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Just get mounjaro!

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Pinklightning · 17/03/2026 08:04

The more threads I read, the more and more posters seem to respond with “just get mounjaro” for posters wanting to lose as little as 10 lbs to get within a healthy BMI. More traditional methods of weight loss appear to be out of fashion and as though you’d be foolish to do it the perceived hard way when you can just inject a drug.
I was reading a thread where a poster had a BMI of just over 25 who was told to just get WLIs. What happened to them being for those who are obese?
Is this the way things are going now? Gained a few pounds over Christmas or on holiday? Just inject and don’t worry about it!
Anybody going against the grain of weight loss injections is often accused of being jealous. It’s a bit cult like on some threads as though WLI are the only valid way to lose weight and you’d be foolish to try any other way because “diets don’t work” and just adopting a healthier diet and lifestyle is laughable; a fool’s game and you’ll end up fat again. Well, yes, if you go back to your old habits, just like any method of weight loss.

Just a bit of a rant really on this sunny Tuesday!

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BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:39

hobbledyhoy · 17/03/2026 17:37

I’ve been on the med express website and even when I plug in that my bmi would be 27 it doesn’t offer it to me?

Oh damn, I didn’t check! Stored that info for potential future use!

Its wrong then 🤦‍♀️

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:41

Aluna · 17/03/2026 17:10

Well there you go that’s how little I am invested in this subject.

That being the case why not accept posters on this thread are here to discuss specifically the use of jabs where not medically indicated, potentially at the expense of natural options.

Because some and calling people lazy for using them and I think that’s nasty, Ill-informed and goady.

So, I’ll jump in and say they’re wrong, it is after all a forum!

And you don’t police it.

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:43

Hereforthecommentz · 17/03/2026 17:16

I agree. He lost his mum last year, I think he just lost a bit of care for himself in general. Perfectly normal under the circs. Also his job changed from manual to now management so naturally less calories burnt. Now he's got the running bug he seems a lot happier. I'm a runner myself and am a big advocate for excersize for mental health. He is definitely happier, I hope he sticks to it and he is quite a determined person once he puts his mind to something! Thank you

Eek a comfort eater, really likely to revert to that after stress.

Oh well 🤷‍♀️.

Aluna · 17/03/2026 17:46

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:41

Because some and calling people lazy for using them and I think that’s nasty, Ill-informed and goady.

So, I’ll jump in and say they’re wrong, it is after all a forum!

And you don’t police it.

Are you claiming it’s ill informed to question the use of jabs against medical indication?

It would not be correct to argue that is “wrong”.

As you say it’s a forum - thus people are free to express their views even if you don’t like them.

hellesbells · 17/03/2026 17:50

Didimum · 17/03/2026 08:31

I think it used to be 35, or 30 with co-morbidities.

Regardless, I’m under the impression that most people just lie on online prescriber sites. My boss just filled out a form, stating she weighed more than she did and she received them. I think more are clamping down on this, but it certainly became very easy to simply get them if you wanted.

But when they ask her for the video weighing herself and photo (because they all do) what did she do?

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:51

Aluna · 17/03/2026 17:46

Are you claiming it’s ill informed to question the use of jabs against medical indication?

It would not be correct to argue that is “wrong”.

As you say it’s a forum - thus people are free to express their views even if you don’t like them.

I’m saying that people are able to make their own decisions.

Some will abuse the drug, as with other medication.

Im wondering why OP is not more concerned with the abuse of prescribed meds, that cost the NHS to prescribe them.

Im wondering if she judges those people, or is this just a goady thread, encouraging others to slate WLI users, telling them they’re lazy, it’ll all go back on blah blah.

I somehow feel that OP is not really concerned about the well being of WLI user or if they’re going g to be a burden in the future of the NHS. She doesn’t mention any of that.

Meladram · 17/03/2026 17:53

Sensiblesal · 17/03/2026 10:31

Whenever I see adverts for MJ the people are normal sized & in my opinion don’t need it. Then look at Kelly Osbourne!

however, there is a tiktok for MJ users where it has clearly changed people’s lives from using it. Then you have other people using it but doing tiktoks of them eating how they were previously so not learning new habits.

