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To ask Trump supporters if they support the attack on Iran or if they feel Trump has wrongly gone back on his 'no more foreign wars' promise?

150 replies

Carla786 · 03/03/2026 04:39

YABU = Yes, I support the attack on Iran
YANBU = No,he wrongly went back on his 'no more foreign wars' promise

Personally, I can see both sides. I don't personally support Trump, but I can see why some might support the attack. Khameini and is regime are certainly loathsome and Iranians and the rest of us would be much better off without them. They certainly pose danger to Israel, US etc too.

Otoh, is there a credible political opposition who could take over? The prince could, but only as a figurehead. The Iraq war, the Libya invasion and the Afghanistan war did not end very well- how do we know this one will end any better?

My understanding was that quite a few Trump supporters saw him as a welcome change from the neocons of the Bush era who led the US into ME wars. I could be wrong about this though.

Interested to hear replies!

OP posts:
BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:50

TheWonderhorse · 03/03/2026 17:52

Trump supporters. Isn't that clear?

Who is a Trump supporter? Who are you talking about? And what are you talking about?

Donttellempike · 03/03/2026 18:54

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 07:51

Yeah, you’re right, nothing this country can do. pathetically carping from the sidelines is what people in weak countries do. Strong countries influence and shape direction of others. But hey, who needs influence and leverage when you can take a moral stance.

Are you 12?

TheWonderhorse · 03/03/2026 18:56

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:50

Who is a Trump supporter? Who are you talking about? And what are you talking about?

I really love the maturity with which you're dealing with the issues raised. You are here supporting Trump. So you. Hence the quote.

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 18:56

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:50

Who is a Trump supporter? Who are you talking about? And what are you talking about?

Are you not supporting Trump in this war?

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:56

Donttellempike · 03/03/2026 18:54

Are you 12?

What do you mean? This thread isn’t age related, is it.

Mouseycheesey · 03/03/2026 18:56

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:48

What do you mean by does morality matter? Matter in what sense? To make you feel good? To have nice big talking shops? Like I say, to carp on the sidelines?

Sure, if that’s what morality matters means, then yes you can feel all moral and superior by thinking and having a talking shop on whatever you want.

In the end what really matters is what happens. What actually unfolds. And to influence what actually happens, you can’t bash the opponent over the head with morality. They just laugh at you. To influence powerful people to do what matters, you have to have leverage. Usually rooted in economic power. So no having a talking shop to feel all moral and superior makes no difference.

This is true to a great extent but it’s not the whole story. In a democracy, even someone like Trump will be influenced by whether his electorate and the electorates of powerful allies consider his actions moral.

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:56

TheWonderhorse · 03/03/2026 18:56

I really love the maturity with which you're dealing with the issues raised. You are here supporting Trump. So you. Hence the quote.

Who told you that?

Livelovebehappy · 03/03/2026 19:01

JacquesHarlow · 03/03/2026 07:32

The Iranian government were slaughtering their own people for months, over 10000 just last month.

We've seen 150,000 deaths in Sudan as well as 12 million displaced. Why is Trump not going into Sudan, @Hoardasurass ?

Something had to be done about them.

Ha!
"Something should be done" about

  • Gaza ( ten times the people you mentioned, have been killed. Never going to happen, but doesn't "something have to be done" here also?!)
  • Democratic Republic of Congo leadership
  • Myanmar ( humanitarian crisis)
  • Haiti ( absolutely horrendous there for civilians )

I could go on and on.

I think you need to realise quickly that Iran is a convenient truth, a useful target for Trump because it neatly fits certain boxes for him.

There are a dozen other conflict zones that need more urgent attention, but the people there are African, or Caribbean, or Palestinian, and so fit an inconvenient set of truths.

None of the countries youve mentioned are building nuclear weapons though. Iran are. Id be happy to know that their capabilities to produce weapons of mass destruction has been removed. Problem is, in Iran, that their religion teaches that there is paradise waiting for them on death, so they would have no hesitation in pressing the button knowing that they might also be sending themselves to certain death.

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:02

Mouseycheesey · 03/03/2026 18:56

This is true to a great extent but it’s not the whole story. In a democracy, even someone like Trump will be influenced by whether his electorate and the electorates of powerful allies consider his actions moral.

To be honest he doesn’t need to be influenced by anything anymore. It’s not like he’ll have another term, despite the conspiracy theories.

The time to influence and exercise leverage was when Europe was busy destroying its own power and engaging in economic self sabotage. The US economy has run aaay with itself, while Europe and especially this country has been left behind since 2008. All of own making. When you are the tech, finance and defence powerhouse of the world, and your so-called allies are weak and defenceless themselves, the executive can do what Trump is doing.

Donttellempike · 03/03/2026 19:04

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TheWonderhorse · 03/03/2026 19:06

You are here doing that. Saying morality doesn't matter and everyone has Trump Derangement Syndrome and other nations are wet wipes.

