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NarnianQueen · 16/03/2026 11:12

Browningpers · 14/03/2026 23:55

I’ve stopped even being polite about Reform voters now. If you vote Reform, you’re as thick as shit.

I don’t have a problem with someone being right wing - it’s a free country, they can hold whatever views they want - but Reform are seriously incompetent and don’t have single good idea. It’s total pub-bore, ill-thought through shite.

I just do not understand the appeal of this bunch of total grifters.

Ok but which party IS competent though?

i won’t be voting for Farage but i won’t be voting for Starmer who is literally bringing in fascism by the back door (abolishing juries, allowing arrests for hurty tweets, pushing for digital ID). I would honestly rather have an incompetent leader than an evil one.

Not sure why people are laughing at the idea of sharia law - it’s an inevitability once there are enough Muslims in power, which is only a matter of time.

PandoraSocks · 16/03/2026 11:13

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 11:02

I've explained why I think governments often call elections when there is a change of leader or a change of circumstances, I think this will be one of them. Their hand will otherwise be forced.

Why civil unrest? I mean there is a pretty damned long list, nothing works, the roads are deteriorating in front of us, the welfare state keeps ballooning, our military has been hollowed out to the point of taking 10 days to send one ship to a war we knew was going to happen, the populations clear desire to see our borders being controlled and the government just not doing it, price inflation, wages stagnation, perceived crime increasing, lack of social mobility and house ownership for young people, debt here there and everywhere. The courts are a shambles, there's no justice and delays to everything. Everything is so dirty, covered in crap with rubbish all over. People wander around town off their tits, smashing things, shoplifting, or just lying on the floor curled up in a ball or shitting in bus shelters or kids play parks.

Everything is totally fucked and it takes 5m looking out your own window to see it. We are utterly paralysed by red tape, unelected bodies, social stigmas that prevent us seeing what is right in front of our eyes.

It's the last damned days of Rome but it's happening faster and it's being televised and live tweeted

If anyone still needs a damned clue about WHY people are looking at Reform and Restore - it's because of this. It's real, it's happening and pretending it's not is getting us nowhere fast.

All those things have been happening for years, sadly. There has been no civil unrest so severe it triggers a GE, so far.

I get the feeling you are setting out what you hope will happen.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 11:16

PandoraSocks · 16/03/2026 11:13

All those things have been happening for years, sadly. There has been no civil unrest so severe it triggers a GE, so far.

I get the feeling you are setting out what you hope will happen.

History happens very slowly and then all at once.

PandoraSocks · 16/03/2026 11:17

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 11:16

History happens very slowly and then all at once.

Well, time will tell.

SnowyRock · 16/03/2026 11:26

JingsMahBucket · 14/03/2026 21:19

Right wing English people keep stupidly and spitefully voting to hobble themselves, their children and everyone else. It’s frustrating because the other 3 countries keep voting against this horse shit.

You mean the Welsh and people in the Midlands and north of England keep voting it?
Scotland is still dominated by SNP, but given thats a nationalist party its likely they would have a lot of reform voters if not for SNP too.
The votes which dont go to SNP are primarily still right wing in Scotland.
The south of england is basically the only area counteracting the mess votes elsewhere would be causing.

MsGreying · 16/03/2026 11:48

We need parties who are realistic about how much money we have to spend.
Unless we can grow the economy we're doomed.

www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 12:01

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 08:37

I’m not disputing that fuel is cheaper in the United States, but saying that’s because they’ve “rejected net zero” is a bit misleading. The US has some of the lowest fuel taxes in the developed world and is one of the largest oil producers on the planet. That’s the main reason their petrol is cheaper. Prices have sky records under the Trump administration.
In the UK a large proportion of what we pay at the pump is fuel duty and VAT. Even if the UK scrapped net zero tomorrow, petrol here would still likely be far more expensive because of taxation, not climate policy.

