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Scared of growing resentment towards people of colour

108 replies

AppleJuiceAvid · 14/02/2026 08:19

Is anyone else scared there will be a war in the UK? Elon Musk seems to be encouraging it and Donald Trump supports far-right ideas, saying that European countries face civilisational erasure due to immigration. When you've got the rich and powerful like Sir Jim Ratcliffe saying that the UK has been colonised by immigrants, this just stokes people's anger even more against non-white immigrants. More and more white people are growing resentful of non-white people.

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ilovesooty · 14/02/2026 08:21

I think all those ideas are abhorrent, but, no, I'm not scared that there is going to be a war.

HelpMeGetThrough · 14/02/2026 08:36

No, not worried at all. If there is one, it is what it is. Nothing I can do about it, so won’t worry.

LlynTegid · 14/02/2026 08:38

I am not sure whether it is more resentment aka racism, or just that those who were always racist express it more in public or online.

Isittimeformynapyet · 14/02/2026 08:41

ilovesooty · 14/02/2026 08:21

I think all those ideas are abhorrent, but, no, I'm not scared that there is going to be a war.

Absolutely this.

PeachOctopus · 14/02/2026 08:47

Whites are becoming the minority by 2056 and its a huge significant cultural shift in our society.
Significantly the biggest cultural shift in 1500 years.
I think so far we have coped with the changes to society pretty well so far but I can see the speed of change has caused difficulties, my family has mixed heritage and there are different cultural expectations over women’s roles etc.
think a lot of people stick their head in the sand about the problems that are arising from sectarianism, different rules for different areas.

LakieLady · 14/02/2026 08:48

ilovesooty · 14/02/2026 08:21

I think all those ideas are abhorrent, but, no, I'm not scared that there is going to be a war.

Same here.

I find these repeated attempts to legitimise racism and xenophobia profoundly depressing though.

frozendaisy · 14/02/2026 08:50

The British moaning about colonisation

BMW6 · 14/02/2026 08:50

I've got news for you OP.

My brown neighbours all think illegal immigration is wrong and they should be deported.

dunroamingfornow · 14/02/2026 08:52

PeachOctopus · 14/02/2026 08:47

Whites are becoming the minority by 2056 and its a huge significant cultural shift in our society.
Significantly the biggest cultural shift in 1500 years.
I think so far we have coped with the changes to society pretty well so far but I can see the speed of change has caused difficulties, my family has mixed heritage and there are different cultural expectations over women’s roles etc.
think a lot of people stick their head in the sand about the problems that are arising from sectarianism, different rules for different areas.

Do you know how this has been predicted? Also from a mixed family but in my case adult family children who are mixed race marrying and having their own children who look white, blond hair blue eyes etc.

GentleSheep · 14/02/2026 08:52

Society at the moment seems obsessed by war - or at least those with power seem obsessed with it - either the Russians invading or some kind of civil war in the UK. I'm not going to worry about it as worry doesn't achieve anything, but I do wonder where it's all heading.

MunicipalDarwinism · 14/02/2026 08:56

Whites are becoming the minority by 2056
@PeachOctopus do you have a source for this figure, please?

knittywit · 14/02/2026 09:09

There will not be a war. How ridiculous!

There could be riots and protests but not war.

CharSiu · 14/02/2026 09:54

For starters some people that are not white do not like being called people of colour. It’s an Americanism that has unfortunatley arrived here. I am of Chinese origin and do not like it, born here, my family arrived decades ago. They came with the correct papers and through the correct channels.

I will tell you right now that some people do not like the level of immigration and that does include immigrants or their descendants, especially with cultures that do not integrate are religous zealous or culturally treat women as lesser humans.

Who do you mix with op as @BMW6 writes their not white neighbours do not like the amount of immigration. Our family includes various nationalities as DH massively liberal family that are historically totally white have a generation who married Chinese, Korean and Indian people. All met at University and these people are all people like me. Settled and whilst embracing their own cultures are sensitive about British culture.

