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My doctor was late to my appointment because he had been at the local country hotel full of asylum seekers...

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doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 10:59

When was the last time you had a home visit? Is this a way of managing the " problem" by them taking clinics there? Is it a way of hiding this issue? I understood they did not have access to the NHS yet I see massive bags of medicine labelled for this hotel too at the dispensary. We wait about 6-7 weeks for a routine appointment.

My doctor was late to my appointment because he had been at the local country hotel full of asylum seekers...
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WhatMummyMakesSheEats · 17/01/2026 12:55

How do you know it was on the NHS and it wasn’t either him volunteering his time or paid for by charities? Much of the ‘free stuff’ people keep complaining about asylum seekers receiving are actually given by charities or donated by local people

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:56

ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 17/01/2026 12:55

What I want to happen to them is what always happens, and is happening massively faster now - their claims to asylum are assessed, and they are either granted leave to remain, and can begin building a life here, or they are deported. The figures on the numbers of claims being processed and the numbers of deportations for failed claimants have risen massively under this government. The stats are there for everyone to see. But people like you don’t usually care to look for evidence to support or refute your prejudiced opinions.

Can you link to them please?

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Newbutoldfather · 17/01/2026 12:56

Of course asylum seekers need medical care! We don’t let human beings suffer in this country.

All GPs make home visits. I suspect that asylum seekers are a tiny part of their practice.

We have a massive GP issue in this country for a variety of reasons, but that is a separate one to asylum seekers. The numbers of undocumented immigrants we have to deal with and how long we take to process them is also an issue, but a separate one.

Sometimessometimesnot · 17/01/2026 12:56

HNRTFT but am interested to know how you know so much about your GPs other patients! You must have amazing eyesight to se the names on meds in the surgery for other people!!!

ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 17/01/2026 12:57

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:56

Can you link to them please?

They are regularly issued by the government. If you do t believe me then you should do what people like you always advocate - ‘do your own research’.

bombastix · 17/01/2026 12:57

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:50

I said these are routine issues. I said there is a different pathway for urgent cases. I can assure you this is the case.

But if they are routine, and managed, then what exactly is the medical issue or treatment being affected?

GP is a public service managed by clinical need. You don’t specify any particular need, you say it’s routine. So clinically, quite reasonable potentially.

Or are you just one of those people who thinks public services should be a rolls Royce for them? If there was an issue, you could have been seen by a private GP easily within the time.

How have you actually been affected by this?

Clementine12 · 17/01/2026 12:57

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 11:23

The question is why is an NHS doctor out doing home visits at this place when NHS funds are not supposed to be used?

Out of basic humanity. The irony is that there are probably some qualified doctors among those very asylum seekers

Newbutoldfather · 17/01/2026 12:57

I would doubt that asylum seekers need a lot of medical care! They are mostly young and must have been fit enough to make the journey.

It’s a non issue.

Runningismyhappyplace50 · 17/01/2026 12:57

You sound angry. I don’t tend to post of threads like this but I really don’t get your anger and hate.

bluesky9 · 17/01/2026 12:57

What a nasty piece of work you are OP

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:58

seasonofthebitch · 17/01/2026 12:54

Speak to your MP, look at nhs policies in manifestos, protest at nhs cuts, vote accordingly. Not making rage bait posts on mumsnet?

That is saying more about the people who have come on here and have insulted many things about me as opposed to myself. They seem to be the ones feeling the " rage".

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BlossomLeaves · 17/01/2026 12:58

You don’t want to ‘discuss properly’ any issues around healthcare and asylum seekers though do you? You’ve made up your mind, ‘country hotel’, ‘men’ not seeing people ‘working hard’

faffadoodledo · 17/01/2026 12:58

I've just had a six week for a routine appointment and there are no asylum hotels in our vicinity (rural west Cornwall). So I can't blame foreigners. It's just chronic underfunding and a chronically unhealthy local population that's the cause.

rainandshine38 · 17/01/2026 12:58

So I take a front at my doctor visiting people who are only 10th generation English people. I go back 50 generations so I think I should be seen first! Do you see how fucking ludicrous your racist argument is. There’s always someone to trump your whiteness, your Englishness. Perhaps you can allocate them a stripes uniform and maybe a star denoting their race and that might help push them down the queue faster!

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:58

ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 17/01/2026 12:57

They are regularly issued by the government. If you do t believe me then you should do what people like you always advocate - ‘do your own research’.

Ah... no link

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puffyeyewink · 17/01/2026 12:59

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:48

It's sad that something like this cannot be discussed properly. I would love to hear what suggestions the insulters have as how to deal with this issue in the long term. Many people are fed up with these issues. I grew up with many people who were immigrants and I never knew as a child that the names were not even of my country. One side of my family are first generation immigrants but the difference is these people worked hard and brought their families. I'm not seeing this right now.

