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DH’s penguin obsession

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BettyWhittaker · 18/01/2026 17:39

DH is obsessed with penguins (the biscuits, not the birds) and always has been. He says every British household has a packet of penguins in - just as his grandparents did 30 years ago.
He’s particularly excited at the minute as they’re on offer in Asda for £1 a pack. He came in the other day with 3 packets, all different players - acting like he’d just closed in on the deal of the century.

Anyway, I know it sounds petty but it’s winding me up. Every evening around 8pm he stands up and says “penguin?” No I don’t want a fucking penguin, I never do and I’ve told him to stop asking me. Yes it sounds like a small thing but this is years of frustration. This morning his mother came around whilst he was out and once I made a coffee she said “no penguins in?” Ffs and they act like I’m the weird one!!!

Anyway next week we’re having a little party for DGD and DH wants a plate of penguins all arranged on a plate for the buffet. I think this is tacky as hell. He thinks I’m being a snob.

AIBU???

Bonus points for anyone who can tell me if every British household does indeed have at least one packet of penguins in.

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HangingOver · 18/01/2026 20:25

Don't let him find out about TimTams

andfinallyhereweare · 18/01/2026 20:25

I live in Australia and I’d love a penguin bar 😂

JaneGrint · 18/01/2026 20:26

My parents always used to buy them when I was a kid, and they still buy them now as my dad likes them.

But no one in my house likes them enough to want to buy any. If we’re getting that sort of biscuit in it’ll either be kitkats or clubs. Preferably the mint clubs. PILs are team kitkat too.

ItsameLuigi · 18/01/2026 20:26

Penguins are a staple in my household.

Allaboutthecats · 18/01/2026 20:26

They were my least favourite. Give me a club, trio, gold bar or viscount any day.

Penguins, wagon wheels and blue riband can do one.

FairKoala · 18/01/2026 20:27

We don’t have Penguins. I never liked them

Dd insisted on trying one when she was about 7 years old

She came out in a rash just after eating

She insisted it wasn’t the Penguin biscuit so tried one again a few weeks later.

She came out in a rash again so never bought them after that

AlwaysRightISwear · 18/01/2026 20:27

My dad has them in the fridge most of the time. I haven't had one in years.

It seems like a harmless eccentricity to me OP.

localnotail · 18/01/2026 20:27

Maybe it is a traditional thing but nowadays any kind of biscuit like that is massive UPF shit pile and probably would give you cancer if you eat it every day. Soz.

silverwrath · 18/01/2026 20:28

BettyWhittaker · 18/01/2026 17:39

DH is obsessed with penguins (the biscuits, not the birds) and always has been. He says every British household has a packet of penguins in - just as his grandparents did 30 years ago.
He’s particularly excited at the minute as they’re on offer in Asda for £1 a pack. He came in the other day with 3 packets, all different players - acting like he’d just closed in on the deal of the century.

Anyway, I know it sounds petty but it’s winding me up. Every evening around 8pm he stands up and says “penguin?” No I don’t want a fucking penguin, I never do and I’ve told him to stop asking me. Yes it sounds like a small thing but this is years of frustration. This morning his mother came around whilst he was out and once I made a coffee she said “no penguins in?” Ffs and they act like I’m the weird one!!!

Anyway next week we’re having a little party for DGD and DH wants a plate of penguins all arranged on a plate for the buffet. I think this is tacky as hell. He thinks I’m being a snob.

AIBU???

Bonus points for anyone who can tell me if every British household does indeed have at least one packet of penguins in.

I think it's fab. He loves Penguins. Not like it's cocaine, booze, scratch cards or porn.

It's his little eccentricity. Let the man live. 😂

Namechangerage · 18/01/2026 20:31

They are infinitely better when you bite the corners off and use them as a straw with a hot cup of tea!

We always had them in the house when I was a kid. Less so now, but I do love a penguin sometimes so will buy them if on offer.

YABU for worrying about tackiness at a kids party 🙄

1dayatatime · 18/01/2026 20:32

Personally I think you need to embrace the penguin obsession and just go with the floe.

randomchap · 18/01/2026 20:33

The 14 packs are in Aldi for £1.49 at the moment

p.p.p.pick them up

They'll be my mid morning snack for a fortnight

HoorayHattie · 18/01/2026 20:34

No penguins here . . . it's a strictly Kitkat household

Although DB loves Gold Bars & Viscount mint biscuits so I get those when he's visiting . . . .

FreebieWallopFridge · 18/01/2026 20:34

All this angst over a biscuit! 😂😂😂😂😂

nhgto · 18/01/2026 20:35

I’m crying laughing at this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Alpacajigsaw · 18/01/2026 20:35

Get them occasionally for the kids but other than the mint ones they taste like shit IMO. Cheap and nasty biscuits.

Givemeausernamepls · 18/01/2026 20:37

Aw usually first post nails it! I think this is cute as hell!

Tammygirl12 · 18/01/2026 20:38

It’s cute!!
No we don’t have any on the cupboard

Jcee · 18/01/2026 20:39

We always had penguins or club as a child and I buy them when they are on special offer so have a packet in at the moment ...DD loves the dad jokes on them!

CelticSilver · 18/01/2026 20:40

Bring back raisin Clubs!

Huskysf · 18/01/2026 20:40

BettyWhittaker · 18/01/2026 17:39

DH is obsessed with penguins (the biscuits, not the birds) and always has been. He says every British household has a packet of penguins in - just as his grandparents did 30 years ago.
He’s particularly excited at the minute as they’re on offer in Asda for £1 a pack. He came in the other day with 3 packets, all different players - acting like he’d just closed in on the deal of the century.

Anyway, I know it sounds petty but it’s winding me up. Every evening around 8pm he stands up and says “penguin?” No I don’t want a fucking penguin, I never do and I’ve told him to stop asking me. Yes it sounds like a small thing but this is years of frustration. This morning his mother came around whilst he was out and once I made a coffee she said “no penguins in?” Ffs and they act like I’m the weird one!!!

Anyway next week we’re having a little party for DGD and DH wants a plate of penguins all arranged on a plate for the buffet. I think this is tacky as hell. He thinks I’m being a snob.

AIBU???

Bonus points for anyone who can tell me if every British household does indeed have at least one packet of penguins in.

Is your husband 70 plus or under 10?

I'm sorry but this is hilarious.
Because it’s mumsnet I think I’m meant to tell you LTB but this seems quite extreme.

at least birthdays are easy now- a packet of penguins with a bow.

Freepaintjob · 18/01/2026 20:40

No don’t have them either. Basic bitch biscuits

rockandscroll · 18/01/2026 20:40

🐧 I am so sorry op I've ordered some earlier on today.... because we'd run out. 😬

Theunamedcat · 18/01/2026 20:40

I used to love them as did my daughter but then I became gluten intolerant and we didn't have them as often but they were a staple at family homes growing up even at the farm and I dont think they had children (just animals) so it must have been for the adults

Poppins2016 · 18/01/2026 20:41

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 18/01/2026 20:21

I suggest you watch Benedict Cumberbatch on Graham Norton mis-pronouncing Penguins. You could try this on him to wind him up 😀

I enjoyed that episode... especially when he said [something along the lines of] "I can't believe everyone was listening, but nobody corrected me"
🤣🤣🤣