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To have a secret snack drawer

136 replies

Dolly34 · 28/01/2026 22:35

There’s a drawer in our kitchen that I know my husband never looks in. I bought some chocolate to bake with the other day and hid it in this draw so he wouldn’t find it and eat it before I baked. Since then, I’ve bought a big dairy milk caramel bar and left it in there for when I want to pick at it.
It’s been in there over a week, and I know if it was anywhere else, my DH would have inhaled it.

Today, I bought a pack of chocolate hobnobs and put them in the draw - again so I can pick at at my leisure when working from
home.

AIBU by hiding food from my husband to keep for myself?

(some extra context that I’ve been going through IVF this month and just want a stash for when I need it, rather than going to get something and it’s disappeared!)

  • [Note from MNHQ: We've edited the typo in the title and the opening post, just so the thread doesn't (continue!) to get derailed by people pointing it out... Give the OP a break!] Flowers
OP posts:
hanahsaunt · 28/01/2026 22:36

Drawer

Chemenger · 28/01/2026 22:36

Is that like a raffle?

BBear · 28/01/2026 22:38

Totally normal. I have a chocolate stash. Lasts for ages but if it was in the kitchen drawer it would be gone in a day and the empty wrapper left behind.

TheUsualChaos · 28/01/2026 22:39

YANBU.
I don't have a specific place where I hide things but I just put chocolate I don't want DH to help himself to in low down, inconvenient places in the kitchen cupboards. Basically if it's not in front of his face then it's safe. He's more than welcome to buy his own 🤷‍♀️

vincettenoir · 28/01/2026 22:39

Yeah I have a secret stash too.

JustineBeaver · 28/01/2026 22:40

The word is drawer, not draw 🙄

MidWayThruJanuary · 28/01/2026 22:40

We each have our own drawer.

DramaAlpaca · 28/01/2026 22:40

Stop it you lot! Leave OP and her spelling alone, there's no need for it.

I used to have a few hiding places for snacks in my kitchen. Trouble was, the kids were very good at sniffing out where I hid things. Thank goodness they've left home and DH is oblivious.

chipperchopped · 28/01/2026 22:41

What I want to know is how you keep a dairy milk caramel bar for a week?!

ivartheboneless · 28/01/2026 22:41

hanahsaunt · 28/01/2026 22:36

Drawer

Came to say the same 😂
I can’t understand why so many people call it a draw.

But in reply to OP - no I hide snacks in my house all the time - if I didn’t I would never get to eat them.

AbbaDabbaDooh · 28/01/2026 22:41

He's going to find it one day and feel betrayed 😆

toomuchfaff · 28/01/2026 22:41

hanahsaunt · 28/01/2026 22:36

Drawer

Yawn....

No YANBU OP, DH has every opportunity to purchase snacks, they pass a myriad of shops in their daily life. Enjoy your snacks.

TheUsualChaos · 28/01/2026 22:41

PS, good luck with the IVF. Ignore people picking on spelling.

shellyleppard · 28/01/2026 22:42

I have two teenagers and if I don't have a secret snack drawer there is nothing left 🤣🤣

shellyleppard · 28/01/2026 22:43

Half a chocolate orange id anyone would like a slice , 🤤

Makemineacosmo · 28/01/2026 22:44

Not unreasonable at all. I have a drawer in the utility room that I hide stuff in. DH is a greedy bastard and if it all goes in the cupboard, it's gone in a day. So it's half in the cupboard and half in my treat drawer!

TyneTeas · 28/01/2026 22:44

All the PPs commenting that it's drawer not draw need more joy in their life. Perhaps via a snack drawer

ilovepixie · 28/01/2026 22:44

It’s DRAWER.

Tempodrom · 28/01/2026 22:45

People spell it draw as that how it's pronounced. (Waits for the rhotic speakers to disagree 🤣)

liveforsummer · 28/01/2026 22:46

Sorry u couldn’t get past draw either and normally i eye roll at the SPAG police 😅. Of course YANBU about the chocolate drawer though op. Enjoy your contraband snacks

Mathsbabe · 28/01/2026 22:48

My 28 year old DS came home for 6 months and quickly found my twirl stash(6 bars), and ate 5 of them. When there are plenty of twirls, 6 is plenty, I can leave them alone. But a shortage of twirls (1 bar is a shortage) leads to me eating it. So I ate the last bar and explained my difficulties to my DS.
He announced that he could fix it and ordered a box of about 40 twirls from Amazon and assured me that any perceived shortage would be swiftly rectified. We cohabited in peace for the six months.

TheChosenTwo · 28/01/2026 22:48

I don’t because I used to overeat things that weren’t good for me and now use MJ! Hiding things and eating stuff in secret generally didn’t work out well for me because I had no self control 😂
All snacks/chocolate/biscuits just go in the cupboard. Unless everyone else in the house has a secret stash I guess!!

shellyleppard · 28/01/2026 22:48

I also have a bag of mini eggs and some really good Christmas shortbread left 🤣🤣 yes I spell it drawer....draw is what you do with a pencil ✏️ 🤣

Yourinmyspot · 28/01/2026 22:49

Yes I have a secret stash of DH just eats it. I’m safe if anything contains peanut butter or liquorice as I'm the only person in our household who likes them.

liveforsummer · 28/01/2026 22:49

Tempodrom · 28/01/2026 22:45

People spell it draw as that how it's pronounced. (Waits for the rhotic speakers to disagree 🤣)

Lots of things are not spelled as they sound which is why teaching phonics for English reading is full of challenges 😆

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