@Crikeyalmighty
To be honest, I think some people's expectations of ordinary people are too high and unreasonable. They're expecting heroism and greatness from people who are simply average and don't want to be great or to be heroes. Which there's nothing wrong with. I never understand why 'being average' is seen as an insult. It's perfectly fine to be average.
Recently I posted some thoughts about this on social media and I will share them here too.
I'm coming to think that the expectations that some people have 'of the masses' do not correlate with what many - if not most - are inclined towards or capable of. The idea that everyone has the potential for greatness (whatever that is) in some form is not necessarily true, and I believe it has created a climate in which people expect more of your everyday citizen than is realistic.
I think many, if not most, people are average - and there's nothing wrong with that. I consider myself among them. Averageness is not a flaw and it's a shame that it's so often seen as such. Average is just fine.
I think most people are not exceptionally good or exceptionally bad, they're just averagely decent. Most people are not extremely brave - cowardice is something else that is not a failing, it's just an aspect of one's character. If people are too afraid to do something, they're too afraid - it doesn't make them a bad person.
Some people are bewildered that many everyday citizens don't do more to stand up against bullies and tyrants until it's too late, or almost too late. I believe the answer is simply that most people aren't cut out to do so. We're not brave, noble, self-sacrificing heroes and we don't want to be. We're just ordinary, average, okay people. The expectations that others hold are too high.
Aiming for greatness - and celebrating greatness - is something that society should indeed continue to value, but I believe that we also need to start accepting, tolerating and celebrating mediocrity.