Anonymous valentines card from a woman in my street

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I’ve just received an anonymous valentines card from a woman in my street. The card had a stamp on it and it said “The woman within” and my address! The card mentions her seeing me walking to my bus and how she waits for her husband and kids to go out and…well! She says she’s bisexual and she goes into detail about what she wants to do to me…omg!

The card was posted first class, why pay for a stamp lol. Could this be a hoax? It was quite specific about seeing me walking to my bus.

I’m separated from my ex - could it be him or his family playing a prank? Or do I have a randy, bisexual neighbour??

I dunno what to think! 🙈

you’d be mad- man or woman- to log one letter with the police

I feel weirdly over protective of the postie being mixed up in this scandal 😭

this is the second post I have read mentioning willies and butter. What is going on??!’ 🤦‍♀️

You have the most powerful, intuitive tool that any of us have ever seen in your hand.

Don’t put it in the bin. Put it up on the mantelpiece, then take a photo and put it in the family group chat, and call them all losers in comparison!

Normal to post via stamp as they won’t want to be seen posting it through your letterbox. Very exciting! Haha.

Why has no one said teens, my bet is it's likely teen boys who think it's hilarious, if its real

Bc they don’t want to be seen posting it on ring doorbell obviously

If you're struggling with reading some very easily decodable misspellings, you might want to look into an English as a Second Language courses, it might help.

This would make me feel really uncomfortable

A) not wanting to be seen and B) mistrust of the postal system’s ability to deliver on time. These are very very easy questions.

Omg I need to read this thread 🤣

I'd love to hear that conversation.

"Hi, police, I'm just calling to log the fact that someone sent me an anonymous valentine" 😂

I think this is really creepy, definitely from a man. I wouldn't throw it away in case this stalking escalates

Whoever said to go along with it to see the response is an actual idiot

I wouldn't contact the police at this point, but it's not just an anonymous valentine. It's an explicit message from someone who knows where the OP lives and has been watching them go about their daily life

Its threatening, not funny

The stamp and date make sense but I agree it sounds more like something a man would send, and based on what you’ve said the likely person is your ex or someone connected to him.

The card 🙈

And how could she do that when she has no way of communicating that? She doesn't even know who it's from....

How’s it both anonymous and you know who it’s from?

Inside it says -
I am a married female admirer of yours who lives in your street and I would love to make love to you.
I see you often walking to your bus and if my husband is at work and the kids are at school, I often lie on my bed (….explicit content)

I want to £&@! you so very much!

? xxx

I don’t know who it’s from?

It's your ex. You already have intuited this, so trust yourself.

Keep it hidden away as evidence as this could eb the start of a stalking campaign. Don't ever mention it to him or his family.

It’s a bit creepy tbh, but at least it’s not nasty or spiteful.

Would a woman do this?

Save the card in case the matter escalates and you find yourself having to collate evidence of stalking etc. and don’t mention it to anyone……. family, friends, neighbours, work colleagues.
Then put it out of your mind, it can only bother you if you keep dwelling on it.

It might be someone’s idea of a stupid joke and they took the opportunity of Valentines Day to make contact, albeit anonymously. To be honest, the postal system being so crap it’s a wonder it arrived before Halloween, so the sender took a gamble on that for sure!

If you receive any further ‘correspondence’ in the form of cards, letters or even messages on your mobile then save those too. In the event that things do escalate you will need as much evidence as possible to build a case.

I'm not sure why you would mock. This isn't your run of the mill anonymous valentine.

This person is unknown to her, has sent her graphic sexual content about what they want to do to her, and has clearly been watching her to know her routine and knows where she lives, and has gone out of their way to avoid being identified.

That sounds like AGP wording - a man who fantasies that he's a lesbian, usually from watching too much porn.

Are there any men on your street who wear women's clothing?