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To think the Green Party and esp its Deputy Leader is a real worry for women

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CraftyTaupeBee · 06/03/2026 18:37

Over the last few months I have watched with incredulity the rise of the Green Party in the polls and wondered if I am alone in this. Mothin Ali their Deputy publicly celebrated Oct 7th (which he then apologised for) and has been seen this week at an event mourning the death of the Ayatollah. I am not anti any religion but his wife is fully covered in a niqab and I feel despite what others say to have a woman's face fully covered is a tool of oppression and not something I would want in a leader as a value set. I realise others may not feel this way and it is not meant to be offensive but the facts are there.And recently a female spin doctor for the Greens alleged that rape had not taken place on Oct 7th. To me the Green Party is reminiscent of what happened in 1979 and something that ultimately affected women's rights drastically (as well as any other rights of the gay community and others). The soft left (much like the Greens) allowed the strict islamic vote to take hold and look where they ended up. This really worries me for the country. Am I the only one? And why does the Green Party seem to be so anti west and anti white. I realise Zack Polanksi is gay and jewish and they are strange bedfellows but it feels like a trojan horse mindset and not something I want for my western liberal feminist girls. In fact it feels anti feminist?

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EasternStandard · 11/03/2026 11:26

RarePeachBear · 11/03/2026 10:05

I increasingly think posts like this are started by either bots or people working for Reform. There are so many anti Labour/Green/Starmer posts atm, it seems like a targeted campaign to sway floating voters on mumsnet. Under the guise of "issues which affect women".

These posts are so Labour but also a bit old hat. Maybe pre GE everyone posted anyone not Labour was a bot but the polls are so low now for them.

You’ll just have to get used to non Labour opinions on mn.

ComradeAmoeba · 11/03/2026 11:46

Psychosislotus · 11/03/2026 10:00

Thank you

And to @RainbowBagels

I was just googling too and wiki said ‘His Jewish family had moved to the UK from Poland, but originated from Latvia which they fled to escape pogroms (initially to Ukraine, then to Poland)[2][3] in the early twentieth century and had adopted the surname of Paulden in hopes of evading antisemitism.[4][5] His parents divorced when he was young.[6] At age 18, he changed his name, restoring his familial name of Polanski, later saying it was important for him to take pride in his identity.[4]He also changed his first name, selecting Zack in homage to the Jewish character of the same name from the novel Goodnight Mister Tom,’

and google said he had a secular upbringing.

That’s interesting because he’s the exact age of my husband and they have a the exact same story. As matrimonial. So Zack would be third gen from his GP coming over and technically he is Jewish. But no way would my husband declare himself Jewish. Even though he knows he is technically both ethically jewish and religiously through matrimonial Jewish.

This is hard to explain.

I have made my judgment and I am pretty sure I can’t write it. But yeah, basically it’s not improved my view of him at all.

Why can't you write your judgement? Would it break MN guidelines?

BunfightBetty · 11/03/2026 11:54

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 09:21

Some women are far more affected by other issues related to being a woman than anything to do with transpeople. We might say you are privileged for being able to prioritise this issue of which there are a tiny number of trans people overall.

You’ve got things upside down.

It is working class, less privileged, women who bear the brunt of the erosion of women’s rights the most.

It is trans ideology that is the absolute epitome of a luxury belief. Usually pushed by middle class types who love the smug feeling of how very kind they are, safe in the knowledge that they and their family won’t remotely face the prospect of sharing a prison cell for 23 hours a day with a convicted rapist. Or can go private rather than share an NHS ward with men. To give just two examples.

Easy to ‘be kind’ when you’re not the one bearing the consequences.

Don’t less privileged women deserve kindness too?

There’s a rather nasty whiff of classism amongst a lot of the pushing of trans ideology.

It’s not that trans people are a tiny number, it’s the effect on the 51% of the population who fall into the oppressed class (women), when men’s ‘rights’ are privileged above women’s.

If you truly are so concerned about women’s’bigger’ problems, why vote for a party that sidelines them in favour of men?

