Yes exactly. I've lost just over 5 stone now and as I am quite short, that's a lot. I lost the first stone by myself then I struggled to go further and started yo-yoing, so I went on the WLI. It's been slow and steady with lots of months with little or no loss. I've been on WLIs for 2 years and 2 months now.
I am starting to get a bit pissed off with people prying about when I am 'going to stop.' and making comments along the lines of 'be careful you don't go too far. Think of your face.' and 'you look tired.' So what? It's none of your business and I don't give a fuck. I'm healthier and LESS TIRED than I've been in many years. My face isn't bloated and my double chin has gone. I don't wheeze and get out of breath doing normal things. I can walk further and run if I need to. I can bend properly to do my laces up. I have more energy. My balance is better. My knees and back and hips don't creak and ache all the time. My gastric reflux is cured. My asthma has gone. I don't get plantar fasciitis any more. I probably drink about the same amount of alcohol in a week now that I used to drink in a night. Why anyone thinks I should be concerned about any of that and worry more about 'looking tired' when I don't actually feel tired is a mystery to me.
I'm 60 so people can hardly expect to not see signs of ageing in my face at this stage anyway. If I want a facelift or some fillers to counteract this, then I'll get them. I'd rather do that, or just accept that I am a bit more wrinkly now than spend one more day being obese. It's an absolute no brainer for me.
I've had someone tell me just yesterday 'I think you've lost enough now.' Well thanks for your unsolicited opinion but I'll decide when I've lost enough and your thoughts on the matter mean jack shit to me.
I am not even close to being underweight. My BMI is 23. If I stayed exactly where I am then I'd be perfectly happy with that but if I lose a bit more then so be it. I'd have to lose another stone at least before I was even nudging the underweight section of the BMI chart. I'm wearing a size 10 from M&S and we all know M&S cut their clothes on the large side. If and when I am a size 6 then I'll be told I'm 'too thin' but until then, butt out. I am capable of looking in the mirror and seeing for myself when I'm looking worse rather than better. I'm not an idiot. If you are more comfortable with me looking on the fatter side of acceptable, that's your problem, not mine.
I actually think my WL will plateau by itself before I am in danger of being 'too thin' but if not then my provider will no doubt ask me to send a video of me standing on scales, like they did when I first went on it. I have to update on my weight every time I re-order, so I guess they will tell me when it's time to start a maintenance programme with a view to coming off altogether eventually. If they think I'm too thin they will stop providing.
I want to get very comfortably to a point where, when I am no longer on the WLIs I have a buffer zone of around 7-10 lbs where I can afford to put a bit of weight on if I take my eye off the ball for a bit, but not so much that I've put myself back into the overweight zone on the BMI chart and it's an uphill struggle to get myself back to where I feel most comfortable. So I will keep going until I reach that point (another 7 lbs or so) and can hold it steady for a few months, then I'll start coming off.