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Mass grave prepared for the school girl massacre, 165 souls

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Dirtydianaoh · 04/03/2026 01:34

For a nation to say they care about women and girl rights and liberation, and then to bomb a school wtf?!
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HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:38

'International diplomacy is the only way that ever really worked'
Worked so well during the 1930s didn't it? And yet took 6 years of fighting to rid ourselves of the Nazis and Japanese. Because of 'diplomacy' UK among others was woefully unprepared for WW2 (as are we now).

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:40

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:38

'International diplomacy is the only way that ever really worked'
Worked so well during the 1930s didn't it? And yet took 6 years of fighting to rid ourselves of the Nazis and Japanese. Because of 'diplomacy' UK among others was woefully unprepared for WW2 (as are we now).

We are not the super power we once were, we are under prepared/incapable because of the chronic un-funding of defence, which we have largely voted for.

Twiglets1 · 05/03/2026 08:41

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:29

If you cannot see that some Palestinians will continue the terrorism on Israel, then you know nothing of the history of the region.

Do you remember when the PLO was "defeated" and their leaders exiled.... how long did Israel have peace and security for?

Hamas is just a name.

Oh Dear indeed.

This may or may not happen re other groups replacing Hamas, but Hamas as an organisation have lost their current war in Gaza, whether they officially surrender or not. Unless you can look at what they have achieved in Gaza and somehow frame that as "winning".

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:42

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 08:32

5% of the residents of Gaza have been killed. Picture your kids school and round up 1-2 kids per class at random - that be a noticeable impact.

I think you have just proved my point that it hasn't been a genocide if 5% of the residents have been killed since 8 October 2023.

timeserved · 05/03/2026 08:43

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:33

Hamas has had millions of $$$ poured into Gaza since 2005. They haven't used the funds to help and protect* their civilians, instead using it to build their tunnels underneath Gaza, fill them with armoury bought and provided from Iran as well as keep their leadership in luxury away in other ME countries.
*There are palpably no shelters for ordinary Gazans to retreat to from Israeli bombs. Hamas and the Iranian regime couldn't give a fuck for ordinary citizens who are collateral damage to them.
So your hypothesis that not heavily sanctioning Iran so that the money would be spent for the benefit of their citizens holds as much water as a bucket with a hole in it.

A bucket with a hole in the top presumably.

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:45

Twiglets1 · 05/03/2026 08:41

This may or may not happen re other groups replacing Hamas, but Hamas as an organisation have lost their current war in Gaza, whether they officially surrender or not. Unless you can look at what they have achieved in Gaza and somehow frame that as "winning".

Why are you mis representing what i said?

"Hamas haven't lost as such" is not stating they are winning, so why the lies...

You really don't get it do you? the Palestinians still want a homeland, still want Israel gone, none of what has happened will change that, there are millions of Palestinians, of course new more blood thirsty versions will appear.

All the children made orphans in Gaza are rich pickings for the radicals.

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 08:45

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:40

We are not the super power we once were, we are under prepared/incapable because of the chronic un-funding of defence, which we have largely voted for.

We can't even send one ship to defend our airbase for 1-2 weeks...... The US track record is poor. Let's not forget that Trump put the Taliban in power in Afghanistan. Now he seems to want to put a Kurdish militia in charge by arming them.

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:46

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:40

We are not the super power we once were, we are under prepared/incapable because of the chronic un-funding of defence, which we have largely voted for.

UK hasn't been a 'super power' since the 19th century. The empire collapsed mid 20th century. I agree about the chronic underfunding of defence (don't remember ever voting for or against it) We are now paying the price of consistently poor government.

rainingsnoring · 05/03/2026 08:48

Twiglets1 · 05/03/2026 07:49

I don’t look at SM much at all so my comment was aimed at people on MN. Some people on MN say accusations of antisemitism are getting old - the same people would never say accusations of racism generally are getting old.

Not at all Twiglets. It is entirely different to falsely accuse people of anti semetism for criticising the actions of the Israelis gov. or IDF and quite another to criticise someone for saying that they hate all Jews or all brown people or all Arabs. Totally different things.

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:49

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:46

UK hasn't been a 'super power' since the 19th century. The empire collapsed mid 20th century. I agree about the chronic underfunding of defence (don't remember ever voting for or against it) We are now paying the price of consistently poor government.

If you voted Tory in 1992, Lab in 1997 etc and Tory in the last 5 GE's you voted for more defence cuts.

Badenoch (as part of Sunaks Govt) went into the the last GE promising even more defence cuts.

It was all there to see.

rainingsnoring · 05/03/2026 08:50

kirinm · 05/03/2026 07:52

Yes - it’s apparently an antisemitic trope to point out that America joined in with the bombing because they knew Israel planned to attack Iran first even though that is literally what America has said.

Yes, that Rubio press conference was an utter embarrassment wasn't it.
Anti semite is thrown around incorrectly constantly.

TheIceBear · 05/03/2026 08:52

HarlanCobenDogshit · 05/03/2026 08:19

I just can't believe we've got a thread full of pp justifying actions of two groups of islamic extreamists.

Crazy times.

Where are these people ? I don’t see anyone justifying it

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 08:52

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:42

I think you have just proved my point that it hasn't been a genocide if 5% of the residents have been killed since 8 October 2023.

You don't have to kill everyone for it to be a genocide. 5% is significant part of the population, especially when that is weighted towards the women and children. 10% of Gazan women have been killed.

This is such a depressing thread. "It's all ok, they only killed 1 in 10 women"

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:56

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 08:52

You don't have to kill everyone for it to be a genocide. 5% is significant part of the population, especially when that is weighted towards the women and children. 10% of Gazan women have been killed.