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 11:54

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 09:21

Some women are far more affected by other issues related to being a woman than anything to do with transpeople. We might say you are privileged for being able to prioritise this issue of which there are a tiny number of trans people overall.

Some of us know what its like to need a single sex DV refuge and/or single sex rape crisis centres. Yet under the greens there isn't a single rape crisis therapy session or group therapy for women only in all of Brighton they all allow men on a self id basis causing women to self exclude and with no women only DV services women are staying with their abusers.
Allowing men especially those who claim a special identity into womens spaces is the most dangerous and harmful thing to women.
The fact that you cant see the harm shoes how privileged you are

Cathandkin · 11/03/2026 11:59

What on earth has happened to the Green Party? That spokeswoman's statements about Oct7th? Unbelievable. Ok, they want to use Gaza in elections, but dear god, don't tranple over women and Jews just to get there.
It's shocker that she's made those claims about Jewish women and rape, even worse that the Green Party haven't said anything to counter it.

Cathandkin · 11/03/2026 12:00

LauraNorda · 11/03/2026 07:58

Plenty of mostly young people are quite happy to go into bat for intolerant, authorotarian, religious theocracies that hate women and western society.

You reap what you sow.

Well, I hate to say this, but you're absolutely right. Which is worrying about the Green Party's move in that direction.
I'm hoping that it's just an ill conceived glitch, and that they re-set themselves and dismiss that spokeswoman.

Cathandkin · 11/03/2026 12:19

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 11:54

Some of us know what its like to need a single sex DV refuge and/or single sex rape crisis centres. Yet under the greens there isn't a single rape crisis therapy session or group therapy for women only in all of Brighton they all allow men on a self id basis causing women to self exclude and with no women only DV services women are staying with their abusers.
Allowing men especially those who claim a special identity into womens spaces is the most dangerous and harmful thing to women.
The fact that you cant see the harm shoes how privileged you are

Excellent points. I'm very sorry to hear that you (and other women) who have needed/need this support, experience this male incursion. 💐

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 12:22

Cathandkin · 11/03/2026 12:00

Well, I hate to say this, but you're absolutely right. Which is worrying about the Green Party's move in that direction.
I'm hoping that it's just an ill conceived glitch, and that they re-set themselves and dismiss that spokeswoman.

Edited

Nah there almost financial (aswell as morally) bankrupt due to all the discrimination cases they've lost against their own members and with the upcoming cases (4 that i can think of off the top of my head) they will be a bankrupted former political party soon all because they won't accept that women have rights that men cant have.
If they're happy to kill the .party over mens wants they are unlikely to deal with antisemitism when they made it part of the party by choice

Verv · 11/03/2026 12:41

BeAvidHiker · 06/03/2026 20:15

Green Party leader who charged women money and pretended to make their chests bigger.

Also openly says that women have penises.

These people are basically rabid Marxists and anti semites using Muslims and Gaza to pretend they care.

Anyone who votes for them is either intellectually challenged or basically dodgy too.

Agreed.
I would vote for ANY party before I'd vote green.

Cathandkin · 11/03/2026 12:42

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 12:22

Nah there almost financial (aswell as morally) bankrupt due to all the discrimination cases they've lost against their own members and with the upcoming cases (4 that i can think of off the top of my head) they will be a bankrupted former political party soon all because they won't accept that women have rights that men cant have.
If they're happy to kill the .party over mens wants they are unlikely to deal with antisemitism when they made it part of the party by choice

Edited

Interesting, I didn't know this - thanks.

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Psychosislotus · 11/03/2026 12:56

ComradeAmoeba · 11/03/2026 11:46

Why can't you write your judgement? Would it break MN guidelines?

I don’t know. Someone is going to take offence. I am sure people can read between the lines.

But if you want me to try to spell it out…

A) I think he’s a wanker anyway. So the starting point of my view and language to describe him is not great to begin with.

