I can't believe that no one has replied directly @Bettercallsalli on this extraordinary post above but I'm willing to give it a go.
"I'm not going to be a martyr"... Come off it. Do you even know the meaning of the word in the context you're using?
I think since COVID-19 and the regrettable actions of the Tory government in miscommunications during lockdowns, failing to protect the social covenant by following up with explainers etc, there has been a rise in the strident, "I'm in it for me" vocal group in Britain on social media. It's the sort of "won't get fooled again!" mob, but very hardened this time.
You see it with folk saying "I'll never ever wear a face nappy I'll die before that happens". You see it with the fuel stuff as well, "No one can tell me how much fuel I should buy, they want us all in 15 minute cities" etc.
I'm not saying any of this is "ignorant" or that I'm accusing folk of being wrong.
I just find it so very depressing that some of us have given up on the social contract so quickly and easily, and are so keen to tell others as quickly as possible just how selfish we've become.
So yeah, I'm happy for you that you watched others behaving selfishly and you've decided you'll keep your tank brimmed every single day, and stock up on pasta and toilet rolls, just so that your not "missing out".
It's just the mentality I can't stand. "If you snooze you lose".. so the entire point of our existence is to get in front of the other person, ensure we've won the resource allocation game, and go home to our "Live, laugh love" sign happy in the notion that we've atavistically protected our cave?
I've really given up with so many British folk who think like this (and yes, I am a fellow Brit, multiple car owner, but a Brit who committed the heinous crime of living abroad and not owning a car when I did).
I don't like the way this country is going, so many folk extremely keen to feel like they're "winning".