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To think it is inappropriate for a teach to have big fake boobs?

668 replies

OonaStubbs · 05/03/2026 18:16

I picked my niece up from school today and saw her with my own eyes, my sister and her husband have spoken about her in the past. IABU to think this is appropriate in a school with impressionable young children?

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Whatifitallgoesright · 04/04/2026 23:42

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 31/03/2026 20:52

You're a disgrace frankly.

I would much rather my kids had teachers who aspired to educate and inspire young minds who also anted to embrace boob jobs and anything else they would like to do to feel good about themselves then someone who talks about women in the way you do.

Teachers should be teaching young children that looks don't matter, it is what is inside what counts.

No, teachers should be teaching children school subjects but they can also teach children that you can do absolutely nothing with your appearance, you don't need to shave, cut your hair, colour your hair, you can wear what you want and you can get fake boobs, botox, shave, colour your hair because what matters is you are authentically you and feel comfortable in your own body and if that's bigger boobs then great, if that's never shaving your legs, also great. What's on the inside is what matters but in order to feel confident, feel good about yourself, feel authentic then you do what makes YOU feel good. Not what some random narrow minded pillock thinks

Don't tell me, you think we should absolutely affirm all children's sense of their inner gender identity too.

OonaStubbs · 04/04/2026 23:47

This thread needs to end. Teachers are allowed to look like whatever they want, I have been suitably chastised.

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RockyKeen · 04/04/2026 23:52

OonaStubbs · 30/03/2026 00:13

That having plastic surgery to make yourself more attractive to men is acceptable?

Why more attractive for men . You can’t know that. Each to their own . If you think teachers shouldn’t have boob jobs then you think mums should t either because it sets a bad example?
this post is ridiculous

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:06

I think it does set a bad example for mums to have them as well. People should be happy with the skin they are in instead of constantly trying to change their appearance to try to feel better about themselves.

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SleeplessInWherever · 05/04/2026 00:07

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:06

I think it does set a bad example for mums to have them as well. People should be happy with the skin they are in instead of constantly trying to change their appearance to try to feel better about themselves.

So is anyone allowed to diet, wear make up, get a hair cut?

Oasl · 05/04/2026 00:08

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:06

I think it does set a bad example for mums to have them as well. People should be happy with the skin they are in instead of constantly trying to change their appearance to try to feel better about themselves.

I thought you wanted this thread to end?

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:15

I do, can this be the end of the matter, please.

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OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:16

SleeplessInWherever · 05/04/2026 00:07

So is anyone allowed to diet, wear make up, get a hair cut?

Diets are healthy, make up comes off, hair grows. Implanting mounds of saline into your body is another matter entirely.

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SleeplessInWherever · 05/04/2026 00:35

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:16

Diets are healthy, make up comes off, hair grows. Implanting mounds of saline into your body is another matter entirely.

It’s equally none of anyone else’s concern.

My split ends are as little to do with you as my bra size, and whether I change either of them is exclusively up to me.

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

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user3398721 · 05/04/2026 01:51

But I remember my sister going on about it last year, all the mums were shocked into silence and didn't know where to look when she strode out of the school without so much as a by your leave with her new boobs.

This is one of my favourite posts ever. Can you imagine? Striding with boobs without so much as a by your leave!

You do know that that fairly antiquated phrase means asking permission? It definitely would have been better had she strode out without the boobs first, whilst requesting permission, and gone back in and got them once granted.

Out of curiosity, are you over 100, OP?

FlayOtters · 05/04/2026 06:13

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

oh I agree, like not being a pious judgey bitch?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/04/2026 07:46

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:16

Diets are healthy, make up comes off, hair grows. Implanting mounds of saline into your body is another matter entirely.

What the fuck does it have to do with you what someone chooses to do with their own body?

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 05/04/2026 07:46

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

Who put you in charge of ‘standards’?

throwawayimplantchat · 05/04/2026 09:17

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:15

I do, can this be the end of the matter, please.

You posted this, then another reply 😂 You know you can just hide the thread so you don’t have to see it

If you keep replying you’re one of the people continuing it so on some level you’re very much enjoying it.

MissFenellaPrism · 05/04/2026 09:19

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

Yes, and teachers have to abide by the Teaching Standards. This is a far better professional code than your judgement.

PinkIcedRing · 05/04/2026 09:33

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

These societal standards should include not allowing narrow-minded arseholes the space to have an opinion. What an unpleasant person.

Shinyandnew1 · 05/04/2026 10:45

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

Only for teachers and their boobs?

MissFenellaPrism · 05/04/2026 10:45

Shinyandnew1 · 05/04/2026 10:45

Only for teachers and their boobs?

Apparently so. Who knew it was such a scourge on society?

mbosnz · 05/04/2026 11:05

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 00:44

IMO there should be standards in society.

Whose standards? Your standards? Why?

I'm afraid your standards are not up to my standards. I, logically, live by my standards, in preference to yours.

How's about, you just keep your mind and your eyes on your bra filling, and leave everyone else to mind their own?

One of the biggest hearted women, who has done so much for children's literacy and educational attainment in her neck of the woods, is also one of the most notoriously biggest boobed, proudly attained unnaturally. Dolly Parton. Boob size, how you got it, and your ability to impact children's lives and educational achievement positively, are not mutually exclusive.

MissFenellaPrism · 05/04/2026 11:18

Love Dolly 💘

Auroraloves · 05/04/2026 11:48

MissFenellaPrism · 05/04/2026 11:18

Love Dolly 💘

Me too! Love what she has done with the royalties from I will always love you.

maybe @OonaStubbs could live to her standards

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 11:58

I love Dolly Parton too but she is not a teacher. she is a singer and actress.

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mbosnz · 05/04/2026 11:58

Auroraloves · 05/04/2026 11:48

Me too! Love what she has done with the royalties from I will always love you.

maybe @OonaStubbs could live to her standards

Somehow I doubt she could.

Yens · 05/04/2026 11:59

OonaStubbs · 05/04/2026 11:58

I love Dolly Parton too but she is not a teacher. she is a singer and actress.

You can probably ask mn to take this down

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