On tariffs, while they can protect certain industries in the short term, they also raise prices across the economy. When tariffs are imposed, businesses that rely on imported materials pay more and those costs usually get passed on to consumers. Now your average Americans shopping basket has doubled due to Tariffs
Other countries also tend to retaliate with their own tariffs, which can hurt exporters. So while tariffs might help a few sectors, the evidence overall is pretty clear on how damaging it is to the economy.

As for immigration at the southern US border, those numbers fluctuate for lots of reasons beyond who happens to be in the White House. Economic crises, political instability (err.. wars - hello) , and migration patterns in Latin America all play a role. Border encounters have been high under multiple administrations partly because enforcement and monitoring have increased, meaning more people are being detected rather than simply slipping through unnoticed.

And on ICE being “heavy handed”, that’s exactly why it’s controversial. Some states limit cooperation with federal immigration enforcement because they believe local police should focus on local crime rather than acting as immigration officers, as it can reduce trust in law enforcement within communities.

You are certainly over exaggerating some points and oversimplifying others in my opinion.

I believe we too could have better energy security if we were to exploit our own resources and stopped adding net zero costs to the price of fuel. We have chosen not to. If the USA had a net zero energy policy like those in the UK and Europe, and decided not to “drill baby drill” anymore, their fuel prices would go up.

As it stands the rise that you see is a rebound after Covid. Where demand for fuel was so low during 2020 the prices of gas went right down. The prices then rocketed under the Biden administration as well.

As for raised prices in the supermarkets, I spend a lot of time in the USA every single year. Months at a time. I have not seen what you’ve stated, reflected in my shopping basket. There have been some goods that have risen in price, similarly to over here in the UK, but my shopping basket has nowhere near doubled. Are you American? I am not sure where you’ve got this information from because even inflation does not reflect the doubling of all products.

As for the southern border, increased enforcement and surveillance has most definitely had an impact on the amount of border crossings. Millions of people entered the US illegally under the Democrat administration. Numbers are significantly lower under Trump.

Finally, where issues have occurred with ICE, it is normally in blue cities. Full cooperation with ICE could have avoided many of the tragedies we have seen.

i’ve told you before, we have fundamentally different ideologies. And whilst you might see the party Reform as a disaster, I see hope.

Two things can be looked at in very different ways depending on the person and their values. We could keep trying to correct each other over fuel costs or border crossings, but honestly we aren’t likely to get anywhere and that is because we both have very different beliefs.

I do not mind who you vote for. I would never call you stupid for who you decide to vote for, even though the Greens send chills down my spine and I can’t understand for the life of me why anybody would vote for them. But I accept that we all see the world very differently and you will have your reasons for who you vote. I am sick of these threads blindly calling Reform voters ignorant, stupid, thick, when we just have a different set of values and are choosing a party that best reflects those values. Your fear of that it’s not my problem.

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 13:12

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 12:01

You are certainly over exaggerating some points and oversimplifying others in my opinion.

I believe we too could have better energy security if we were to exploit our own resources and stopped adding net zero costs to the price of fuel. We have chosen not to. If the USA had a net zero energy policy like those in the UK and Europe, and decided not to “drill baby drill” anymore, their fuel prices would go up.

As it stands the rise that you see is a rebound after Covid. Where demand for fuel was so low during 2020 the prices of gas went right down. The prices then rocketed under the Biden administration as well.

As for raised prices in the supermarkets, I spend a lot of time in the USA every single year. Months at a time. I have not seen what you’ve stated, reflected in my shopping basket. There have been some goods that have risen in price, similarly to over here in the UK, but my shopping basket has nowhere near doubled. Are you American? I am not sure where you’ve got this information from because even inflation does not reflect the doubling of all products.

As for the southern border, increased enforcement and surveillance has most definitely had an impact on the amount of border crossings. Millions of people entered the US illegally under the Democrat administration. Numbers are significantly lower under Trump.

Finally, where issues have occurred with ICE, it is normally in blue cities. Full cooperation with ICE could have avoided many of the tragedies we have seen.

i’ve told you before, we have fundamentally different ideologies. And whilst you might see the party Reform as a disaster, I see hope.