Have you done any actual research into why they are having to enter the country like they are doing? Because the process to come and seek asylum ‘legally’ is damn near impossible?! Would you put your children through that journey? Most come , want to work and set up home to then bring family over.
unfortunately they cannot work until processed and that takes years. They’re not leading glamorous lifestyles in their one bedroom with no money, completely isolated with locals standing outside every Saturday shouting at them.
The biggest irony being Brexit created the problem (just look at the numbers since Brexit) and I would bet my house that the overwhelming majority of those who are outraged voted Brexit to “get our borders back” 🙄

You want a conversation about it, other than moan, what is your idea of a solution to bring to the table for discussion OP ?

TheatreTheatre · 17/01/2026 12:59

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 11:29

You can all come on with your personal attacks and insinuating you are a bigger person but there needs to be a longer term plan than this. What would you all suggest happens to these men in the long term ?

They should be properly assessed and processed - deported if no eligibility, properly integrated if there is.

You do know that it was the Tory Gvt that signed the contracts with all these hotels some years ago? And the tories already had a huge backlog. (made worse now by Brexit for various complex reasons)

Asylum seekers and migrants are not at a scale to cause a 6 or 7 week appointment delay. That is a bigger problem within your health provision . Oh - maybe ask the Tories and Farage what happened to the £350 million a week for the NHS that was supposed to be freed up by Brexit?

Yes, we are allowed to discuss this stuff, but are you actually discussing it? Or just blaming the Labour Gvt for inherited problems in an irrational 'blame the migrants' kind of way.

And we have no idea why a visit to the migrants might be the best way for a GP to undertake necessary care. Quarantine? Extreme vulnerability? A GP is needed to section someone, more efficient use of time...who knows.

My Mum had numerous home visits from her GP when she was very frail, had mobility issues and dementia.

ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 17/01/2026 12:59

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 12:58

Ah... no link

Why should I? If you believe something different and are ready to set up a thread to talk about it, at least be in possession of the facts before you do so!

Ihopeithinkiknow · 17/01/2026 13:00

Of course the doctor told you where he had been and who he was seeing and of course you saw massive bags of medicine labelled for the hotel lol stop talking utter shite

MyThreeWords · 17/01/2026 13:00

So what, exactly, is your problem, OP? That asylum seekers have some sort of access to healthcare? Or some speculation that they have access to healthcare on more favourable terms than you?
How do you know how quickly they receive "routine" appointments? My bet is that the healthcare they receive via your GP surgery is pretty minimalist and delayed - what makes you think otherwise?
And as for 'NHS funds', how do you know that these funds are being used? It could be that whatever entity (the local authority?) has responsibility for the welfare of asylum seekers pays the NHS for the (doubtless minimal) healthcare they are receiving.
I suspect you would prefer it if they had no healthcare? But even if you don't care about their basic welfare and rights, how would you feel if an asylum seeker with untreated PTSD (following exposure to appalling wartime violence in their home country) committed a violent act? Or if an asylum seeker with an unmonitored, untreated infection passed it on to the people around them?

doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 13:01

rainandshine38 · 17/01/2026 12:58

So I take a front at my doctor visiting people who are only 10th generation English people. I go back 50 generations so I think I should be seen first! Do you see how fucking ludicrous your racist argument is. There’s always someone to trump your whiteness, your Englishness. Perhaps you can allocate them a stripes uniform and maybe a star denoting their race and that might help push them down the queue faster!

You have made many assumptions there which couldn't be further from the truth. What are your suggestions on how to deal with this issue?

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doodiethewonderdog · 17/01/2026 13:02

Ihopeithinkiknow · 17/01/2026 13:00

Of course the doctor told you where he had been and who he was seeing and of course you saw massive bags of medicine labelled for the hotel lol stop talking utter shite

Ask MN admin.

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Happywalnut · 17/01/2026 13:03

WallyHilloughby · 17/01/2026 11:30

Only an asylum seeker can be in a desperate situation? What an insane conclusion. Housed in a safe country, entitled to free health care education and fed clothed and watered at the expense of tax paying citizens? Trust me there are people much worse off born in the uk

Exactly this! There are a lot of people in this country worse off than them, who have paid their taxes etc and are suffering.

countries like Australia don’t just let anyone in , there are strict rules but we do. We welcome anyone and let them use the services that are at breaking point and our own citizens have to wait and struggle to use these services. It’s not right. I’m not saying the asylum seekers don’t deserve what they get but I’m saying why is it to our detriment and why cant we get the same?

20thCenturyFecks · 17/01/2026 13:03

If that's true he'll be getting paid by the Home Office. The hotels have doctors that go to these places but you can guarantee he'll not be doing it out of goodness.

By telling you that, which I'm surprised at, means he's a complete shit stirrer and making excuses.

Chiaseedling · 17/01/2026 13:03

You’re at the wrong GP. It’s two weeks for routine and next day for urgent at my surgery (may be a phonecall if don’t physically need to be seen).
No idea re the process for asylum seeker hotels, but how else are they gonna get medicine?

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