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cornflakecrunchie · 26/02/2026 17:41

..of asylum seekers..
On the news. Are we supposed to be impressed? They are just being shuffled elsewhere, aren't they?

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Happyjoe · 27/02/2026 00:27

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:04

There was also an Irish man on the train as well who helped. The Algerian man wasn't an unvetted refugee. Also look at the man who did the attack.....

You can't tell for sure. But you can refuse to allow immigration from third world nations such as Afghanistan, Somalia, Sudan etc. especially unchecked, unvetted people not pre-cleared by the home office, arriving on a boat

The man who did the attack was British. Or do you have a problem because he was a black British man? I think you do. Oh dear.

The hero on the train is an Arab, probably Muslim. You know, that religion people like to slag off, saying their ways are different to our own and that women are not safe from.

It's the generalisation and demonising of whole groups of people that gets my goat, it truly does.

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 27/02/2026 00:27

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:24

So if a few girls were murdered (Rhiannon was), or raped (as those 2 afghans did to that girl in the park) it's just an unfortunate consequence we have to accept?

Seems a lot of people think that. I don't think it's acceptable. The children affected may well be the children of legal immigrants. Children who are growing up in this country SHOULD come first in terms of THEIR human right not to be attacked.

But seemingly that's not where we are as a country.

IrisieMendimeve · 27/02/2026 00:28

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can you explain in which way you understand people to be able to legally enter the uk for the purposes of claiming asylum currently please?

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:30

mollypuss1 · 27/02/2026 00:27

So if thousands die in a war torn country because we refuse asylum that’s just an unfortunate consequence we have to accept?

The UK Government's first and foremost duty is to protect UK citizens. There are lots of sad things happening to many people across the world, but it's not our responsibility.

mollypuss1 · 27/02/2026 00:30

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:25

We can decide not to be a part of it and do what we want. We are a sovereign state you know

The old ‘sovereign state’ line. You’ll be telling us we need to ‘take our county back’ soon.

Happyjoe · 27/02/2026 00:31

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:30

The UK Government's first and foremost duty is to protect UK citizens. There are lots of sad things happening to many people across the world, but it's not our responsibility.

They've not protected us in years.
We'd have a working NHS for starters if they actually gave a toss.

womendeserveequalhumanrights · 27/02/2026 00:32

It's not difficult. There will be good and bad people here legally. We have enough problems with child rape in this country as it is FFS.

Why on earth would we allow lots of illegal immigrants to come in from countries that think women don't deserve human rights. We don't have to let them in if they're illegal immigrants, we're choosing to, and these men commit sexual offences at a much higher rate than men who are legally here (be they legal immigrants or not). We are actively choosing to import men with no right to be here who have a higher risk of committing rape.

Why are people so concerned about men from war torn countries but not the thousands of children who've already been raped and tortured in the UK? With such a big problem already why are we importing high risk demographics?

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:33

mollypuss1 · 27/02/2026 00:30

The old ‘sovereign state’ line. You’ll be telling us we need to ‘take our county back’ soon.

We are a sovereign state, if we want to cut foreign aid we can

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 27/02/2026 00:36

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:30

The UK Government's first and foremost duty is to protect UK citizens. There are lots of sad things happening to many people across the world, but it's not our responsibility.

Well, legally speaking, it is our responsibility to give refuge to those who qualify. And many would argue that there are moral responsibilities too, given the way in which we have contributed in the past to some of the circumstances that are now causing people to migrate.

But we are not the only country carrying this responsibility in any case. Only a very small number of the world's refugees end up in the UK.

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:39

Happyjoe · 27/02/2026 00:31

They've not protected us in years.
We'd have a working NHS for starters if they actually gave a toss.

And we'd have secured the border and stopped the boats if they gave a toss.

mollypuss1 · 27/02/2026 00:46

Tricket · 27/02/2026 00:30

The UK Government's first and foremost duty is to protect UK citizens. There are lots of sad things happening to many people across the world, but it's not our responsibility.

The response of the privileged, “Sorry you’re dying but it’s not happening to me so I don’t actually give a shit”.

You do know you are 6 times more likely to be sexually abused by a partner or family member than you are a stranger. Should the government ban marriage to protect UK citizens?

cshp · 27/02/2026 01:12

Allseeingallknowing · 26/02/2026 18:51

Young men, unknown, undocumented-do you think they should be free to come and go as they please?

Yes...

Midwifelife · 27/02/2026 02:10

Allseeingallknowing · 26/02/2026 18:23

What is your solution to this then? How can the U.K. house and care for these people? Those who spend years on a council waiting list rightly resent those being prioritised by councils , and receiving dental care etc which they can’t access!

Be mad at the council and government decision to sell off and privatise both those sectors instead of innocent people who also have a need for those services?! It's a capacity issues because we have privatised what should be public services, not a foreign person fleeing horrors (dressed up by the media to be a giant benefits scam)

HildegardP · 27/02/2026 02:37

LVhandbagsatdawn · 26/02/2026 18:21

With respect, it's clear you don't have the first clue about international and maritime law.

Inter alia.