Two things can be looked at in very different ways depending on the person and their values. We could keep trying to correct each other over fuel costs or border crossings, but honestly we aren’t likely to get anywhere and that is because we both have very different beliefs.

I do not mind who you vote for. I would never call you stupid for who you decide to vote for, even though the Greens send chills down my spine and I can’t understand for the life of me why anybody would vote for them. But I accept that we all see the world very differently and you will have your reasons for who you vote. I am sick of these threads blindly calling Reform voters ignorant, stupid, thick, when we just have a different set of values and are choosing a party that best reflects those values. Your fear of that it’s not my problem.

This sounds straight out of the MAGA cult handbook. Get your facts straight and stop spreading misinformation - you are dangerous. FOX news isn’t even a registered news channel, it’s ’entertainment’ the dailymail doesn’t count as I legitimate news source either.
The US is under a fascist authoritarian regime and we’re entering a very dangerous time.
You shopping in the states occasionally when you take a holiday there isn’t evidence enough that Tariffs don’t work, or spouting nonsense that ‘if people in blue states just abided by the ‘law’ it wouldn’t be an issue’. This is false. ICE have been known to drag children away on their way to school because they’re brown, when they are waving their legal documents in their faces. ICE have not been showing any warrants - they are the ones acting illegally. Fortunately this is all well documented and they will be prosecuted. Especially the ICE agents who have murdered US citizens, including an ICU nurse. The footage is there for anyone to see but I suspect you only want to hear what you to hear.
Are you Pam Bondi? 🤣

Blueharmonica · 16/03/2026 13:28

MsGreying · 16/03/2026 11:48

We need parties who are realistic about how much money we have to spend.
Unless we can grow the economy we're doomed.

www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/

Yep and every tax on success lowers growth, every tax on education lowers growth, every poorly thought out employment legislation lowers growth, every light touch policing policy lowers growth, every housing tax hurts growth, every benefit that disincentives work hurts growth, making tax submissions more regular and onerous hurts growth, every alarming act of thought policing attempts hurts growth….so why is it all our Government ever do? Have they done anything that could remotely be considered even neutral on growth rather than negative?

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:00

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 13:12

This sounds straight out of the MAGA cult handbook. Get your facts straight and stop spreading misinformation - you are dangerous. FOX news isn’t even a registered news channel, it’s ’entertainment’ the dailymail doesn’t count as I legitimate news source either.
The US is under a fascist authoritarian regime and we’re entering a very dangerous time.
You shopping in the states occasionally when you take a holiday there isn’t evidence enough that Tariffs don’t work, or spouting nonsense that ‘if people in blue states just abided by the ‘law’ it wouldn’t be an issue’. This is false. ICE have been known to drag children away on their way to school because they’re brown, when they are waving their legal documents in their faces. ICE have not been showing any warrants - they are the ones acting illegally. Fortunately this is all well documented and they will be prosecuted. Especially the ICE agents who have murdered US citizens, including an ICU nurse. The footage is there for anyone to see but I suspect you only want to hear what you to hear.
Are you Pam Bondi? 🤣

Thank you for responding with a rant and resorting to ‘maga cult’ insults and accusations that my views are based on a holiday.

Your emotional tirade has no verifiable facts and a couple of contested examples. It was not the most productive use of my time to read.

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:07

Blueharmonica · 16/03/2026 13:28

Yep and every tax on success lowers growth, every tax on education lowers growth, every poorly thought out employment legislation lowers growth, every light touch policing policy lowers growth, every housing tax hurts growth, every benefit that disincentives work hurts growth, making tax submissions more regular and onerous hurts growth, every alarming act of thought policing attempts hurts growth….so why is it all our Government ever do? Have they done anything that could remotely be considered even neutral on growth rather than negative?

No, they haven’t. I can’t work out why.

Is it because they don’t have experience in business and generating wealth?

Or is the fudging the books, where they believe more people = higher GDP, so the country looks like it’s doing better than it is?

