To ask for examples of the worst behaviour you've seen from an adult at a wedding?

[HappyHappyHawaii]

Attended one yesterday as a bridesmaid. The brides cousin was also a bridesmaid, spent the whole morning clearly aggrieved that the day wasn't about her... smoked in the getting ready suite and had to be told to put it out, then lit up again and claimed she had forgotten when the bride told her and made a snarky comment..then presented her silver converse she had customised to wear with her dress as she "doesn't really do heels"... the bride ignored her and sweetly said "at this point I don't think I can stop you" as she knows what she's like then what do you know, she wears the heels! There were loads of instances like this all day and she is 28 but seemed to want to just be am inconvenience all day which I assume was jealousy...even little things like being late for photos and pretending not to hear when called over, pushing the food round her plate, really ungracious behaviour. The wedding was fantastic! She could have really enjoyed it much more. Not really an aibu but whats the worst behaviour youve seen like this?

@B1anche

Of course I've made a mistake, but I was operating under the assumption that the poster had got the part about it being a "Sir" correct.

If she was mistaken about that, then it makes sense.

It was quite the death trap.

Happy days.

Please tell me how this ended 😳🫣

At my first attempt at getting married my MIL to be declared that she didn't like me and I was only after DH to be for his money
I earned nearly double his wage and had my own house and he had a massive gambling debt that they knew of but had all kept from me
We didn't say "I do"

@SabrinaThwaite sorry it wasn't, was the notorious '5th Ave' in Manchester. I remember you used to pay £2 I think to get in, but you'd be given a drinks token on entry which would get you a cheap bottle of beer and a vk lemon and a plastic pint glass so you could start with a power shandy

Mine told me to make sure I didn't let myself go 😬

Or tried to cut the thing in half and offer it round.

Who were they? Did you ever find out

I was thinking it couldn't have gone on for long because someone would have stepped in.

Oh Starkey. What a revolting thing to do. If it was him, he really isnt a nice man, is he. I dont know why he is so snotty about other people when he is clearly an absolute oik.

Thank goodness I thought it was just me.

Nieces wedding and when our DC arrived for the evening they pointed out to me these girls who were gurnning whilst on drugs

I'd never heard of gurning and definitely never seen it before. It was actually entertaining until one of them nearly trod on a glass she'd broken

I mean have a couple of drinks to maybe get into the mood but this was on another level. Do you really need to do this to enjoy an evening out

Wonder what the conversation was at work as I believe they were work colleagues

Behold the chap sigh thermometer.

No, I also had to google it 😂

I thought gurnong only happened in the advanced stages of cocaine addiction

YOU don't sound like a nice person, did you have to hijack all the attention on a wedding that wasnt yours?

Groom worked shifts and invited his two work colleagues/girlfriends (from different shifts) to his big catholic church wedding. Both girls dissolved in tears during the wedding/reception, sobbing in the loos etc. Sister of the bride had a ONS with him during the engagement. Bride was oblivious to the drama. Tiny grandmother of groom got pissed and started threatening his friends and trying to head butt them.

Marriage lasted a couple of years until he apparently called out the wrong name during sex and it all unravelled fast.

That’s the thing it wasn't rented. ExH and I paid for everything as venue didnt do decor.

We got the cake back 🙄.

So from a purely pragmatic perspective rather than a moral one - a wedding is kind of a sensible occasion on which to do cocaine.

In the right amounts it keeps you from getting sloppy/messy through drink, keep you sharp and focused even after a skin full. It gives you a bit of extra energy and enthusiasm for the evening part of the day and can make people more chatty and social.

for a lot of people weddings involve drinking from late morning/lunchtime onwards, often with not quite enough food. A cheeky bump after dinner enables one to manage the affects of alcohol and still be able to speak, dance, engage with everyone appropriately.

obviously if people get carried away and do way too much it negates this sharpening effect, but I’ll bet you’ve seen people on a little bit of coke at weddings before and not been aware, because most people can use drugs sensibly.

im not commenting on the rights and wrongs of this- just explaining why its so common.

Affects...effects
Its...it's

Fewer cheeky bumps and a bit more spelling practice is in order for you I think.... plus a little bit of light reading about the devastation and destruction to communities that is caused by the cocaine industry...just saying..

Why does every good thread get hijacked by shitgibbons wittering on about obscure irrelevancies?

The sort of thing people who use cocaine say. Lots of people who have never used it but observed the effects would say very, very different.

It's like drunks, they think they're fine, noone else does.

"Shitgibbons" this is my new word of choice when I encounter....well, a shitgibbon 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sadly, absolutely true! Many years ago now but yes - not a wedding I will ever forget!

'A cheeky bump''

'Use drugs sensibly'

Said the clueless drug user.

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