SiouxieSue · 27/02/2026 02:43

Allseeingallknowing · 26/02/2026 18:20

France could strengthen their borders for a start, plus we are paying the French millions to stand on the shore and wave bye bye to the dinghies, no results, no more money. Clamp down on dinghy manufacturers. Stop RNLI providing a water taxi service, instead have patrol boats to escort them back to France.

The RNLI is a charity, which means, in case you’ve not cottoned on, it does not receive ANY state funding, but runs on donations. And I still pay my monthly direct debit to RNLI as I’m not an empty of compassion t*at who celebrates people drowning.

SheSaidHummingbird · 27/02/2026 03:11

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 26/02/2026 18:19

Please stop seeking to dehumanise people by referring to them as "illegals".

Isn't it amazing that I can identify which newspaper a person reads by their use of a single word?

BoredOfCbeebies · 27/02/2026 03:17

Allseeingallknowing · 26/02/2026 18:13

Yes, those who will be useful to us and apply via legal routes

There are vanishingly few legal routes unless you come from Ukraine or Hong Kong.

Theunamedcat · 27/02/2026 07:01

Tricket · 26/02/2026 22:35

So you want them removed?

If they have been removed once and returned of course they should be removed again

MsJinks · 27/02/2026 07:23

So much misunderstanding on this thread - it has all been said before and again here but:
Asylum seekers are not illegal, they are pending their claim being processed.

The rights to claim asylum are under the UNCHR but also confirmed by U.K. case law , R v Uxbridge.

75% are still being granted within an ever tightened system.

We did promise Afghans who fought with us/translated for us safety - only some got here on the resettlement route in the absolute shitshow and aftermath of the fall of Kabul.

Main nations seeking asylum are from Eritrea, Iran, Afghanistan, Somalia.

Traffickers and smugglers take passports to help ensure payment, often in loan form, pressure any family in the home country, maintain control.

One Big reason for the wait is the huge backlog allowed to build up under the Tories.

The spend in asylum seekers is around 0.4% of total government budget - less than their percentage spend on expenses.

The percentage spend of the RNLI saving people from small boats - not that it is even relevant to their remit is 1.2% - and this might be offset a bit by the big increase in donations when people complain about this issue - heartwarming.

The main money out of this itself goes to fat cat hotel owners not the asylum seekers, as there’s the backlog and a mess made forcing more accommodation to be needed, and ‘business’ people, often Tory friends saw an opening.

The government is in charge of immigration so even if there were no asylum seekers your local council would not be housing any more homeless - which is a more complex topic.

Think where you would feel most comfortable to reset up an entire life if fleeing the U.K. - would you stay in France when you speak the language in Australia? When you have relatives in Greece?

And no they’re not all just fit for care - many have other and high level qualifications that just need conversion to U.K. approved - the BMA for example is currently helping around 2,000 refugees convert medical qualifications.

Asylum seekers often ultimately bring net benefits to the U.K. including economically when allowed to work - the determination to get across the world in a precarious and dangerous way implies they will focus and succeed.

Despite all the above actually I would think basic decency means you don’t want to harm a particular section of humans under any circumstances- but would prefer to handle issues humanely. This is the society we all live in right now - let’s be a decent one for all our sakes.

Tricket · 27/02/2026 07:35

mollypuss1 · 27/02/2026 00:46

The response of the privileged, “Sorry you’re dying but it’s not happening to me so I don’t actually give a shit”.

You do know you are 6 times more likely to be sexually abused by a partner or family member than you are a stranger. Should the government ban marriage to protect UK citizens?

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The government should arrest and charge citizens who break the law.

And also not import masses of unchecked foreign ones.

Data from Norway, Sweden and Denmark is clear.

randomchap · 27/02/2026 07:39

UncannyFanny · 26/02/2026 21:04

Just a hunch but maybe if people were a little more honest and stopped destroying their documents, lying about where they came from and pretending to be bearded 12 year olds, maybe, just maybe, there wouldn’t be such a big backlog.

Or maybe if people stopped posting bullshit on social media demonising asylum seekers then they would be seen as less of a threat

Tricket · 27/02/2026 07:40

randomchap · 27/02/2026 07:39

Or maybe if people stopped posting bullshit on social media demonising asylum seekers then they would be seen as less of a threat

How many would you happily welcome into your home?

randomchap · 27/02/2026 07:45

Tricket · 27/02/2026 07:40

How many would you happily welcome into your home?

How many would you happily see drown in the channel?

ExtraOnions · 27/02/2026 07:49

This thread is full of sorts of people who were protesting to stop Jews coming into the country in the 1930s. The same old arguments were used there as are used now. It’s all about dehumanising people, blaming them for things that are nothing to do with them, “othering” them, usuing pejorative langague, accusing them of just wanting to get their hands on your money.

100 years on, same old shit

sleepwouldbenice · 27/02/2026 07:50

BoredOfCbeebies · 27/02/2026 03:17

There are vanishingly few legal routes unless you come from Ukraine or Hong Kong.

Weren't labour opening up new legal routes? Do we know anything more about this?