This is such a depressing thread. "It's all ok, they only killed 1 in 10 women"

You don't understand what genocide is so I'll no longer argue that point with you.
Of course proportionally many more women and children died - Hamas has never provided protection for its civilians in Gaza. Only Hamas operatives were able to take cover in their tunnels.

TheIceBear · 05/03/2026 08:58

sabababa · 05/03/2026 07:30

I don't think Irish are nazis today. I think they have a very dodgy past though with this and there is a deep deep current of antisemtisim that has always existed in Ireland (you know, Jews killing Christ and all that).

To be honest, you're the one who seems to be avoiding reality.

How many Jewish refugees did Ireland take during WW2? You said I'mw rong. What's the number?

I didn’t say you were wrong about the number . I said you are wrong that Ireland are any semites and Nazi bedfellows. I didn’t specify a number .

Boolabus · 05/03/2026 08:59

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:56

You don't understand what genocide is so I'll no longer argue that point with you.
Of course proportionally many more women and children died - Hamas has never provided protection for its civilians in Gaza. Only Hamas operatives were able to take cover in their tunnels.

You don't understand what genocide is

I think it is you that is struggling with the legal definition of genocide

Twiglets1 · 05/03/2026 09:02

Alexandra2001 · 05/03/2026 08:45

Why are you mis representing what i said?

"Hamas haven't lost as such" is not stating they are winning, so why the lies...

You really don't get it do you? the Palestinians still want a homeland, still want Israel gone, none of what has happened will change that, there are millions of Palestinians, of course new more blood thirsty versions will appear.

All the children made orphans in Gaza are rich pickings for the radicals.

Please explain it to me? What did you mean by Hamas haven't lost as such?

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 09:03

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 08:56

You don't understand what genocide is so I'll no longer argue that point with you.
Of course proportionally many more women and children died - Hamas has never provided protection for its civilians in Gaza. Only Hamas operatives were able to take cover in their tunnels.

That's fine let's leave the genocide point, as other poster have said they you should really look into it.

If the IDF killing 10% of women is acceptable to you - we have nothing in common.

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 09:07

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 08:52

You don't have to kill everyone for it to be a genocide. 5% is significant part of the population, especially when that is weighted towards the women and children. 10% of Gazan women have been killed.

This is such a depressing thread. "It's all ok, they only killed 1 in 10 women"

I think you’re following a common misconception here. Genocide has a very specific definition within international law. It has little to do with numbers killed. Central to the definition there has to be an intent to destroy, in whole, or in part a particular group, that group has to be a national, ethnical, racial, or religious group. To most its clear that Israel were targeting Hamas, a group it defines as a terrorist group they were attempting to recover their own citizens and destroy the ability for Hamas to attack them again. This does not meet the definition of genocide. It’s clear Hamas were using women and children as human shields.

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 09:08

Dragonflytamer · 05/03/2026 09:03

That's fine let's leave the genocide point, as other poster have said they you should really look into it.

If the IDF killing 10% of women is acceptable to you - we have nothing in common.

I don't need to 'look into it'. My family died during the Holocaust. That was a genocide.

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 09:09

@Wellthisisdifficult thank you for your explanation of what a genocide is in real terms.

TheIceBear · 05/03/2026 09:12

HappyFace2025 · 05/03/2026 09:08

I don't need to 'look into it'. My family died during the Holocaust. That was a genocide.

So did mine. I still don’t agree with Israel’s actions . Whether you call it a genocide or something else it was evil and wrong .

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 09:19

TheIceBear · 05/03/2026 09:12

So did mine. I still don’t agree with Israel’s actions . Whether you call it a genocide or something else it was evil and wrong .

How would you have liked them to respond to a group (who have set out as one of their main objective to wipe Israel off the map) invaded their territory raping and murdering over 1,000 people in cold blood, men, women and children and kidnapping hundreds more?

What were Israel to do when Hamas started using women and children as human shields?

If you don’t agree with Israel’s actions, Pressumably you have a better alternative in mind?

TheIceBear · 05/03/2026 09:21

Wellthisisdifficult · 05/03/2026 09:19

How would you have liked them to respond to a group (who have set out as one of their main objective to wipe Israel off the map) invaded their territory raping and murdering over 1,000 people in cold blood, men, women and children and kidnapping hundreds more?

What were Israel to do when Hamas started using women and children as human shields?

If you don’t agree with Israel’s actions, Pressumably you have a better alternative in mind?

Well not starving the innocent citizens and blocking all aid coming through to them would be a start.

kirinm · 05/03/2026 09:22

Twiglets1 · 05/03/2026 08:37

America were planning to get involved if the nuclear talks didn't work and they weren't working. They probably knew they wouldn't but had to get their warships etc in place. Anyway, the Iranian negotiators were boasting about their enriched uranium and how they managed to evade regulatory checks so hardly being serious negotiators.

There was a thread on MN dating back to January when the US began gradually moving warships etc into the region ... very heavy hints/threats that they were preparing to go to war with Iran.

People like you implying that Netanyahu controls Trump ... it's ridiculous. The US was already involved & for their own reasons. Israel indicating they were about to strike Iran may have influenced the exact moment the US launched their first strikes but that is all.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/conflict-in-the-middle-east/5476635-us-moves-nuclear-powered-warship-to-middle-east

I think you should apologise now. What do you mean ‘people like me’ I said it was Israel’s war not that Netanyahu controls Trump.

You’re incapable of being taken seriously given that you read whatever you want to see and defend Israel at any cost. Nobody is madly supporting America here but the fact remains that Israel planned to strike.

The refusal to acknowledge - just acknowledge it - that America hasn’t claimed Iran bombed the school. That should tell you something. It doesn’t of course but it should.