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To ask Trump supporters if they support the attack on Iran or if they feel Trump has wrongly gone back on his 'no more foreign wars' promise?

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Carla786 · 03/03/2026 04:39

YABU = Yes, I support the attack on Iran
YANBU = No,he wrongly went back on his 'no more foreign wars' promise

Personally, I can see both sides. I don't personally support Trump, but I can see why some might support the attack. Khameini and is regime are certainly loathsome and Iranians and the rest of us would be much better off without them. They certainly pose danger to Israel, US etc too.

Otoh, is there a credible political opposition who could take over? The prince could, but only as a figurehead. The Iraq war, the Libya invasion and the Afghanistan war did not end very well- how do we know this one will end any better?

My understanding was that quite a few Trump supporters saw him as a welcome change from the neocons of the Bush era who led the US into ME wars. I could be wrong about this though.

Interested to hear replies!

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Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:20

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:17

What should the Iranian people do?

Not avoiding bombs

They need help from within the country, not from a foreign war.

Do you support the bombing, you haven't explained your position on this

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:22

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:20

Not avoiding bombs

They need help from within the country, not from a foreign war.

Do you support the bombing, you haven't explained your position on this

What is that help within the country? Can you say?

Ik they can’t overcome the regime and haven’t for 47 years and are choking from the oppression. Listen to Iranian people and hear what they’re up against.

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:26

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:22

What is that help within the country? Can you say?

Ik they can’t overcome the regime and haven’t for 47 years and are choking from the oppression. Listen to Iranian people and hear what they’re up against.

It's a very complicated situation that goes back a lot further than 47 years.

What about you? You are avoiding to answer that question.

Hoardasurass · 03/03/2026 19:27

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 18:01

People are being slaughtered in many other countries, not only Iran. Obviously intervention is right if it can free them, but is this possible?
The situation with Iran has certainly worsened since Trump took office & understand the case for intervening. Perhaps his 'no more foreign wars' pledge was reckless & wrong to make in the first place?

Not sure if I'd trust the Saudi Prince as far as I could throw him, but I can see he has a legitimate reason to be worried & expect support as an ally...

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I wouldn't trust the Saudi prince either but I have an issue with autocrats.
I doubt that airstrikes alone will work but it's possible that they will weaken the theocratic rulers enough for the Iranian people to over throw them. I know its a small chance but I'd bet thats what Trump and co are hoping for.
Iran has been a massive destabilising factor in the ME through their funding and arming of terrorist groups like hamas and hezbola for a long time.
Nobody really knows what will happen next we'll all just have to wait and see

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:31

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:22

What is that help within the country? Can you say?

Ik they can’t overcome the regime and haven’t for 47 years and are choking from the oppression. Listen to Iranian people and hear what they’re up against.

I agree on this but Trump seems to be relying on them to overthrow the regime. It's debatable whether air attacks alone can...hopefully yes, but there's no precedent

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EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:32

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:31

I agree on this but Trump seems to be relying on them to overthrow the regime. It's debatable whether air attacks alone can...hopefully yes, but there's no precedent

We’ll see but I can see why there’s reluctance to go in on the ground.

Shegotanology · 03/03/2026 19:35

It's an illegal war that'll cost the US billions. Meanwhile, most of his citizens are living paycheck to paycheck. Trump is beyond evil and needs to be removed now.

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:35

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:02

To be honest he doesn’t need to be influenced by anything anymore. It’s not like he’ll have another term, despite the conspiracy theories.

The time to influence and exercise leverage was when Europe was busy destroying its own power and engaging in economic self sabotage. The US economy has run aaay with itself, while Europe and especially this country has been left behind since 2008. All of own making. When you are the tech, finance and defence powerhouse of the world, and your so-called allies are weak and defenceless themselves, the executive can do what Trump is doing.

Why do you say Europe destroyed its own power? Do you mean military power or economic power?

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Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:37

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:02

To be honest he doesn’t need to be influenced by anything anymore. It’s not like he’ll have another term, despite the conspiracy theories.

The time to influence and exercise leverage was when Europe was busy destroying its own power and engaging in economic self sabotage. The US economy has run aaay with itself, while Europe and especially this country has been left behind since 2008. All of own making. When you are the tech, finance and defence powerhouse of the world, and your so-called allies are weak and defenceless themselves, the executive can do what Trump is doing.

Why don't you stay on topic and talk about Iran? What do you think are Trump's chances of taking the regime out by air?

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BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:38

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:35

Why do you say Europe destroyed its own power? Do you mean military power or economic power?

Military power is usually linked to economic power. Look up economic growth in Europe vs US in the last two decades. No wonder Trump can afford to just laugh at Europe. And this country is now utterly irrelevant.

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:43

JasmineMac · 03/03/2026 18:32

People are biased by their personal hatred of Trump.

It's something which puzzles me, because he's a foreign leader. I couldn't really care less about him, or what goes on in America; the impact to the UK by what goes on in America is largely incidental. It's exaggerated.

I certainly won't lose any sleep over the dismantling of a truly horrific regime.

