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Racism in uk

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Charltonstrek · 18/03/2026 10:30

Im finding the level of racism here in the UK to be very unsettling and it seems to be getting worse and im finding it depressing as I have a Muslim partner and I wonder if there is a future here for him. Ive mostly witnessed this on social media with some very derogatory comments anybody else or am I too sensitive

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Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:27

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:16

That's rich, you run away from communities that have brown people and then complain their have ghettoised themselves. Why don't you stay and integrate with the cultures around you.

Lol - would anyone tell (or expect) Spaniards to integrate with ex pat British communities?

Someone upthread said that Brits in Spain who did not integrate or learn the language were despicable. Since no one appears to have taken issue with this, I assume that is also true of the communities in the UK who do not learn English or integrate.

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:29

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:20

Maybe employed BAME people should start an equivalent campaign against unemployed white people and racist white people? Maybe the BAME tolerance tide is turning too.

Edited

If you cannot or refuse to speak the language you very clearly take yourself out of the job market 🙄

Quine0nline · 18/03/2026 15:32

So if the UK is so HIDEOUSLY racist, why are people travelling so far to come here for asylum? Yes, we have a welfare system but other countries have better and more generous systems. Our climate is not exactly the same as the countries they have left.
Coming to "sock it to whitey?" I doubt it. "Coming to the colonial motherland" no.

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:36

Yes, I agree OP. Sadly I think we are seeing a big step backwards when it comes to racism (and, without wishing to derail the thread, misogyny). It's very depressing. But it does seem to be a global trend and when I look around I'm not sure I can think of another country where it's any better. But, nonetheless, important to acknowledge it and how depressing it is.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:36

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:29

If you cannot or refuse to speak the language you very clearly take yourself out of the job market 🙄

You are proved wrong by the blue collar jobs that immigrants do.

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:37

@nomas "That's rich, you run away from communities that have brown people and then complain their have ghettoised themselves. Why don't you stay and integrate with the cultures around you."

Couple of points here. Firstly, Muslims are every bit as unlikely to "integrate" as white British people. In fact, they're even less likely to "permit" their daughters to marry someone outside of their own religion. Secondly @Firtreefiona gave no indication that she was "running away" from brown people. If you live in a deprived area with a major influx of immigrants, you are the least able to run anywhere. You're probably living in social housing for a start, so you can't just sell up and go. And when she said that the ruling classes don't live in those areas, she's right. You can't argue with that.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Quine0nline · 18/03/2026 15:32

So if the UK is so HIDEOUSLY racist, why are people travelling so far to come here for asylum? Yes, we have a welfare system but other countries have better and more generous systems. Our climate is not exactly the same as the countries they have left.
Coming to "sock it to whitey?" I doubt it. "Coming to the colonial motherland" no.

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:38

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:37

@nomas "That's rich, you run away from communities that have brown people and then complain their have ghettoised themselves. Why don't you stay and integrate with the cultures around you."

Couple of points here. Firstly, Muslims are every bit as unlikely to "integrate" as white British people. In fact, they're even less likely to "permit" their daughters to marry someone outside of their own religion. Secondly @Firtreefiona gave no indication that she was "running away" from brown people. If you live in a deprived area with a major influx of immigrants, you are the least able to run anywhere. You're probably living in social housing for a start, so you can't just sell up and go. And when she said that the ruling classes don't live in those areas, she's right. You can't argue with that.

Except that white flight is a proven phenomenon.

oldshprite · 18/03/2026 15:39

uk is ok in terms of racism, if you compare to eastern europe (i grew up there) where it is rife, as well as switzerland where i have the ‘pleasure’ of residing in atm. prob still better than the rest of europe. if you find it unsettling, dont try moving to other places in europe as it is MUCH worse.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:39

They will be making up that school day on another day. A teaching day is not lost.

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:40

All these people talking about how immigrants "must learn the language" or they are totally unemployable... I wonder how you think our nursing homes and hospitals would function without immigrants doing the lowest paid jobs, cleaning, caring etc

hairbearbunches · 18/03/2026 15:41

We have significant numbers of people living in this country from different cultures who don't get along. It never gets mentioned and the inference is that its always 'white working class knuckle draggers' who are behind the rise in racism. I was friendly with a girl from Eastern Europe for a time and the racism that came out of her mouth was unreal. It was worse than anything I've ever heard a native Brit say. Fell out with her in the end. I think a lot of the rise in xenophobic behaviour is not coming from Brits. We've always had a small racist tendency but are consistently top of country polls for being the most welcoming.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:42

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

Lots of countries plundered lots of countries. We were plundered by the Danes, Romans and French, we got over it. It's about time others let go of what Brits many years ago did. I have no axe to grind with the Italians for example. Ditto the Danes.