B) When I think about someone with DPs background changing their name to be Jewish, 3rd gen whilst bought up secular and not practicing, sidling up with Islamic extremists and joining bands with from the river to the sea brothers whilst proclaiming publically But I AM Jewish as a public figure… well it’s bringing up all kinds of topics - appropriatisation, victim mentality, false legitimacy to proclaim such views, identity politics, and a few choice words.

ComradeAmoeba · 11/03/2026 13:12

Psychosislotus · 11/03/2026 12:56

I don’t know. Someone is going to take offence. I am sure people can read between the lines.

But if you want me to try to spell it out…

A) I think he’s a wanker anyway. So the starting point of my view and language to describe him is not great to begin with.

B) When I think about someone with DPs background changing their name to be Jewish, 3rd gen whilst bought up secular and not practicing, sidling up with Islamic extremists and joining bands with from the river to the sea brothers whilst proclaiming publically But I AM Jewish as a public figure… well it’s bringing up all kinds of topics - appropriatisation, victim mentality, false legitimacy to proclaim such views, identity politics, and a few choice words.

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Thanks for your honest reply. I am not sure about Polanski, tbh. I waver between liking him and feeling there is something "off" about him.

SapphOhNo · 11/03/2026 13:15

Because when you actually look at it, it feels less like a fresh political movement and more like a sort of political recycling centre for former Tories who couldn’t quite make it work the first time round. Led by Nigel Farage, who has spent the better part of three decades in politics while somehow still managing to present himself as the anti-establishment outsider.

And the politics increasingly feels like a British version of the whole Make America Great Again playbook lots of culture-war noise, plenty of grievance, vague promises to “take the country back”, and rather less clarity on what actually improves people’s lives. Scratch the surface and the policies start looking pretty familiar: deregulating workers’ protections, weakening renter rights, being very relaxed about billionaire influence, and occasionally floating ideas about regulating women’s bodies like the last few decades of progress were a bit of an optional extra. All wrapped up in the language of “freedom”, which curiously always seems to mean fewer protections for ordinary people and more freedom for the already powerful.

So yes, I'll focus on keeping them out whether it means voting Labour or Green.

Netcurtainnelly · 11/03/2026 13:17

I agree, greens have gone a long way from being about composting and recycling
They won't get my vote.

Psychosislotus · 11/03/2026 13:20

ComradeAmoeba · 11/03/2026 13:12

Thanks for your honest reply. I am not sure about Polanski, tbh. I waver between liking him and feeling there is something "off" about him.

No problem.

Obviously going to be in the camp of 100% something off. If DP carried on like that I am pretty sure his family would think he’s having a psychotic break

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:22

Wellthisisdifficult · 11/03/2026 09:46

Utter codwallop. Having nearly died in Labour and left with ptsd by appalling care, I would still absolutely not want a bloke trying to claim he’s a woman as part of my care team. It’s possible to think of two things at once. Why the hell would I want someone on a birthing team who knew so little about gynocology that he didn’t realise having a willy made you a bloke? Who no doubt gets off on calling me a birthing parents and telling me to chest feed. Because obviously it’s all about his own misogynistic self service than the Mum giving birth. Honestly!!!!

You're not a black woman who is more likely to die just by being who we are and looking like we do.

As a Black woman, I am more concerned about people understanding my increased risk of death. I really dont care if the people who understand that are men, women, a man who thinks he's a woman or a woman who thinks she's a man. I know most of my Black friends and family feel the same way.

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:24

loislovesstewie · 11/03/2026 09:49

Perhaps if the NHS stuck to biology we would not be in the ludicrous situation of people not understanding that chopping bits off or attempting to add bits does not change sex, and that knowing a person's sex is important in medical situations. I find it completely crackers that medical professionals in recent, well publicised, employment cases couldn't apparently understand that and struggled with being able to identify males and females. I don't find that inspires confidence.
The issues of appropriate care is another issue, and again, the NHS should address that in various sectors of the service. Having an adult child who is currently battling with the psychiatric service, I can say I find lots of the staff not very capable. But that's another matter.