Or is it deliberately trying to tank the economy, so they can bring in new policies that would be seen as too controversial outside of desperate times?

I just can’t make sense of it. You’d think they’d realise that you can’t tax your way to growth…I mean, they have probably heard that exact line a million times.

EasternStandard · 16/03/2026 14:23

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:07

No, they haven’t. I can’t work out why.

Is it because they don’t have experience in business and generating wealth?

Or is the fudging the books, where they believe more people = higher GDP, so the country looks like it’s doing better than it is?

Or is it deliberately trying to tank the economy, so they can bring in new policies that would be seen as too controversial outside of desperate times?

I just can’t make sense of it. You’d think they’d realise that you can’t tax your way to growth…I mean, they have probably heard that exact line a million times.

Starmer and Reeves have said the lines you can’t tax your way to growth, but probably don’t get it due to your first question.

Nosea · 16/03/2026 14:29

I would have preferred Sunak

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:30

Nosea · 16/03/2026 14:29

I would have preferred Sunak

I liked Sunak. I wish he’d been stronger on a few issues, like net zero.

I really like Kemi. I think she’d be a very good PM. But I think now is the wrong time. It’s too late for the Conservatives.

NeverStopDancing · 16/03/2026 14:59

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 09:52

It's a Reform/Restore/Tory coalition or - The Greens

Lead by a man who thinks women can have a penis
We should get rid of our nuclear deterrent and wants

TOTAL OPEN BORDERS AND NO DRUG LAWS

It's A Reform win or frankly it's almost civil war. We are in way more trouble than you think.

You forgot Labour, they will get a second term I believe, I don't think Greens will win or Reform.

Wellthisisdifficult · 16/03/2026 15:05

NeverStopDancing · 16/03/2026 14:59

You forgot Labour, they will get a second term I believe, I don't think Greens will win or Reform.

Dear God o hope not, 2 years in they’ve already really fucked things up - they got in on the “we need change” ticket! People now know they’re a shit show. I highly suspect we will have a Right coalition of the Tories, Reform and Restore Britain.

Wellthisisdifficult · 16/03/2026 15:06

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:30

I liked Sunak. I wish he’d been stronger on a few issues, like net zero.

I really like Kemi. I think she’d be a very good PM. But I think now is the wrong time. It’s too late for the Conservatives.

I think the best they can hope for is a coalition with Reform and potentially Restore Britain with strategic fielding of candidates.

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 15:08

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 14:00

Thank you for responding with a rant and resorting to ‘maga cult’ insults and accusations that my views are based on a holiday.

Your emotional tirade has no verifiable facts and a couple of contested examples. It was not the most productive use of my time to read.

I’m happy to discuss this calmly, but you don’t seem interested in facts or evidence - much like Trump. If you think I’m wrong, please provide verifiable sources for the specific claims.

For example:

  1. Evidence that Donald Trump’s policies and actions have kept oil and petrol prices low (ideally data showing a link between his policies and price changes).
  2. Evidence that tariffs have had a positive impact on the US economy, such as GDP growth, wage growth, manufacturing output, or trade balance improvements directly attributed to those tariffs.
  3. Evidence that the ICE actions discussed are legal , including court rulings or legal analyses confirming that the specific actions in question comply with US law

If there are credible studies, government reports, or court decisions supporting those points, I’d genuinely like to read them (no Fox News, daily fail)

Otherwise, it’s difficult to have a productive conversation with you.

I’d be interested in seeing the evidence behind your admiration for Donald Trump given the 34 felony convictions, multiple bankruptcies (8 I believe) and his repeated appearance in the Epstein files. If there’s solid evidence supporting your position, I’m open to reading it.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 15:53

NeverStopDancing · 16/03/2026 14:59

You forgot Labour, they will get a second term I believe, I don't think Greens will win or Reform.

