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To think it’s clear as day now that Brexit was a massive mistake and we need to rejoin the EU asap

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G3ran1um · 08/03/2026 11:19

How can anybody still argue than it was a good idea?

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OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 19:57

Papyrophile · 08/03/2026 19:56

I would vote leave now, and I didn't in 2016. The EU really does not work .. The politicians are IMO not working for the best outcomes for all, and to be fair, there probably isn't a result that pleases everyone.

Join a trade club? yes, all in. A political cooperative........ er no, there are way way too many unexplained add on bits. I will stick with out for the time being.

Sensible. I actually like the GCC for example.

Clavinova · 08/03/2026 19:59

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 19:07

What's so great and better about Ireland?

Ireland doesn't seem so great to me:

According to the Irish Times, 894,369 people were waiting for hospital treatment in the Republic of Ireland in 2025 (population 5.4 million) and the government spent €1.2 billion on asylum accommodation for 2025.

QueenOfHiraeth · 08/03/2026 20:00

I think the whole thing was a shambles, badly set up, badly communicated to the public and, ultimately, badly enacted
Regardless of how anyone voted back then, we are supposed to live in a democracy so the result should have been respected but, instead, Cameron walked away and prominent politicians and lawmakers spent their time frustrating and undermining it while telling the public they were too old, too stupid, too poor, too right wing, too uneducated, etc
I don't think going back is an option now anyway as Europe would make us pay through the nose and it would be a nightmare. It's not as if Europe is a bed of roses either.
There is no option but to make the best of where we are in my opinion.

Vaxtable · 08/03/2026 20:03

It was 10 years ago, get over it

and if we rejoin do you really think we would get good terms? No we wouldn’t they would be making an example to ensure no one else leaves plus we would have to convert to the euro

Figmentofmyimagination · 08/03/2026 20:07

It is also a disaster because it sent the Conservative Party into a doom spiral from which they will never recover, breaking our political system. As Kier S is discovering, if you have a large majority and a weak opposition, your own party will create the opposition for you and you will tear yourselves apart.

it has also opened the path to extremists at both ends of the political spectrum.

I’m old enough to remember intelligent, moderate, sensible conservative ministers.

Screamingabdabz · 08/03/2026 20:09

A common market - which is why we were in it in the first place? Yes.

A group of matey nations that co-operate on things that matter like the environment, science, shared values, security and intelligence? Yes.

A political and economic mash up? No.

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 20:14

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 19:44

Farage was never ever involved in the Brexit negotiations at all. David Cameron was elected on a manifesto to give the UK a choice, the referendum was held and Brexit won.

Are you saying Farage had no part in the reason why a referendum was held in the first place?

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 20:15

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 20:14

Are you saying Farage had no part in the reason why a referendum was held in the first place?

He didn't play a part in the outcomes of the negotiations.

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 22:30

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 20:15

He didn't play a part in the outcomes of the negotiations.

Why are you defending Farage and trying to make out he wasn’t influential?

The LSE has described him as a "decisive" figure in reshaping British politics, despite never serving as an MP.

He moved anti-EU populist, anti-immigration ideas which were formerly on the fridge, in to the mainstream; in other words he legitimised racism. He created tribes and set them against one another for short term financial gain. He is a disrupter whose rich friends benefited from the volatility of the markets.

Farage was also considered a kingmaker for Boris Johnson's victory in the 2019 election. by deciding not to contest 317 seats won by the Conservatives in 2017 which allowed the Conservatives to capture Labour-held seats, doubling their parliamentary majority.

In the 2024 election he then split the right wing vote and managed to take over Reform and continued to turn grievances felt by the failure of successive governments to serve its people effectively, in to an anti-immigration crusade. Like Trump he cynically massages statistics with very little reference to the truth.

In summary he is extremely effective at sowing discord on both sides of the political spectrum but Farage never takes responsibility for the fall out caused by his actions and he never achieves anything constructive himself.

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 23:01

Vaxtable · 08/03/2026 20:03

It was 10 years ago, get over it

and if we rejoin do you really think we would get good terms? No we wouldn’t they would be making an example to ensure no one else leaves plus we would have to convert to the euro

Please don’t order people who are still very much not over it, to disregard the catastrophic effects that Brexit has had on the UK economy and is still having ten years on.