It really runs the risk of becoming a tool for people with disordered eating to abuse. I think it definitely needs to be restricted to those who need it & need to lose a significant amount of weight.

Alcohol runs the risk of people who are prone to addiction using it, should be prescription only!!! 😂
Hang on though, I'll just stick this highly addictive life ruining substance in with me sprouts, and nobody will give a flying fuck because it's not giving me a competitive edge over you.
The only reason anybody gives a shit about who does and doesn't get these drugs is because it means our internalised egregious feelings towards fat folk are being laid bare.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 17:55

Aluna · 17/03/2026 17:36

@Wildgoat 80 percent of people who lose weight through dieting alone regain it all back , obesity is a relapse disease, where the bodies metabolism works against them

An uncomfortable truth unacknowledged here is that people regain weight after a dieting if they haven’t reformed their eating habits and addressed the mental and emotional drivers behind overeating. For some that may be addictive patterns (regardless of whether they’re actually diagnosed with food addiction), for others it will be binge eating disorder etc; for some it will be lack of education about normal sized portions, good quality food and nutrition; for others lack of exercise; or a combination of the above etc.

Neither jabs or diets will work alone unless people are prepared to tackle the underlying patterns.

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Just a musing but, I do wonder if WLI should be managed by nurse led weight loss clinics with psychological, dietary, lifestyle and other support available. I'm just wondering if it'd improve outcomes but I suppose it's probably be cheaper to prescribe WLI exclusively.

Perimenoanti · 17/03/2026 17:55

I8toys · 17/03/2026 17:08

Why so defensive? It was a genuine question/comment. There should be a point when there is no longer a need for a drug and spending money unnecessarily on it.

Says who? For many obesity is a relapsing medical condition, that's why there is a maintenance dose. Just like someone might stay on antidepressants even though they are no longer anxious or depressed.

aredrosegrewup · 17/03/2026 17:56

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 17:55

Just a musing but, I do wonder if WLI should be managed by nurse led weight loss clinics with psychological, dietary, lifestyle and other support available. I'm just wondering if it'd improve outcomes but I suppose it's probably be cheaper to prescribe WLI exclusively.

They already are, but you'd only know that if you took them.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 17:57

aredrosegrewup · 17/03/2026 17:56

They already are, but you'd only know that if you took them.

For all users? I'm just curious.

Binus · 17/03/2026 18:00

Aluna · 17/03/2026 17:23

But that’s not what I said is it. I said why not discuss the OP’s topic (rather than veer into another WLI support thread.)

The difficulty here is that OP didn't actually elucidate her AIBU. There's more than one possible question she might be asking. She may want to know if she's BU to think this is happening. She may be starting from the premise that she's correct, but is she BU to talk about it, or are the people who she describes BU. You also said it's a thread about the overuse of MJ, rather than what people are saying about it. That wasn't how I read it, but let's say you're right then it's another potential way to read it. Because of this, a particularly wide range of responses are potentially on topic.

Your first post in this subdiscussion was to someone who evidently does think OP is BU to make the thread that she did, and your response was that people who think that should perhaps go to a different subforum rather than reply on this thread.

DotAndCarryOne2 · 17/03/2026 18:03

Reliablesource · 17/03/2026 08:28

What I can’t get my head around is when critics of Mounjaro say it is safe to use for diabetes but maybe not for weight loss. If the drug is safe, it is safe! Your body doesn’t know what you are taking it for.

Also don’t understand the obsession that some people have with WLI who don’t need or plan to take them. What’s it got to do with you whether other people want to use them?

I don’t think it can be regarded as ‘safe’ for either purpose because the long term effects are not yet known. The difference is that for diabetes, the benefits outweigh the risks - for weight loss, not so much.

Wildgoat · 17/03/2026 18:04

hobbledyhoy · 17/03/2026 17:37

I’ve been on the med express website and even when I plug in that my bmi would be 27 it doesn’t offer it to me?

They are advertising it, so I’d email them, I don’t think it’s done via normal application.

SilenceInside · 17/03/2026 18:05

To address the OPs points specifically:

More traditional methods of weight loss appear to be out of fashion and as though you’d be foolish to do it the perceived hard way when you can just inject a drug.