I don't think the US is incidental to the UK. I take your point that their impact on us may be exaggerated but incidental is an overstatement imo.

This thread isn't primarily about the UK, anyway. Sometimes people take an interest in other countries' affairs because they simply do, independent if whether it affects their own country.

I'm certainly not opposed to defeating the Iranian regime. You seem to have missed the point of my OP : my point is not that it's bad to attack Khameini but that there is no precedent for demolishing a regime via air alone, and the land precedents (Iraq, Libya, Afghanistan) do not bode well.

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EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:46

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:43

I don't think the US is incidental to the UK. I take your point that their impact on us may be exaggerated but incidental is an overstatement imo.

This thread isn't primarily about the UK, anyway. Sometimes people take an interest in other countries' affairs because they simply do, independent if whether it affects their own country.

I'm certainly not opposed to defeating the Iranian regime. You seem to have missed the point of my OP : my point is not that it's bad to attack Khameini but that there is no precedent for demolishing a regime via air alone, and the land precedents (Iraq, Libya, Afghanistan) do not bode well.

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On this it’s not actually hard to take out the leaders by air, they’ve done it. So the hard part is the machinations of the regime?

The army and the police etc, you need them not to kill the Iranian people if they take to the streets. I’m not actually sure you can make them do that, rather they have to choose to not do that.

Iran isn’t Iraq or Afghanistan in terms of the people.

JasmineMac · 03/03/2026 19:58

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 19:43

I don't think the US is incidental to the UK. I take your point that their impact on us may be exaggerated but incidental is an overstatement imo.

This thread isn't primarily about the UK, anyway. Sometimes people take an interest in other countries' affairs because they simply do, independent if whether it affects their own country.

I'm certainly not opposed to defeating the Iranian regime. You seem to have missed the point of my OP : my point is not that it's bad to attack Khameini but that there is no precedent for demolishing a regime via air alone, and the land precedents (Iraq, Libya, Afghanistan) do not bode well.

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If we're talking World affairs then you'd expect there to be considerably more ire aimed at the ayatollah; certainly at least some ire, but no, it's all Trump. That was my point.

Rather than full regime defeat, it's likely to be mere impairment. I think that's what most people expect, most probably don't care either about defeat, if the threat can be contained.

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 22:20

JasmineMac · 03/03/2026 19:58

If we're talking World affairs then you'd expect there to be considerably more ire aimed at the ayatollah; certainly at least some ire, but no, it's all Trump. That was my point.

Rather than full regime defeat, it's likely to be mere impairment. I think that's what most people expect, most probably don't care either about defeat, if the threat can be contained.

Well, what can I say about the Ayatollah? We can't control his actions . Obviously I think he's (or rather WAS) a loathsome person, that goes without saying. You can't expect someone like the Ayatollah or his successors to act within the interests of democratic countries, so what's the point of discussing him in that context? It's obvious he and his regime will never forsake their quest to impose violent fundamentalism.

Whereas Trump is supposed to act with America's interests in mind. Hopefully the regime will at least be impaired and the war will not lead to greater instability in the region.

That's interesting you think that Trump is hoping for impairment rather than overthrow. That seems likely, despite his rhetoric about regime change.

Several pps seem to hope Trump will help the Iranian people gain freedom from the regime,,but that seems less likely.. 😢 And as you note, 'most probably don't care either about defeat'.

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Abhannmor · 04/03/2026 09:36

Looking at some of Trump's tweets last night. He has been very consistent on the stupidity and cost of endless wars , especially wars of choice.

In 2013 he accused Obama of planning to attack Iran to cover up his domestic failures. Ok his voters may have short memories. But it's only 14 months since he was sworn in . And he fought on America First and the cost of living under Biden.

But maybe he just doesn't gaf anymore. His niece said he would drag everyone down when he had to face his own mortality.

Carla786 · 04/03/2026 19:08

Abhannmor · 04/03/2026 09:36

Looking at some of Trump's tweets last night. He has been very consistent on the stupidity and cost of endless wars , especially wars of choice.

In 2013 he accused Obama of planning to attack Iran to cover up his domestic failures. Ok his voters may have short memories. But it's only 14 months since he was sworn in . And he fought on America First and the cost of living under Biden.

But maybe he just doesn't gaf anymore. His niece said he would drag everyone down when he had to face his own mortality.

I agree with this. Attacking Iran might be the right decision, I'm unconvinced right now though. And the hypocrisy rankles.

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Brinny · 06/03/2026 00:35

Ihatethistimeline · 03/03/2026 19:15

It’s revealing that some self-styled “patriots” in politics and the media, are attacking Starmer for refusing to risk British troops in a potentially open-ended conflict tied to Trump’s agenda.

Many of these same voices once criticised our involvement in Iraq. Their sudden appetite for escalation raises serious questions about what they mean by patriotism, and whose interests they prioritise. I guess their allegiance lies with the guy who claimed our troops did nothing in Iraq.

Also when is Trump sending his son, Baron?