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:07

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 18:49

It’s how they operate. Never happier than when in an echo chamber.

Yep that’s true but it just skews threads where the vote doesn’t match the posts.

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:08

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:07

Yep that’s true but it just skews threads where the vote doesn’t match the posts.

Why don't you explain your views then for balance? I assume you are not left leaning?

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:09

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:07

Yep that’s true but it just skews threads where the vote doesn’t match the posts.

That’s why it’s called Trump derangement syndrome. They can’t talk about a topic without frothing about Trump. And name calling other poster and personal attacks. And then if you say the phrase Trump derangement syndrome, they get even more riled. Like, why so angry? Just debate like normal person.

CheeseyOnionPie · 03/03/2026 19:11

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 07:26

So much Trump derangement syndrome from those like to post in glee about what Trump is doing.

So what?

He can do what he likes. Thats what strong, resourceful powerful people do. Rich, powerful people who prioritise their own prosperity over virtue signalling about international law always lead the agenda. It’s why being a wet wipe and pathetic bleeding heart never gets anyone anywhere.

You don’t have to like it, but you have to accept it. So keep exercising Trump derangement syndrome. But his country prioritizes economic growth, cheap energy and strong military. Taking a moral stance while being a pathetic backwater in a corner of Europe doesn’t actually make any difference. Whether you are for or against this war.

He protects child abusers. And you seem to be gushing all over him. Just my observation.

CheeseyOnionPie · 03/03/2026 19:12

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:09

That’s why it’s called Trump derangement syndrome. They can’t talk about a topic without frothing about Trump. And name calling other poster and personal attacks. And then if you say the phrase Trump derangement syndrome, they get even more riled. Like, why so angry? Just debate like normal person.

Sorry, we normal humans get a bit frothy about child abusers and those who go to extreme lengths to protect them. Our bad! 😁

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/03/2026 19:13

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:09

That’s why it’s called Trump derangement syndrome. They can’t talk about a topic without frothing about Trump. And name calling other poster and personal attacks. And then if you say the phrase Trump derangement syndrome, they get even more riled. Like, why so angry? Just debate like normal person.

Perhaps you could debate like a normal person instead of throwing out nonsense terms like Trump derangement syndrome. As soon as you invoke that stupid phrase, it tells everyone that you aren't a serious poster.

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:13

CheeseyOnionPie · 03/03/2026 19:11

He protects child abusers. And you seem to be gushing all over him. Just my observation.

It’s called understanding the world as it is, not deluding yourself about how you would wish it to be. And if you do wish it to be a certain way, lecturing on morality alone won’t change it. It takes power and leverage to change stuff.

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:13

CheeseyOnionPie · 03/03/2026 19:12

Sorry, we normal humans get a bit frothy about child abusers and those who go to extreme lengths to protect them. Our bad! 😁

Out of interest do you get ‘frothy’ about regimes blinding, mutilating and killing anyone who dissents?

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:14

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/03/2026 19:13

Perhaps you could debate like a normal person instead of throwing out nonsense terms like Trump derangement syndrome. As soon as you invoke that stupid phrase, it tells everyone that you aren't a serious poster.

Thanks for making my point for me. It’s a phrase. The fact that you are so triggered by it that it invokes this reaction and personal attack from you proves why the phrase was created in the first place.

Ihatethistimeline · 03/03/2026 19:15

It’s revealing that some self-styled “patriots” in politics and the media, are attacking Starmer for refusing to risk British troops in a potentially open-ended conflict tied to Trump’s agenda.

Many of these same voices once criticised our involvement in Iraq. Their sudden appetite for escalation raises serious questions about what they mean by patriotism, and whose interests they prioritise. I guess their allegiance lies with the guy who claimed our troops did nothing in Iraq.

Also when is Trump sending his son, Baron?

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:16

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:13

Out of interest do you get ‘frothy’ about regimes blinding, mutilating and killing anyone who dissents?

Bit like ICE in the US

Finding a regime abhorrent doesn't mean supporting bombing it.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/03/2026 19:17

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:14

Thanks for making my point for me. It’s a phrase. The fact that you are so triggered by it that it invokes this reaction and personal attack from you proves why the phrase was created in the first place.

I'm not in the slightest bit triggered by it. It just marks you out as not having anything interesting or intelligent to say.

EasternStandard · 03/03/2026 19:17

Smeuse · 03/03/2026 19:16

Bit like ICE in the US

Finding a regime abhorrent doesn't mean supporting bombing it.

What should the Iranian people do?

BeAvidHiker · 03/03/2026 19:17

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/03/2026 19:17

I'm not in the slightest bit triggered by it. It just marks you out as not having anything interesting or intelligent to say.

Thanks again. Keep going.