Using WLI is clearly very popular at the moment, and "traditional" diets like WW, SW etc are losing numbers and changing to try to attract people who take WLI. So, yes, WLI are certainly popular and traditional diets are less so. However, the idea that you'd be foolish to not use WLI is a projection from the OP and not anything that I have seen widely discussed or suggested. People who respond with "just take Mounjaro" on a thread about someone wanting to lose weight are not giving a considered opinion, and are usually very ignorant of what "just taking Mounjaro" actually involves. They are aware of the existence of WLI but don't understand that in the UK they are prescription only and not intended for weight loss in individuals who are at a healthy weight or only a small amount overweight.

I was reading a thread where a poster had a BMI of just over 25 who was told to just get WLIs. What happened to them being for those who are obese?
Is this the way things are going now? Gained a few pounds over Christmas or on holiday? Just inject and don’t worry about it!

Some people on that thread suggested Mounjaro. They were ill-informed comments as the OP had not stated her BMI or her height/weight in the OP, and as already mentioned, many people who have heard about WLI are ignorant of the specifics. Plenty of other posters pointed out that suggesting WLI was not a sensible response, with details as to why. That's a fairly normal discussion, imo. It's not evidence that there is the widespread opinion that WLI are for general use to lose a few pounds.

Anybody going against the grain of weight loss injections is often accused of being jealous.

This does happen. I don't make accusations like that, some posters do. It's not everyone by any means at all. I think that sometimes people who post "anti-WLI" posts that are full of total nonsense might deserve some snippy responses.

It’s a bit cult like on some threads as though WLI are the only valid way to lose weight and you’d be foolish to try any other way because “diets don’t work” and just adopting a healthier diet and lifestyle is laughable; a fool’s game and you’ll end up fat again. Well, yes, if you go back to your old habits, just like any method of weight loss.

I think this is misunderstanding the response to people being told variations on "eat less, move more" as if it's that trite and simple, and getting fed up with people thinking that obesity is easily reversed and that if you can't manage it then you are lazy or somehow morally failing. In response to those sorts of posts, which happen often (examples on this thread), people who take WLI will respond and point out the flaws in that line of reasoning. That doesn't make people a cult, it makes them a group of people with a similar set of experiences who will discuss that online.

Diets don't work, that is not really a debate worth having. The chances of an obese person losing weight and maintaining that weight loss long term, are very very small.

Wildgoat · 17/03/2026 18:06

DotAndCarryOne2 · 17/03/2026 18:03

I don’t think it can be regarded as ‘safe’ for either purpose because the long term effects are not yet known. The difference is that for diabetes, the benefits outweigh the risks - for weight loss, not so much.

Oh my, surely no one is this Ill informed? How did we get to 2026 and anyone exists who doesn’t know obesity is the biggest killer in our society, the number one cause of cancer, before we even touch on the other significant health conditions. Surely not.

Didimum · 17/03/2026 18:06

hellesbells · 17/03/2026 17:50

But when they ask her for the video weighing herself and photo (because they all do) what did she do?

No idea. I didn’t ask. She definitely lied about her weight and definitely was prescribed and took the jabs. She told me she did and she lost 2 stone on them. There was a post on here last week where a poster, bmi 25, also filled out a form on a pharmacy website, and was approved overnight.

SilenceInside · 17/03/2026 18:08

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 17:55

Just a musing but, I do wonder if WLI should be managed by nurse led weight loss clinics with psychological, dietary, lifestyle and other support available. I'm just wondering if it'd improve outcomes but I suppose it's probably be cheaper to prescribe WLI exclusively.

@DuchessofStaffordshire do you mean when WLI are prescribed on the NHS? Or do you think that's what private pharmacies should be required to offer?

The last thing I need is to be required to have pointless appointments to tell me things I already know about diet, lifestyle, psychology... in order to access an effective medication, privately at my own expense.

Binus · 17/03/2026 18:08

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 17:57

For all users? I'm just curious.

I get mine from a pharmacist and that's who's in charge of my care. That's private though, the NHS may be different. Is there a reason why you think nurses are better placed to deliver this care?