You may be comfortably off but some of us are still suffering financially as a direct result of leaving the EU, and continue to do so.

You do realise that the financial fall out from Brexit is long and slow and is still ongoing? It’s a long, painful, drawn out decline. Ten years is nothing! I work in the agricultural sector and the impacts are devastating. It’s the same for some areas of the UK manufacturing sector and for the creative industries.

Brexit has resulted in a 6–8% reduction in GDP per capita and a 12–18% drop in investment.

Trade with the EU has become much more expensive and difficult logistically and bureaucratically.

The UK’s financial services has lost its global edge thanks to a decline in export services.

And latest studies suggest that Brexit has lost the UK 90 billion a year in lost tax revenue.

And you say oh so dismissively that we should just “get over it”? Yeah, right 🙄

Catladywithacat · 08/03/2026 23:02

Yes and I believe it’s why we are all broke

Mere1 · 08/03/2026 23:13

mrbluebirdonmyshoulder · 08/03/2026 12:34

I agree - and I voted to leave.

We were lied to.

The lies were blatantly obvious.

PinkForgetMeNot · 08/03/2026 23:16

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 23:01

Please don’t order people who are still very much not over it, to disregard the catastrophic effects that Brexit has had on the UK economy and is still having ten years on.

You may be comfortably off but some of us are still suffering financially as a direct result of leaving the EU, and continue to do so.

You do realise that the financial fall out from Brexit is long and slow and is still ongoing? It’s a long, painful, drawn out decline. Ten years is nothing! I work in the agricultural sector and the impacts are devastating. It’s the same for some areas of the UK manufacturing sector and for the creative industries.

Brexit has resulted in a 6–8% reduction in GDP per capita and a 12–18% drop in investment.

Trade with the EU has become much more expensive and difficult logistically and bureaucratically.

The UK’s financial services has lost its global edge thanks to a decline in export services.

And latest studies suggest that Brexit has lost the UK 90 billion a year in lost tax revenue.

And you say oh so dismissively that we should just “get over it”? Yeah, right 🙄

Exactly. Thank you for an intelligent post. More intelligent than "Get over it, innit!"

PinkForgetMeNot · 08/03/2026 23:19

Vaxtable · 08/03/2026 20:03

It was 10 years ago, get over it

and if we rejoin do you really think we would get good terms? No we wouldn’t they would be making an example to ensure no one else leaves plus we would have to convert to the euro

Which is the fault of Brexit voters

SabrinaThwaite · 08/03/2026 23:19

Createausername1970 · 08/03/2026 14:13

My reservations about Europe remain the same as they ever did.

I am, and was, totally in favour of being part of an economic trading community, like the EEC we joined originally.

What I have reservations about is becoming completely united, with the same currency, same laws, one single army etc., no border control etc. Basically one big country. Especially as that big single country keeps expanding and bringing other countries into it's fold who have quite different cultural values and economies.

When it self-implodes, which it very well could do for economic, cultural or political reasons (USSR springs to mind) it could be very messy.

The EEC was always more than just an economic trading bloc.

There isn’t and won’t be an EU army.

The UK exercised the opt out on a single currency.

The UK wasn’t part of Schengen.

Apart from that you’re spot on 🙄

PinkForgetMeNot · 08/03/2026 23:19

Mere1 · 08/03/2026 23:13

The lies were blatantly obvious.

Indeed

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 23:22

Defineyourterms809 · 08/03/2026 22:30

Why are you defending Farage and trying to make out he wasn’t influential?

The LSE has described him as a "decisive" figure in reshaping British politics, despite never serving as an MP.

He moved anti-EU populist, anti-immigration ideas which were formerly on the fridge, in to the mainstream; in other words he legitimised racism. He created tribes and set them against one another for short term financial gain. He is a disrupter whose rich friends benefited from the volatility of the markets.

Farage was also considered a kingmaker for Boris Johnson's victory in the 2019 election. by deciding not to contest 317 seats won by the Conservatives in 2017 which allowed the Conservatives to capture Labour-held seats, doubling their parliamentary majority.

In the 2024 election he then split the right wing vote and managed to take over Reform and continued to turn grievances felt by the failure of successive governments to serve its people effectively, in to an anti-immigration crusade. Like Trump he cynically massages statistics with very little reference to the truth.

