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I just got pulled over for doing 32 in a 30

680 replies

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:02

I’m shaking as I write this. I just drove out to walk the dogs and on my way back a police car pulled me over. I was doing 32 in a 30 and he said I was “lucky” that he’s not choosing to prosecute me over this.

AIBU or is this total overkill? It’s a dry sunny day, the roads are relatively quiet and I wasn’t driving erratically.

OP posts:
DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 15:45

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 15:39

Up the thread you wrote:
“But the simple fact is that we all break the limit a little, without any carelessness at all.”

Do you drive “at entirely safe and appropriate speeds”

Do you break the speed limits “a little”

Do you lie when it suits you?

What are talking about? Your comments are just silly now.

trustedadult · 18/01/2026 15:45

Why are you so scared about this? That's weird. If there's a limit it's a limit if 30 isn't the limit ,would you expect everyone to say it's 32 or 40 or should there be no limit

Elbowpatch · 18/01/2026 15:52

oviraptor21 · 18/01/2026 14:39

Anyone else find it odd that it was a lone police officer? I thought they worked in pairs?

Lone police officer OK if the police car has a calibrated speedometer.

NoKnit · 18/01/2026 15:57

No clue if it's already been mentioned as not read 25 pages of thread but surely you could avoid this if you actually walked with your dogs on their walk instead of taking them in the car? That is the bit I find strange

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:09

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 14:07

What? Have you never driven behind a bus, or buses together?

Do you seriously think drivers hang 50 yards behind a bus?

Not so close I couldn't see road furniture (and have an appropriate braking distance).

50 yards. Do you know how far 50 yards is? 😂

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:12

ThreeSixtyTwo · 18/01/2026 14:48

You really don't see how invasive and bigbrothery this approach is?

Noone should question why are you driving if you aren't drunk or speeding or breaking law in some other way.

Black boxes are used for the driver to work with the insurer to reduce their premiums. Nothing to do with 1984.

20thCenturyFecks · 18/01/2026 16:20

The law's black and white. You were doing over the speed limit.

Having watched too much Police Interceptors he was probably hoping there was something else and quite possibly might have been. Shaking seems a bit extreme so was there something else or are you just a bit of a drama queen?

SerendipityJane · 18/01/2026 16:25

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:12

Black boxes are used for the driver to work with the insurer to reduce their premiums. Nothing to do with 1984.

You say that ... but when they first came out, there was a rather unhealthy obsession with how much wonderful data they could deliver that could be flogged to marketing firms. I mean 14 Tb* of data has to have some hidden gems in it right ?

The only problem with that genius idea was that the people who tended to use black boxes (telematics) weren't the millionaires you'd need for such ad-flinging.

Also all new cars are quietly logging that data whether you know or not.

14Tb - 14 Terabytes or 14000 Gigabytes. A lot of disk drives !

Ewock · 18/01/2026 16:29

dialdrunkforyou · 18/01/2026 13:40

Well the reason she was hit was because the driver bent down, not because he was speeding.

However if the driver had being doing 30 (the speed limit) the posters sil would have likely survived.

Surely you can infer from that information that the speed limit is there for a reason, to reduce deaths.
Yes if the driving had been looking she would not have been hit, but if the driver had not been driving over the speed limit she would likely have lived.

You were speeding you got caught, tough luck, try to do better next time and not speed

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 16:52

SerendipityJane · 18/01/2026 16:25

You say that ... but when they first came out, there was a rather unhealthy obsession with how much wonderful data they could deliver that could be flogged to marketing firms. I mean 14 Tb* of data has to have some hidden gems in it right ?

The only problem with that genius idea was that the people who tended to use black boxes (telematics) weren't the millionaires you'd need for such ad-flinging.

Also all new cars are quietly logging that data whether you know or not.

14Tb - 14 Terabytes or 14000 Gigabytes. A lot of disk drives !

Tell you what then, let's drive defensively and within the law and keep our fingers crossed that everyone else will. Oh, or maybe we'll come across OP and her like.

