I wouldn't limit yourself to counting threads on MN as a proxy for knowledge of what people are concerned or campaign about. The reality is you know very little, in actual fact, about what people do offline.
The concerted men's rights movement that we are seeing across the globe currently is one of the biggest threats to women we are dealing with right now, hence it is topical. It's getting a lot of threads partly because politicians are ignoring the issue. There are also unfortunately women who fall over themselves to centre men, while calling themselves feminists (!) who clearly don't understand the issues. Hence we shout louder.
'Go you'? You know nothing about me. I have personal experience of being raped and also physically and emotionally abused by a partner, including being hit in the head with a heavy object, resulting in a black eye and concussion. I'm not blind to the issues. I campaign against them as well. They play slightly differently though.
With VAWG, very few people would deny there's a problem. The issue is with getting action to change things (and I'm not denying the real issues there still are here).
With the push to let men appropriate women's rights if they say they are women, there's not yet even a consensus that this is the issue it patently is. So the fight is at an earlier stage - still at awareness building, for the most part - and this is why some of us are shouting very loudly. There's still so much further to go.
In terms of privilege, it sounds like you're not aware of the class issue inherent in the trans rights movement. You may not have released that it is working class and underprivileged women who bear the brunt of this push to give men more rights. Your average middle class woke woman who reads The Guardian and shouts 'trans women are women' usually does so from a position of enormous privilege. Easy to call for other women to lose their rights to not be trapped for 23 hours a day in a prison cell with a male rapist if you're certain that you and yours will never find yourself in prison because you couldn't afford to pay your TV licence. Easy not to care about feeling unsafe on a women's NHS ward because of the hulking man who says he's a woman in the bed next to you if you know you can pay to go private.
These women think they are being kind and progressive. In reality they're only being kind to men and hugely unkind to women, while regressively taking women's rights backwards. In reality they are selfishly polishing their own smug halos while selling their sisters down the river. Appalling.