flakey. When we buy anything online we have a right to cancel. Op cancelled the order and the seller still posted it so if the seller is inconvenienced that’s their own fault

It's a friendly message, but ordering an item, letting the seller start the process of sending it out and then cancelling is not considerate.
It would have been considerate to ask if it was possible to cancel, and accept a refusal.

I just checked my Vinted sales and you can’t see when the label was downloaded. I’d say she’s chancing her arm sending it after having seen the message and for £32 you would not be unreasonable not to collect it

I was on the fence, but after this message, YABU.

I sell bulky or fragile stuff sometimes and need sturdy boxes to bags to send in.
I also sell multiple items a time and have to drive 26 miles to a locker once a week.

We're rural where network isn't great, so as soon as I sell, I take a screenshot and use that at the drop off point.

I wouldn't be checking messages at that point as signal is sketchy there too.