Fiftyandme · 18/01/2026 16:53

Overkill - unless we’re in cars that have limiters were in danger of gluing our eyes to the speedometer instead of keeping them on the road.

Bobiverse · 18/01/2026 16:54

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:06

Nope. The speedo showed me at 32.

No, it didn’t. Every speedo is calibrated to show over. You would have been going at least 35 on your car to flag as 32.

Pay more attention and don’t let your speed creep up.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 18/01/2026 17:05

dialdrunkforyou · 17/01/2026 13:33

I guess so? I have no idea. He was behind me and put his lights on and gestured for me to pull over.

I was going to say YANBU but having read your posts you sound utterly entitled, and BU.

You admit you were over the speed limit with a police car right behind you? What did you expect? What kind of message would it give if the copper ignored you?

You didn't even get a ticket so if I was you I'd be thinking I'd had a lucky escape, not bitching about the police doing their jobs.

The speed limit isn't conditional on the weather, the gradient or how much of a great driver you think you are.

Nincompoo · 18/01/2026 17:11

Bobiverse · 18/01/2026 16:54

No, it didn’t. Every speedo is calibrated to show over. You would have been going at least 35 on your car to flag as 32.

Pay more attention and don’t let your speed creep up.

This is just not true.

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 17:11

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 15:45

What are talking about? Your comments are just silly now.

You’re avoiding accountability for the contradictory comments you’ve made on this thread.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 17:21

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 17:11

You’re avoiding accountability for the contradictory comments you’ve made on this thread.

No I’m not. You’ve just been grubbing around trying to make a point. And you’ve failed.

Don’t be so foolish.

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 18:23

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 17:21

No I’m not. You’ve just been grubbing around trying to make a point. And you’ve failed.

Don’t be so foolish.

Triggered

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 18:29

Saladbrains · 18/01/2026 18:23

Triggered

Oh for god’s sake.

Merlin102 · 18/01/2026 20:16

Google Maps has a feature that shows your current speed and the current speed limit. Useful!

Notthegodofsmallthings · 18/01/2026 20:43

scalt · 18/01/2026 07:09

I think a lot of Mumsnetters are sorry lockdown ever ended: during that time, they could preach and moralise to their hearts' content. As they can't curtain twitch on the neighbours hugging their grandchildren and more, now they have to settle for wearing a hi-vi of authority, and standing in the road pointing a hair drier at passing cars, pretending it's a speed gun.

Ooh, that sounds like a fun half term activity to keep the kids entertained, thanks for the suggestion.

shakeitoffshakeacocktail · 18/01/2026 20:52

@dialdrunkforyou

I like your username 😁

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 21:05

Is there a Covid equivalent of Godwin’s Law?

MargoChanningsglass · 18/01/2026 21:17

grumpygrape · 18/01/2026 21:05

Is there a Covid equivalent of Godwin’s Law?

Good point actually

It pops up in every circumstance these days.

Elbowpatch · 18/01/2026 21:22

Merlin102 · 18/01/2026 20:16

Google Maps has a feature that shows your current speed and the current speed limit. Useful!

The current speed limit is so often incorrect it’s practically useless.

FixTheBone · 18/01/2026 21:56

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 18/01/2026 12:20

The posters saying that it’s easy not to go over a speed limit or that they’ve never done that are being very, very economical with truth, IMO.

As I’ve said, it’s easy to see how many do go a little over a speed limit by looking at the speed measuring signs. Very many drivers do. I suspect they mostly do slow down after being in the red on one of those signs, so good. But the simple fact is that we all break the limit a little, without any carelessness at all.

I suppose there might be MNers who crawl along at 10mph in a 20 zone or 15mph in a 30 zone. But I doubt it. And posters never seem to accept that 30s turn into 20s frequently, which makes dropping the speed beforehand difficult if you don’t know the road.

I think the difference is that most people would hold their hands up and call it a fair cop, apologise if it was unintentional, and then try harder not to do it again....

Pretty much the opposite attitude to OP's

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