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To think is odd to refer to a 32 year old as a young woman

107 replies

Hmm66 · 06/02/2026 19:25

Personally I do

OP posts:
Bilbobagginsbollox · 06/02/2026 21:25

Yes, 32 is still young. Not middle aged until 40 at least!

ApolloandDaphne · 06/02/2026 21:42

My DM is 85 her granddaughters are all in that age range and she would refer to them as young women. Seems logical to me.

DrCoconut · 06/02/2026 21:46

TheSmallAssassin · 06/02/2026 19:45

It depends on how old you are, I'm in my 50s and 32 is still young to me. I'd definitely feel young if I was 32 again!

I’d love to be 32 again. It would be amazing. It’s definitely downhill all the way after 40 😫

Gowlett · 06/02/2026 21:48

I was a lovely young woman at 32. To me, 35 is the threshold.

TheIceBear · 06/02/2026 21:49

What age are you ? 12?

Zov · 06/02/2026 21:52

LOL of course it's not. 32 IS a young woman. 😆

bumptybum · 06/02/2026 21:53

unsevered67 · 06/02/2026 19:28

In what world is 32 not young

32 isn’t young. It’s a fully fledged adult. Not young. Not old.

nowizewords · 06/02/2026 21:54

In my job we’re all ‘girls’ or ‘the girls’ and we’re ages 20-60s!

Tryagain26 · 06/02/2026 21:56

My daughter is older tha 32 so go me a 32 year old woman is a young woman. What would you call them?

Bourneyesterday · 06/02/2026 21:57

A 32 year old is a young woman. I think it odd to be going out of your way to point out that 32 year olds are old.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 06/02/2026 22:00

Young woman is normal, she wouldn’t be middle aged or an older woman.

pinkpony88 · 06/02/2026 22:15

ScarlettSarah · 06/02/2026 19:35

Leo DiCaprio, is that you?

🤣

AzureRose · 06/02/2026 22:17

Hmm66 · 06/02/2026 19:25

Personally I do

It's relative though isn't it
It's young to a fifty year old. Fifty is young to an eighty year old

Imo, a woman in her early twenties maybe ip to 25, is a young woman.But beyond that not so much

Bellyblueboy · 06/02/2026 22:23

people like to say women are young. Put them down. Infatialise them.

if someone said a young man was calling at the door would you expect a 32 year old man or a teenager? I would expect a teenager.

A woman ranges in age from 18 to very elderly.

To me a young woman or young man is under 25.

25 to 60 is a woman or man.
60 - 75 is an older woman or man.
75 plus is an elderly woman or man.

ChikinLikin · 06/02/2026 22:26

She is a young woman, from where I'm standing.

Firefly1987 · 06/02/2026 22:30

@Bellyblueboy What if she looks younger? I'd probably call a teen a young lad rather than a young man-I'd expect older than a teenager I think.

Also some of those ages fit into two categories.

Dunnocantthinkofone · 06/02/2026 22:30

What an odd thread

if you are 25 - yes, totally weird
if you are 65 - purely factual observation, not odd at all

5foot5 · 06/02/2026 22:35

ChikinLikin · 06/02/2026 22:26

She is a young woman, from where I'm standing.

Ditto.

My DD is 30 and I definitely think of her as young and I can't see that changing in 2 years time.

Hell's Bells I don't feel old enough to have a middle -aged daughter

JustGiveMeReason · 06/02/2026 22:38

Are you not going to come back with any context @Hmm66 ?

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 06/02/2026 22:40

Well she's not middle aged, and she's not old.
At least she isn't being referred to as ' girl '

Furlane · 06/02/2026 23:00

To be fair, the OP just said a 32yr old. If that 32yr old in question was Harry Styles, then yes, it would be odd to refer to them as a young woman.

Poetnojo · 06/02/2026 23:05

youalright · 06/02/2026 21:13

It depends in what context to die yes. To have a job, child, be married own a house no.

No, just to be a human. 32 is hardly old now is it? Op gave no context whatsoever, just implied that 'calling' a woman of 32 young was odd, I don't think it's odd as 32 in human terms is still young, or at least it certainly isn't old.

Catladywithacat · 06/02/2026 23:05

Anyone under 40 is young

Gahr · 06/02/2026 23:06

YABVU. I am ten years older than that and I think of myself as young (and am read as young by most people I meet)

JustGiveMeReason · 06/02/2026 23:06

Furlane · 06/02/2026 23:00

To be fair, the OP just said a 32yr old. If that 32yr old in question was Harry Styles, then yes, it would be odd to refer to them as a young woman.

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