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:43

oldshprite · 18/03/2026 15:39

uk is ok in terms of racism, if you compare to eastern europe (i grew up there) where it is rife, as well as switzerland where i have the ‘pleasure’ of residing in atm. prob still better than the rest of europe. if you find it unsettling, dont try moving to other places in europe as it is MUCH worse.

This!

JustSawJohnny · 18/03/2026 15:43

I agree with you.

It feels like we've regressed 40 years in the blink of an eye.

What annoys me is how many grown adults are either too stupid to know when they're being lied too or so racist that they'll happily go along with the lie as long as it suits their hateful narrative.

All manufactured, IMO. The public are being played liked puppets for political gain.

It's Trump playbook 2.0 - rile up the great unwashed with lies then fool them into believing rich, white men will save the day.

But we all know who rich white men look after, don't we?

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:36

You are proved wrong by the blue collar jobs that immigrants do.

If they are in employment they will have learnt the language- as they should.

Vivi0 · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

Oh, that old chestnut.

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:44

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:38

Except that white flight is a proven phenomenon.

It doesn't negate the fact that Muslims are highly unlikely to integrate with their white British or even Black British neighbours though.

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:44

Gloriia · 18/03/2026 15:42

Lots of countries plundered lots of countries. We were plundered by the Danes, Romans and French, we got over it. It's about time others let go of what Brits many years ago did. I have no axe to grind with the Italians for example. Ditto the Danes.

Edited

But Brits are still causing havoc in the world, arming regimes with weapons.

You can take immigrants and refugees as reparation.

5128gap · 18/03/2026 15:45

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:10

And I do think another issue is that the ruling classes don’t live in these ghettoised communities. They live far from them, and yet expect the native community to just suck up lots of new arrivals otherwise they’re ’racist Bigots’. Champagne socialist middle class MP’s could do with getting out and about a bit more and properly listening to people’s validly held concerns.

In what way do you feel that having neighbours that are not white British has made your area worse? This doesn't resonate with me at all. Our local mosque is an asset to the community, arranges all sorts from baby classes to wellbeing sessions, litter picks and a curry van with free meals for people who are struggling for food. The local businesses have elevated the area, planting flowers outside restaurants and shops, and I genuinely don't see any problems. What is happening in your area that you'd like people to see and listen to your concerns about?

Wellthisisdifficult · 18/03/2026 15:46

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:37

Because Britain plundered their countries and told them Britain is the best.

lol. So you are suggesting that these people coming to Britain would rather the British Empire still existed and think that their countries were better under British rule??? Now they’re not under British rule they think the next best thing is to come to Britain? Well that’s a whole new take I’ve never seen before, not something I agree with and glad the Empire started to disintegrate well before most people alive now were born. Gives everyone a chance to move on. It’s not great one culture striding into another and imposing their culture on the host as often happens during empires

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:46

ginasevern · 18/03/2026 15:44

It doesn't negate the fact that Muslims are highly unlikely to integrate with their white British or even Black British neighbours though.

Bullshit. Have a look at the thread where a woman posted about her Pakistani neighbours bringing her food every week. So many stories of Muslims being generous to non-Muslims.

Just because Muslims don't want to do some things (drink alcohol, get pissed, go clubbing) doesn't mean they don't integrate in their own way.

Paganpentacle · 18/03/2026 15:46

Squarehairbear · 18/03/2026 15:40

All these people talking about how immigrants "must learn the language" or they are totally unemployable... I wonder how you think our nursing homes and hospitals would function without immigrants doing the lowest paid jobs, cleaning, caring etc

Even more important they they speak the language- unless you think its OK for your granny to not be able to understand what her caregivers are saying?

Firtreefiona · 18/03/2026 15:47

nomas · 18/03/2026 15:38

Except that white flight is a proven phenomenon.

Why would you stay in a ‘community’ where people make no attempt to learn English? Would you feel comfortable in that environment?

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