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Do I look overweight?

226 replies

ZippyLimeBear · 05/04/2026 19:30

Do I look overweight? I’m the one in grey. I’ve had two kids and I think I might have let my weight run away with me, but as a typical woman I want to know if I’m being over critical? Please be honest

Do I look overweight?
OP posts:
Marble10 · 05/04/2026 19:46

You don’t look overweight at all however that outfit is not flattering but it looks like a casual family day out so expected. It’s not a posed picture either, so angle/pose isn’t going to be great, no one even stick thin people are ‘picture perfect’ at every moment.

Comedycook · 05/04/2026 19:47

Not overweight...not skinny. Like others I'd think you were higher end of a normal BMI.

Aluna · 05/04/2026 19:47

No.

illsendansostotheworld · 05/04/2026 19:47

BeMintFatball · 05/04/2026 19:41

I would swap bodies with you in a heartbeat. You’re absolutely fine

So would l!! You look fab op

ZippyLimeBear · 05/04/2026 19:48

Farewelltothatid · 05/04/2026 19:45

I think it's sad you are even asking.

Please don't obsess about your weight. So long as you are eating a balanced healthy diet and fitting in some exercise and , very importantly, enjoying your life, what does it matter what other people think?

Fwiw you look great to me and if you are an example of letting your weight run away with you I'll take that any day

You’re right, I feel embarrassed asking tbh and it’s a terrible example, I just can’t get out of my head. Thanks for your reply

OP posts:
Holidaymodeon · 05/04/2026 19:48

ZippyLimeBear · 05/04/2026 19:40

I think I’m the top end of normal, good spot! But I’ve been a size 10 my whole life but now wear a size 12, prob need to do something about it if it bothers me. I really appreciate the honest but kind replies

You look fine. I’m exactly at that stage in sizes but am only five foot tall so I look much bigger

PippaToryFripp · 05/04/2026 19:48

Can’t really tell with the angle and clothing. Can you post another photo?

SilenceInside · 05/04/2026 19:49

Rather than asking strangers to judge off one photo, just weigh yourself and work out your BMI then you will know if you are overweight according to one simple measure. You can also measure your waist and work out your waist to height ratio, which is another indicator. Also waist to hip ratio.

DallazMajor · 05/04/2026 19:49

No you don’t look overweight.

You look bloody lovely.

ZippyLimeBear · 05/04/2026 19:49

Marble10 · 05/04/2026 19:46

You don’t look overweight at all however that outfit is not flattering but it looks like a casual family day out so expected. It’s not a posed picture either, so angle/pose isn’t going to be great, no one even stick thin people are ‘picture perfect’ at every moment.

Yes it was just a family Easter egg and spoon race!

OP posts:
Holidaymodeon · 05/04/2026 19:49

Who won the egg and spoons race and is the little ones blacked out face done with bunny ears on purpose? 🐰

fatphalange · 05/04/2026 19:51

Its the light wash jeans, that’s just the effect they give. Imagine them in a darker wash
You don’t look overweight.

Hiddenhouse · 05/04/2026 19:54

It’s hard to tell as it’s a baggy jumper but do you think you have? If you can run around, keep up with them, sleep well and eat healthily and feel good the that counts for a lot

Delphiniumandlupins · 05/04/2026 19:56

Did you win? You look like the only one taking it seriously. And no, you don't look overweight.

BlackSheepThisYear · 05/04/2026 20:02

You look like a normal sized woman having fun with her family. If I was being critical, I’d advise you to lose the jumper as I don’t think that length is flattering. But I don’t think it would be on anybody! But otherwise, you as a person and as a body look absolutely fine x

YouOKHun · 05/04/2026 20:08

I am sure you’re fine OP and so are the responses on this thread but I feel really twitchy about this kind of question tbh. Any question with accompanying photos that invites guesses or judgement about someone’s weight/body/attractiveness is so often answered in a highly subjective way that has more to do with the responder’s own thoughts and feelings about themselves and isn’t relevant. Often the responses are unkind (unintentionally or absolutely taking aim) and can’t be helpful in any way. I sometimes have concerns about why someone is asking for opinions. I’m not sure it does any of us any favours tbh.

IsawwhatIsaw · 05/04/2026 20:10

You look fine

Burntt · 05/04/2026 20:13

You asked so I will answer but it feels a cruel question. Yes you look a bit overweight but only a bit and you still look really good. Don’t forget you have had two children!

SpottyAlpaca · 05/04/2026 20:13

No, of course not. Your BMI must be <25, therefore you are not clinically overweight.

FuchsiaFlingo · 05/04/2026 20:15

@bagsandmagsshe might not be overweight, but she looks it.

and, as I said, she’s grand. Whatever. I’m 5ft 1 and I look fat as fuck when I’m at the upper end of my normal BMI. I have rolls and a belly when I get above 8st. I have to stay at the lower end 7st-ish, to look thin.

So you can definitely be within the top end of a healthy BMI and still look chubby.

MouseCheese87 · 05/04/2026 20:16

No you don't look overweight.

Growuppeople · 05/04/2026 20:16

lol if your curvy I’m definitely obese! I am a 12 though and hate it! love to see these peoples photos! Why would you do this to yourself? Unless your a stick, people online will just be cunts.

DizziLizzy · 05/04/2026 20:17

being honest id say you are most likely just inside the overweight bracket. You still look great but if you have noticed you are gaining you are probably heading in the one direction. I've been in many weight brackets over the years and its so easy to gain without realising.

FookFookFook · 05/04/2026 20:17

I can't believe some of the answers here. You don't look overweight at all.

OneLuckyKoala · 05/04/2026 20:17

Absolutely not- you look great! Genuinely, you have a lovely figure.

In saying that, I'm a similar BMI and often have similar thoughts, so you're not alone. It's funny how we are far more critical of ourselves than others.

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