I recently had to see a hospital consultant, he was Nigerian. Actual racists would not like him. They are actually few and far between, shouting racist at anyone who wants to debate and has a concern about immigration will actually and has already caused division. I’m assuming you are wracked with white guilt, people need to stop this. My DH family are all like this.

Bryonyberries · 14/02/2026 10:08

I think it’s cultural differences that cause the clash not race. Human’s were tribal for a long time, we do notice differences. Most of us are pretty accommodating and understand that we are part of a bigger world but I think the problems occur when incoming cultures clash with the resident culture. I think history has shown this in all the invasions that have occurred between countries and cultures.

TheKeatingFive · 14/02/2026 10:11

I don't understand the Elon Musk reference. What's he got to do with anything?

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 14/02/2026 10:14

our country and civilisation is being erased. Our taxes are going up to support the immigrants no one wanted. You can't really blame white British folk.

JoyOfSpecs · 14/02/2026 10:17

Fearmongering post.

HellsBells13 · 14/02/2026 10:18

I don't giving a sh@t what colour you are. I do give a sh@t that daily, illegals are arriving with clearly different cultural expectations and view women less than. The country is on its knees and we cannot keep accepting them and housing them. This is not about race it's about finances and protecting females.

TheHouseElf · 14/02/2026 10:21

Oh do give over.

Kingdomofsleep · 14/02/2026 10:23

some people that are not white do not like being called people of colour

Hear, hear. Why lump everyone who isn't white into a big group and leave just white people out of that? It doesn't make any sense. I'm mixed white and Asian, why would I have more in common with black people than white people? According to the NEU I'm a "Black NEU member": when I queried this they said that covered "all POC". It actually erases black people as well as other ethnicities.

"BAME" went out of favour for being too generic. POC is worse. It's literally defining people by the "colour" of their skin

Kingdomofsleep · 14/02/2026 10:27

I am a naturalised immigrant (that means I have British nationality now) and pay lots of taxes here and have done since I was 22yo. I hate this assumption that because I'm an immigrant, I'm fine with other immigrants living off benefits and I must be left wing by default because I'm "a POC". It's patronising. I have a colleague (as it happens, a white man) who was aghast that I have these views.

I'm not about to vote Reform, because I don't agree with all of their ideas, but I do agree with the general principle that there are too few net contributors in this country, and I'm glad people are trying to think of ways to shift the balance

Kingdomofsleep · 14/02/2026 10:32

All this tiptoeing around so we "don't look racist" means that things like severe disabilities arising from repeated first cousin marriage aren't discussed properly because we're scared of "offending" people.

I care more about protecting women and children than not offending people.

Poppingby · 14/02/2026 10:32

PeachOctopus · 14/02/2026 08:47

Whites are becoming the minority by 2056 and its a huge significant cultural shift in our society.
Significantly the biggest cultural shift in 1500 years.
I think so far we have coped with the changes to society pretty well so far but I can see the speed of change has caused difficulties, my family has mixed heritage and there are different cultural expectations over women’s roles etc.
think a lot of people stick their head in the sand about the problems that are arising from sectarianism, different rules for different areas.

Whites are becoming the minority where? Evidence for your date claim please? What a load of balls. Your family being of mixed heritage doesn't mean you should be let off spouting spurious racist shite. My family is entirely white and there are still cultural expectations and differences to manage, it's called being a human person interacting with other human people.

Poppingby · 14/02/2026 10:33

HellsBells13 · 14/02/2026 10:18

I don't giving a sh@t what colour you are. I do give a sh@t that daily, illegals are arriving with clearly different cultural expectations and view women less than. The country is on its knees and we cannot keep accepting them and housing them. This is not about race it's about finances and protecting females.

@HellsBells13 you can say shit on here - even when you're talking it.

MuddyPawsIndoors · 14/02/2026 10:36

No, I'm not scared there'll be a war.

I've been on MN around 16 years and there's always been threads declaring that war is about to break out, and some MNetters scaremongering the anxious.

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