Well said, Starmer is damned if he does nothing and damned if he does, why. Should we engage in a war that was started by two war mongers. ISREAL and USA , Most Americans I know did not want this attack, they think its a distraction .

Carla786 · 09/03/2026 00:22

News announces, predictably, that Khameini's son will succeed. Will he be taken out by bombs? Hopefully.

But then who will succeed? I hope there is a viable regime change plan. Has the US been planning this? Have they been aiding people who want democracy, constitutional monarchy etc? Or what?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cz0g2yg3579t

Mojtaba Khamenei to succeed his father as Iran's supreme leader as oil prices surge - follow live

Khamenei is named as successor to his father, Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, who was killed in the first wave of US and Israeli strikes.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cz0g2yg3579t

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duckduckagogo2026 · 09/03/2026 00:44

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Abhannmor · 10/03/2026 09:34

Carla786 · 09/03/2026 00:22

News announces, predictably, that Khameini's son will succeed. Will he be taken out by bombs? Hopefully.

But then who will succeed? I hope there is a viable regime change plan. Has the US been planning this? Have they been aiding people who want democracy, constitutional monarchy etc? Or what?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cz0g2yg3579t

The short answer is no. Killing Khamenei and most of his family and cabinet was just too good an opportunity to miss. Trump's advisers seemed to think the Iranian regime would surrender , there would be a popular uprising , or both. Instead it was neither. There doesn't seem to be a plan for this eventuality. Just repeating Plan A. If it had worked out they could have sent a special goon squad into Tehran with Reza Pahlavi.

' Hey listen you mugs , see this old guy who hasn't lived here since 1979 ? Well his pop was the Shah. He is now Supreme Ruler, Shah of Persia , Light of the Aryans. Obey him!'

It worked for MI6 way back. But that day is over. The really squalid part is it's the price at the pumps that could hurt Trump. Not the massacre of innocent children.

YourBlueShark · 10/03/2026 20:27

IncessantNameChanger · 03/03/2026 18:36

How many voting Americans are on MN? Living and voting in America? It doesn't really matter what anyone thinks unless they have the right to vote for him.

There's lots of things worldwide we don't like but the people living under it do.

I do think it's interesting how unlike the US we really are dispite all bring the "West".

We don't need to like it. We need to accept that Americans in the main do like it as he was voted in. Surely that means the majority of Americans love him? Like we voted for Labour. I might not have voted for Labour, neither might you but logic says the majority did. So here we are. A lot of people thought it was a good idea at the time. Repeatedly

I'm an American living in the US. I don't want to derail the thread, but the majority of us do not like him. He was polling under 29% approval rating before Gallop stopped releasing poll numbers, for the firs time in 88 years. Only 33% of US voters voted for Donald Trump. We hate him and are trying to turn the tide in the 2026 midterms so that Congress will have the power to impeach him. His administration currently controls the House of Representatives, the Senate, the DoJ, and the Supreme Court, giving him pretty unrestrained power. While his MAGA base still loves him, many traditional party Republicans are regretful of their prior support.

TheWonderhorse · 11/03/2026 12:02

YourBlueShark · 10/03/2026 20:27

I'm an American living in the US. I don't want to derail the thread, but the majority of us do not like him. He was polling under 29% approval rating before Gallop stopped releasing poll numbers, for the firs time in 88 years. Only 33% of US voters voted for Donald Trump. We hate him and are trying to turn the tide in the 2026 midterms so that Congress will have the power to impeach him. His administration currently controls the House of Representatives, the Senate, the DoJ, and the Supreme Court, giving him pretty unrestrained power. While his MAGA base still loves him, many traditional party Republicans are regretful of their prior support.

We know! We are not responsible for the whims of our leaders. I hope you're okay, and that change comes quickly for you.

Carla786 · 14/03/2026 05:52

Interesting Substack post from Curtis Sliwa, an eccentric Republican who ran for NY mayor. I don't agree with all of his ideas, but this post seems on point

https://curtissliwa.substack.com/p/we-wont-be-fooled-again

We Won’t Be Fooled Again

It was September 30, 1971.

https://curtissliwa.substack.com/p/we-wont-be-fooled-again

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KTheGrey · 14/03/2026 08:36

33% was about the percentage Labour had to get to form a government.

We will be fooled every time by unrepresentative FOTP Democracy - but reorganising voting is a massive undertaking and even Electoral Reform bods don’t seem to have a great road map for it.

Carla786 · 14/03/2026 23:06

A related thing I'm wondering is if the Islamic Republic gets overthrown 🙏, who will succeed Reza Shah II if he steps in as constitutional monarch?

While he seems to be in good health and hopefully can expect a long life, he is 65 right now, someone will have to succeed eventually, and it may be years before he can become Shah, even if the Republic does fall

He only has daughters: Yasmine, Noor and Iryana. There is no precedent for a female Ruler, and while many Iranians are progressive, many are not.

Maybe the best solution would be for him to shepherd Iran into its first few decades as a democracy, but not necessarily pass down the throne to his heirs.

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