I wonder as well about the sort of support you think might be appropriate. Clearly some people do have mental health issues that intersect in some way with their obesity, but I'm wary of pathologising what is demonstrably pretty normal human behaviour when living in conditions very different from those we evolved from. Especially in the UK where we have a pretty obesogenic wider environment, and there's a limit to the extent that any individual can opt out of it. All rich countries get an obesity problem eventually of course, even Japan's rate is rising, but I think most would agree that some countries have less helpful environments than others in this respect.

Comtesse · 17/03/2026 18:09

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:51

I’m saying that people are able to make their own decisions.

Some will abuse the drug, as with other medication.

Im wondering why OP is not more concerned with the abuse of prescribed meds, that cost the NHS to prescribe them.

Im wondering if she judges those people, or is this just a goady thread, encouraging others to slate WLI users, telling them they’re lazy, it’ll all go back on blah blah.

I somehow feel that OP is not really concerned about the well being of WLI user or if they’re going g to be a burden in the future of the NHS. She doesn’t mention any of that.

Yes but you don’t get loads of people saying “this is how I lied to my health care provider to get extra painkillers” (or indeed other medication) all over MN…..

Aluna · 17/03/2026 18:11

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 17:51

I’m saying that people are able to make their own decisions.

Some will abuse the drug, as with other medication.

Im wondering why OP is not more concerned with the abuse of prescribed meds, that cost the NHS to prescribe them.

Im wondering if she judges those people, or is this just a goady thread, encouraging others to slate WLI users, telling them they’re lazy, it’ll all go back on blah blah.

I somehow feel that OP is not really concerned about the well being of WLI user or if they’re going g to be a burden in the future of the NHS. She doesn’t mention any of that.

A minute ago you were claiming it was goady to criticise clinically inappropriate use. Now it’s about people making their own decisions to use drugs against medical guidelines. Ok.

Deflection to other meds is just whataboutery. This thread is about abuse of these prescribed meds in particular.

The NHS has in any case taken major steps to control medication abuse. Now prescriptions are requested via app the consequence is much a tighter rein and record trail.

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 18:11

Comtesse · 17/03/2026 18:09

Yes but you don’t get loads of people saying “this is how I lied to my health care provider to get extra painkillers” (or indeed other medication) all over MN…..

of course you don’t, it’s just WLI as they’re a new phenomenon!

As I said OP is not concerned about anyone’s health, is she?

DuchessofStaffordshire · 17/03/2026 18:13

Binus · 17/03/2026 18:08

I get mine from a pharmacist and that's who's in charge of my care. That's private though, the NHS may be different. Is there a reason why you think nurses are better placed to deliver this care?

I wonder as well about the sort of support you think might be appropriate. Clearly some people do have mental health issues that intersect in some way with their obesity, but I'm wary of pathologising what is demonstrably pretty normal human behaviour when living in conditions very different from those we evolved from. Especially in the UK where we have a pretty obesogenic wider environment, and there's a limit to the extent that any individual can opt out of it. All rich countries get an obesity problem eventually of course, even Japan's rate is rising, but I think most would agree that some countries have less helpful environments than others in this respect.

It's a tough one. I do agree that it's harder these days but I do believe that people still have some degree of agency over the decisions they make.

Aluna · 17/03/2026 18:14

Wildgoat · 17/03/2026 18:06

Oh my, surely no one is this Ill informed? How did we get to 2026 and anyone exists who doesn’t know obesity is the biggest killer in our society, the number one cause of cancer, before we even touch on the other significant health conditions. Surely not.

It’s actually the second preventable cause after smoking.

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 18:14

Aluna · 17/03/2026 18:11

A minute ago you were claiming it was goady to criticise clinically inappropriate use. Now it’s about people making their own decisions to use drugs against medical guidelines. Ok.

Deflection to other meds is just whataboutery. This thread is about abuse of these prescribed meds in particular.

The NHS has in any case taken major steps to control medication abuse. Now prescriptions are requested via app the consequence is much a tighter rein and record trail.

Are they 🤔!

But I know people that are still abusing prescription meds!

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