Labour will get less seats than the Greens I think. They certainly will not win.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 15:55

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/03/2026 10:20

Better stats - https://electionmaps.uk/nowcast

And I think Starmer will resign in May, the Labour Party will take 3 months or so to elect Streeting with Rayner coming second and Streeting will be forced to call an election in late 26 more likely 27 in order to show his government has the confidence of the country. The green poll numbers right now will keep going up, though I think hey have maybe a 25% ceiling.

Streeting won't get the backing of the country and a likely unofficial back room but well planned "don't put up a candidate here and we won't put one up there" between Restore, Reform and the Tories will lead to a very clear right wing win with Reform as the major partner and Farage as Prime Minister.

This will be against a background of serious conflict, I think possibly against both Russia and China, which we will be crushed in though not invaded and the economic fallout of the entire thing will decimate the planet for 20 years.

We live in very interesting times. We are at the top of the rollercoaster just starting to tip downwards.

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@Wellthisisdifficult seconded on a coaliton being the most likely outcome next time

Nosea · 16/03/2026 16:15

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 15:08

I’m happy to discuss this calmly, but you don’t seem interested in facts or evidence - much like Trump. If you think I’m wrong, please provide verifiable sources for the specific claims.

For example:

  1. Evidence that Donald Trump’s policies and actions have kept oil and petrol prices low (ideally data showing a link between his policies and price changes).
  2. Evidence that tariffs have had a positive impact on the US economy, such as GDP growth, wage growth, manufacturing output, or trade balance improvements directly attributed to those tariffs.
  3. Evidence that the ICE actions discussed are legal , including court rulings or legal analyses confirming that the specific actions in question comply with US law

If there are credible studies, government reports, or court decisions supporting those points, I’d genuinely like to read them (no Fox News, daily fail)

Otherwise, it’s difficult to have a productive conversation with you.

I’d be interested in seeing the evidence behind your admiration for Donald Trump given the 34 felony convictions, multiple bankruptcies (8 I believe) and his repeated appearance in the Epstein files. If there’s solid evidence supporting your position, I’m open to reading it.

Trump’s pro-drilling, pro-pipeline, pro-permitting stance coincided with very high U.S. oil output, and higher U.S. output likely helped restrain crude and gasoline prices at the margin. At least under him America went to export energy and used home grown energy.

Section 301 tariffs increased estimated U.S. production of audio and video equipment by about 6–7%, and other general-purpose machinery by a little over 5%

Steel and aluminium benefitted.

ICE are detaining and removing illegal aliens. Illegal aliens break the law by being illegal.

The "felony convictions" are for business records. Lots of people are in the Epstein files, no evidence of misconduct. And also some companies didn't work out, but he's still very wealthy.

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 16:59

Nosea · 16/03/2026 16:15

Trump’s pro-drilling, pro-pipeline, pro-permitting stance coincided with very high U.S. oil output, and higher U.S. output likely helped restrain crude and gasoline prices at the margin. At least under him America went to export energy and used home grown energy.

Section 301 tariffs increased estimated U.S. production of audio and video equipment by about 6–7%, and other general-purpose machinery by a little over 5%

Steel and aluminium benefitted.

ICE are detaining and removing illegal aliens. Illegal aliens break the law by being illegal.

The "felony convictions" are for business records. Lots of people are in the Epstein files, no evidence of misconduct. And also some companies didn't work out, but he's still very wealthy.

Not a fan of evidence of facts are we.
lets set the record straight - US oil production did reach very high levels during the presidency of Trump, but the increase had already been underway for years because of the shale boom and new drilling technology.

Production rose during the administrations of George Bush and Obama. Analysts at the US Energy Information Administration usually attribute most of the growth to market forces and technology rather than one administration. The US also became a net energy exporter in 2019 partly because Congress ended the crude export ban in 2015.

As you mentioned, Section 301 tariffs did increase output in some protected sectors. Studies estimate about a 6 to 7 percent rise in some electronics equipment and about a 5 percent rise in certain machinery. But economists at the National Bureau of Economic Research say the tariffs also raised costs for companies that import parts and led to higher prices for consumers. China’s retaliation reduced U.S. farm exports and the government spent billions compensating farmers.