No, the two issues are totally unrelated. If trans people were all exterminated or never existed to begin with, Black people would still have worse health outcomes than their counterparts due to systemic racism.

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:26

BunfightBetty · 11/03/2026 09:53

I really don't think it's too much to ask to expect our politicians to be able to walk AND chew gum.

We need to be able to consider more than one thing at a time. Us humans can do that, you know!

The issues you mention in your post are real, are appalling, and need to be changed. Eroding women's rights to the very point of being unable to define what a woman even is does not conflict with dealing with the issues you mention. In fact, they are intertwined.

For services for women to improve, it's vital that those in charge are completely clear-eyed about what a woman is, and how women have particular needs that are different to those of men, because of our biology, and because of the way women have been treated as second class citizens because of our sex.

Pissing about pretending a man can be a woman is a complete distraction from all that, and no thinking person should be entertaining it.

I am not only concerned about services for women. Systemic racism in healthcare (well all) systems affects my father, my sons, my partner and my brothers, too.

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 13:30

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:22

You're not a black woman who is more likely to die just by being who we are and looking like we do.

As a Black woman, I am more concerned about people understanding my increased risk of death. I really dont care if the people who understand that are men, women, a man who thinks he's a woman or a woman who thinks she's a man. I know most of my Black friends and family feel the same way.

What do you feel about tge fact that men who claim to be women are 5 times more likely to be a sexual predator thanmen who identify as men? And would you still be happy having a trans identifying male at your gynaecological appointments or delivery

To think the Green Party and esp its Deputy Leader is a real worry for women
HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:34

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 13:30

What do you feel about tge fact that men who claim to be women are 5 times more likely to be a sexual predator thanmen who identify as men? And would you still be happy having a trans identifying male at your gynaecological appointments or delivery

Yes! I would be happy with ANY qualified practitioner who understands the issues with healthcare for Black people. That is more important for me than the tiny chance someone male and/or trans might SA me in a medical appointment. This is what I mean about us having different priorities based on who we are.

loislovesstewie · 11/03/2026 13:47

HappyClapper100 · 11/03/2026 13:24

No, the two issues are totally unrelated. If trans people were all exterminated or never existed to begin with, Black people would still have worse health outcomes than their counterparts due to systemic racism.

I'm quite capable of being able to think that 2 separate things are wrong.
So pretending that men become women and medical professionals tying themselves in knots rather than accept basic biology and looking like complete fools in the process leads me to think incompetence.
Women having worse outcomes in labour due to ethnicity or poverty or any other characteristic is also wrong and signals incompetence also.
FWIW, I was told I wasn't in labour because I only had a backache. I was told to go home and come back when the pain was too bad. Had I followed their advice I would have given birth at home with my DH delivering the baby. That too was incompetence.
Yes, I do understand that racism also plays a part for lots of reasons, but my opinion is that many medical professionals are just not that good. They can't think outside of a narrow box. Many have opinions that are set in stone and refuse to accept they are wrong.
Allowing men to access female spaces doesn't make females' lives easier, it just creates problems which should not exist.
And don't get me started on the mental health workers who my son deals with.

Skinnysaluki · 11/03/2026 13:49

Imdunfer · 11/03/2026 07:23

Their problem is that they have absolutely no idea how to turn that hope into an economical reality.

"We'll take all the money we need off the rich and borrow the rest" really doesn't hack it as an economic policy.

It worked fine during the post war concensus

Pacificsunshine · 11/03/2026 13:50

Hoardasurass · 11/03/2026 13:30

What do you feel about tge fact that men who claim to be women are 5 times more likely to be a sexual predator thanmen who identify as men? And would you still be happy having a trans identifying male at your gynaecological appointments or delivery

Can you link where you got that chart, please? I would like to read more.

Pacificsunshine · 11/03/2026 13:50

Skinnysaluki · 11/03/2026 13:49

It worked fine during the post war concensus

I’m not sure that it did. You might need to flesh that out a little more.

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