Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wonder why right wingers such sore losers?

296 replies

Sparklespecs · 27/02/2026 07:33

Whether it’s Trump crowing about elections being stolen (although not those he actually won) and Farage moaning about “sectarian voting and cheating” in Denton and Gorton, why can’t they just take a defeat on the chin? You win some, you lose some. Congratulate the winner, reflect, and then move on to the next one.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
7
EasternStandard · 27/02/2026 08:57

Very happy with the result. First, second and third as wanted.

Not sure what’s going on with the voting issue but if something needs to change then monitor it better, don’t overturn anything.

Sskka · 27/02/2026 08:57

Sparklespecs · 27/02/2026 07:33

Whether it’s Trump crowing about elections being stolen (although not those he actually won) and Farage moaning about “sectarian voting and cheating” in Denton and Gorton, why can’t they just take a defeat on the chin? You win some, you lose some. Congratulate the winner, reflect, and then move on to the next one.

Like the left did with Brexit? Like the nationalists did with the Scottish independence referendum? Like the democrats did with Trump?

I’m not sure you’ve thought this through.

Imdunfer · 27/02/2026 08:57

Sparklespecs · 27/02/2026 07:49

Agreed, if it happened it’s not acceptable. But how do they know the people who are alleged to have done this voted Green?

It doesn't matter who they voted for.

5128gap · 27/02/2026 08:58

Everanewbie · 27/02/2026 08:49

Not Reform. Me. I don’t hate many things, but if there is one thing I do hate, it’s a UK party that masquerades as an environmental champion, but the only things they champion is sectarian Islamic politics, Gaza, and taking even more of our hard earned wages to roll out the red carpet for ready made green voters from the third world. The feminist champions that condone dragging wives, daughters, sisters into ballot box and pass concerns off as “right wing bad losers”.

If this unholy alliance of Islam and blue haired pronoun idiots get anywhere near power, lord we’re screwed. I’d consider voting for the Green Party of 15 years ago, but these idiots want locking up, along with all their supporters.

What evidence do you have that Muslim women think differently to Muslim men on these issues and that their votes must have been cast under duress? Because surely there must be evidence of a lot of support for Reform amongst Muslim women to have sparked suspicion the outcome was only achieved because their views were suppressed?

Eskarina1 · 27/02/2026 08:58

Hedgesandbutterflies · 27/02/2026 08:17

Yeah I think the moaning is valid.

From bbc:
An election observer group has claimed its team witnessed "concerningly high levels" of family voting in the Gorton and Denton by-election.

Family voting is an offence that can be committed when a person casting a ballot in an election is joined in a polling booth by someone who intends to influence how they vote.

Electoral law protects the secrecy of ballots in polling stations.

Democracy Volunteers said they attended 22 of the 45 polling stations in the constituency, spending 30 to 45 minutes in each.

The group said it had seen family voting in 15 of the 22 polling stations observed.

The group said they observed a sample of 545 individuals casting their vote and saw 32 cases of family voting in total, including nine cases in one polling station.

John Ault, director of Democracy Volunteers, said: "Today we have seen concerningly high levels of family voting in Gorton and Denton.

"Based on our assessment of today's observations, we have seen the highest levels of family voting at any election in our 10-year history of observing elections in the UK.

"We rarely issue a report on the night of an election, but the data we have collected today on family voting, when compared to other recent by-elections, is extremely high.

"In the other recent Westminster parliamentary by-election in Runcorn and Helsby we saw family voting in 12% of polling stations, affecting 1% of voters.

"In Gorton and Denton, we observed family voting in 68% of polling stations, affecting 12% of those voters observed."

It is concerning. The solution probably isn't just more controls to prevent family voting but needs to include support to those who cannot or are not allowed to vote alone. We shouldn't disenfranchise people from voting.

I remember trying to follow my parent into a voting booth and being told to stand to one side. Last time I voted I was told my children could stand in the booth with me. It is less strict than it was, we should probably tighten it. The issue should be raised, safe and legal elections are important.

I don't see how a rerun would help reform though. Anti reform voters would know how to vote tactically and people would be annoyed at the mucking around.

BIossomtoes · 27/02/2026 08:58

Everanewbie · 27/02/2026 08:55

I don’t know who Goodwin is, but it sounds like they have the situation well summarised, as do I.

He was the Reform candidate at G&D. Perhaps stay away from political threads with that degree of ignorance.

Brownbananaspot · 27/02/2026 08:58

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 27/02/2026 08:35

I would like to have a specific description of exactly what they mean by family voting - i.e. what exactly did they observe?

Are we being told that at least 15 different polling stations, officials were allowing more than one individual at a time in their polling booths? And that not a single returning officer or poll clerk at any one of these polling stations raised concerns about this?

I was thinking this too. I've been a poll clerk on and off for years and the rules on only allowing a single person into a voting booth are very strict. I've had to remind people on occasion. But not often.

The accusations from 'political observers' (usually paid for by actual political parties not independent at all) aren't unusual and hard to disprove after the voting is done.

Based on my experience having worked in polling stations. I smell bullshit

randomchap · 27/02/2026 08:59

Everanewbie · 27/02/2026 08:55

I don’t know who Goodwin is, but it sounds like they have the situation well summarised, as do I.

Really? On a discussion regarding a by-election you don't know the candidate who came second?

Are you not embarrassed by this?