Steel and aluminum producers benefited from the tariffs. However industries using those metals employ far more workers and faced higher input costs. Studies found that job losses in metal using industries likely offset the gains in steel production.

On immigration, being in the country without authorisation does violate immigration law and enforcement is carried out by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement. BUT immigration violations are civil rather than criminal matters and research finds undocumented immigrants commit crimes at lower rates than native born citizens.

For the felony cases involving Donald Trump - Prosecutors argued the records were falsified to conceal another offence, which is why the jury convicted him.

Jeffrey Epstein and the files - if you are best pals will a pedophile for over 10 years, and have your names featured more than any other person (more times than Jesus in the bible) in the files, with multiple victims accusing you of wrong doing including rape. Why not release them? What’s there to hide? Surely that would stop the accusations immediately.

On business success, Trump remains wealthy thanks to the inheritance from his father. However despite the great wealth he inherited at birth, he still managed to go bankrupt 6 times. That doesn’t strike me as a great business man.

24kPalamino · 16/03/2026 17:09

Plasticdreams · 16/03/2026 15:08

I’m happy to discuss this calmly, but you don’t seem interested in facts or evidence - much like Trump. If you think I’m wrong, please provide verifiable sources for the specific claims.

For example:

  1. Evidence that Donald Trump’s policies and actions have kept oil and petrol prices low (ideally data showing a link between his policies and price changes).
  2. Evidence that tariffs have had a positive impact on the US economy, such as GDP growth, wage growth, manufacturing output, or trade balance improvements directly attributed to those tariffs.
  3. Evidence that the ICE actions discussed are legal , including court rulings or legal analyses confirming that the specific actions in question comply with US law

If there are credible studies, government reports, or court decisions supporting those points, I’d genuinely like to read them (no Fox News, daily fail)

Otherwise, it’s difficult to have a productive conversation with you.

I’d be interested in seeing the evidence behind your admiration for Donald Trump given the 34 felony convictions, multiple bankruptcies (8 I believe) and his repeated appearance in the Epstein files. If there’s solid evidence supporting your position, I’m open to reading it.

Supporting Donald Trump and the Republican administration doesn’t mean believing he’s perfect or that every policy has worked perfectly. Just agreeing with the values behind what he is doing is enough.

On tariffs, the goal wasn’t short-term GDP it was strategic against China and was also protection of specific US industries. An example, the steel and aluminium tariffs reduced imports and led to billions in domestic investment and jobs. Even his biggest critics acknowledge many sectors benefited from the tariffs.

Before covid and during Trumps first term, the US economy had low unemployment (3.5%), rising household income, and strong stock market growth and again critics agreed that tax cuts, deregulation, and energy policy was effective.

On the energy prices, the USA became the world’s largest oil producer during Trump’s presidency, which naturally puts downward pressure on prices. They still have net zero goals, but not ones that stifle growth.

Regarding ICE, immigration enforcement is legal under existing US law. Courts have repeatedly upheld the government’s decisions to detain and remove people.

As for your other points, I see the convictions as politically motivated and still subject to appeals. What he did regarding his businesses is also common practice in that field.

You don’t have to agree with any of that and you probably won’t. I don’t care. These are facts. I have given you facts. I am not going to go and find sources for those facts because I have the better things to do with my time but you are welcome to look them up yourself.

KatiePricesKnickers · 16/03/2026 17:21

NeverStopDancing · 16/03/2026 14:59

You forgot Labour, they will get a second term I believe, I don't think Greens will win or Reform.

If they scrap net zero and publicize the drop in immigration and how tough the laws are now, they stand a good chance of winning.
Starmer needs to be replaced with someone with something that passes as a personality though.

bringthewashingin · 16/03/2026 18:08

24kPalamino · 15/03/2026 21:39

Oh, I’ve read their manifesto. Could you point me to the parts that could be mistaken for something from “Germany circa 1933”?
I must have missed that part.

Oh and who should I vote for then?

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You must have.

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