In summary he is extremely effective at sowing discord on both sides of the political spectrum but Farage never takes responsibility for the fall out caused by his actions and he never achieves anything constructive himself.

He was influential, he's a big figure. He didn't negotiate the exit agreement one bit.

PollyBell · 08/03/2026 23:32

Mere1 · 08/03/2026 23:13

The lies were blatantly obvious.

I see it as people putting their head in the sand and only picking the bits that only benifited themselves

it is only lies when it turns out people dont get what they thought they would and only beleive the tabloids and how much of it is ''it will give me moeny and keep people out I dont want"

MySpiritAnimalIsAPanda · 09/03/2026 01:22

G3ran1um · 08/03/2026 11:19

How can anybody still argue than it was a good idea?

I voted remain and would vote to rejoin at the drop of a hat

Defineyourterms809 · 09/03/2026 03:40

OhSheetaABridge · 08/03/2026 23:22

He was influential, he's a big figure. He didn't negotiate the exit agreement one bit.

Yes that’s because, very conveniently, the minute the Brexit vote had been achieved, very marginally in favour of Leave, Farage suddenly decided he wanted to “step back”
from politics and leave everyone else to do what he knew what was impossible ie negotiate a better trade deal with the EU than we already had! And that imho showed him up to be the weak, cynical coward he has always been.

A bit like a rebellious child starting a fire and running away to leave the emergency services to deal with the fall out, and not caring who got hurts in the process.

Farage jumped back in of course when he saw the business opportunity to head up Reform, which he owned until very recently. Just as many Reform-led councils have not achieved the savings they promised; Farage is all talk and no trousers and is utterly hopeless when it comes to implementing real change. His skills lie in destroying things and getting people to believe in simplistic crass solutions.

SoSadSoSadSoSad · 09/03/2026 05:54

SabrinaThwaite · 08/03/2026 23:19

The EEC was always more than just an economic trading bloc.

There isn’t and won’t be an EU army.

The UK exercised the opt out on a single currency.

The UK wasn’t part of Schengen.

Apart from that you’re spot on 🙄

What is drama about an EU army?

It’s an excellent idea. United force in the face of Putin and Trump.

SoSadSoSadSoSad · 09/03/2026 06:47

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 08/03/2026 12:42

Dh is still confident it was the right thing to do. I’m a remainer still! We do fall out whenever I make your point OP. He’s better at economics and arguing than me!
He would say, and in this he’s probably correct, that the EU over reached its original purpose that we’d agreed to. There are issues I am not aligned with the EU over. Maybe it wasn’t possible to hold to idealistic goals that were a bit too challenging to meet.

Your h is wrong. See attached.

Brexit was, is and always will be an utterly shit idea.

To think it’s clear as day now that Brexit was a massive mistake and we need to rejoin the EU asap
crossedlines · 09/03/2026 07:07

PollyBell · 08/03/2026 23:32

I see it as people putting their head in the sand and only picking the bits that only benifited themselves

it is only lies when it turns out people dont get what they thought they would and only beleive the tabloids and how much of it is ''it will give me moeny and keep people out I dont want"

Exactly. The referendum depressingly showed how many people are pretty ignorant when it comes to important decisions, how gullible they are, and how they only have capacity to consume tabloid soundbites. Everyone intelligent, inquisitive and considered person I know, voted Remain. The same information was available to all of us. It’s shocking how so many people are seemingly incapable of applying a little insight and critical thinking.

G3ran1um · 09/03/2026 07:30

SabrinaThwaite · 08/03/2026 23:19

The EEC was always more than just an economic trading bloc.

There isn’t and won’t be an EU army.

The UK exercised the opt out on a single currency.

The UK wasn’t part of Schengen.

Apart from that you’re spot on 🙄

Aside from the trade and work opportunities fall out, defense and being such a teeny tiny country with so little really worries me particularly not being part of things like the EU defense loans scheme.

Being so reliant on the USA is dangerous, surely being part of something bigger and having a voice is safer and better.

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Lambington · 09/03/2026 07:40

YANBU.
And the people who promoted it most vocally (including Farage and Badenoch and the Daily Mail) and their voters are all gleefully blaming Starmer and Reeves for the dire state of economy Brexit has caused.
Its diabolical.