Bargepole45 · 27/02/2026 09:01

ManukaMoneyMaker · 27/02/2026 08:31

It sounds like it went further than attending together, and was two people in a booth. That's the bit that is disallowed. I totally get that it could be cultural, but then there needs to be clearer explanation of what is required and expected to vote in the UK to break that habit.

Exactly, the rules are the rules irrespective of different cultural norms. The system simply wouldn't work if we started making different rules for different cultures.

Personally I think that any political party or person that is polarising is more likely to have groups acting against them in an unfair way. People will do a lot to stop them and almost feel its their ethical duty to do so. Look at some of the rhetoric on Mumsnet and it's pretty easy to see that some people want to stop Reform at all costs. They would absolutely be prepared to break democracy to do this.

gannett · 27/02/2026 09:02

I like how much of this thread actually proves the premise. Lots of prejudices about Muslim women coming out!

EverythingGolden · 27/02/2026 09:03

Sskka · 27/02/2026 08:57

Like the left did with Brexit? Like the nationalists did with the Scottish independence referendum? Like the democrats did with Trump?

I’m not sure you’ve thought this through.

I don’t think any of those elections or referendums were widely said to be invalid or cheated? There is a difference between moaning about losing and saying you didn’t actually lose. Although of course gerrymandering is a thing and if there has been multiple people in booths they need to seriously address that.

nomas · 27/02/2026 09:05

PlattyCat · 27/02/2026 07:37

Yes because the lefties just accepted Brexit with good grace and moved on swiftly.

There is very sore losers on both sides

Edited

Brexit turned out so well innit.

staringatthesun · 27/02/2026 09:05

BeAvidHiker · 27/02/2026 08:07

Postal voting fraud. People breaking the law to vote in the same booth. Always happens in these far left constituencies.

Can you link to the evidence on this please?

Obeseandashamed · 27/02/2026 09:05

It’s silly because most of the labour voters are unlikely to have automatically voted reform instead. Even if you take a 50/50 split of the labour votes, Green would have come out on top. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Hedgesandbutterflies · 27/02/2026 09:05

All of you would be very much up in arms if same allegations of family voting were mentioned if reform would win... Starting to ferl like fraud is fine if the result is what someone wanted.

I am absolutely not a reform supporter and do not care for religion of voters, but these are serious allegations and should be investigated.

Everanewbie · 27/02/2026 09:05

randomchap · 27/02/2026 08:59

Really? On a discussion regarding a by-election you don't know the candidate who came second?

Are you not embarrassed by this?

I know the runner up was reform. What I’m embarrassed by is Islam and Gaza having any influence in UK politics.

LancashireButterPie · 27/02/2026 09:05

Sskka · 27/02/2026 08:57

Like the left did with Brexit? Like the nationalists did with the Scottish independence referendum? Like the democrats did with Trump?

I’m not sure you’ve thought this through.

The left did accept the Brexit result. Brexit happened and the right got what they wanted
and we are all so much better off because of it.......oh wait!

Look at your personal budgets, are you better off since Brexit? I'm guessing most aren't.

Obeseandashamed · 27/02/2026 09:06

P.S we go to vote as a family as it means we can take it in turns watching the kids who aren’t old enough to vote.

Agrumpyknitter · 27/02/2026 09:06

ExtraOnions · 27/02/2026 08:24

…so all of the Election officers, at all the Polling stations colluded with (radical) Muslims, to stop Reform from getting an MP

Or

“Democracy Volunteers” an organisation founded, and supported by a Conservative Peer, sent 4 volunteers to Gorton, who have made some vague claims.

The right wing have a massive amount of entitlement, and an inflated opinion of themselves.

It is disappointing that the observers didn’t raise any issues at the polling stations with the trained council staff when they were observing these events. Won’t an investigation after the event be hard to prove. I saw the mention of the conservative peer too.

Whattodo541289 · 27/02/2026 09:09

PlattyCat · 27/02/2026 07:37

Yes because the lefties just accepted Brexit with good grace and moved on swiftly.

There is very sore losers on both sides

Edited

And in Scotland, the leftie SNP have NEVER accepted the Scottish referendum result

NarnianQueen · 27/02/2026 09:11

I think the upset in Denton and Gorton comes partly from the fact people were engaging in group voting - literally going into the booths to make sure their family members were voting the way they’d been told - which is highly illegal and basically makes the results meaningless

EverythingGolden · 27/02/2026 09:11

Obeseandashamed · 27/02/2026 09:06

P.S we go to vote as a family as it means we can take it in turns watching the kids who aren’t old enough to vote.

The issue is not going as a family but more than one person going into a booth at the same time.

randomchap · 27/02/2026 09:11

Everanewbie · 27/02/2026 09:05

I know the runner up was reform. What I’m embarrassed by is Islam and Gaza having any influence in UK politics.

Islamophobia and ignorance then. The two do go hand in hand

EverythingGolden · 27/02/2026 09:12

Whattodo541289 · 27/02/2026 09:09

And in Scotland, the leftie SNP have NEVER accepted the Scottish referendum result

Have they said the vote result itself was illegal or cheated?

TheKuiperBelt · 27/02/2026 09:14

BIossomtoes · 27/02/2026 08:53

I thought you wanted me to focus on the Titanic? Yet here you are pulling me back to the deckchairs.

Like that is it?

Yeah, I don’t see him lasting either - surely he’s done now….