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Traitors is a negative influence on society

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Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 00:19

The TV show Traitors is an example of society breaking down not just a bit of fun entertainment. It glorifies and rewards deceitful behaviour. I can’t actually believe so many people watch it and encourage their kids to watch it as if it is a good thing.

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cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 09:18

Skybunnee · 17/01/2026 09:15

ICE, Gaza, Syria - I think you are tuning to the wrong progs if you worry about Traitors OP

Edited

Exactly!!
And what about the dangers of AI & the influence of social media in general?
And the structure of late stage capitalism that we are all.slaves to?

Far, far worse things are affecting society right now than a harmless TV show which brings people together in discussion and brightens an otherwise dismal month.

Clutch your pearls over something that really matters!

Fulmine · 17/01/2026 09:19

Listenup99 · 17/01/2026 00:28

I really believe it, posting because I. Know it isn’t an acceptable view to most people and many will think I’m ridiculous but I honestly think it is a really negative influence.

Think for a moment- as a nation - this is one of the most popular family focused cultural happenings - people choose to watch and glorify a bunch of half famous random people be duplicitous to each other as if they are killing each other. This is what we choose to spend time doing and endorsing. Weird.

It's on TV for something like 18 hours over the whole year, and that's if you include both the usual and celebrity versions. That leaves 8742 Traitors-free hours the rest of the year. It's not like we're spending all our time on It, is it?

People are watching a game. Everyone knows it's a game. It's not the end of society as we know it.

Jaws2025 · 17/01/2026 09:19

MrsMurphyIWish · 17/01/2026 08:42

I listened to a “rest of entertainment” podcast and they said one of the successes of the show was its ability to hook across the generations. I love having a show I can watch with my kids.

Plus Stephen’s face kills me.

Totally agree. This and stranger things are the only things that pull my dc off their video games

Rora24 · 17/01/2026 09:20

I think the bigger issue in society is that parenting has become so lazy that something as meagre as watching a TV show could influence them. If you've raised strong, independent children with good morals then they shouldn't be influenced so easily.

I know that this comes down to age/maturity so if you've identified that your children could be influenced by this then I respect your decision to not let them watch it. If they're 12+ though, I'd say most neurologically typical children should have strong enough foundational morals and beliefs that they should be able to watch it without walking away thinking it's acceptable to apply to day-to-day life.

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:20

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 09:15

Oh stop it! This is so over the top and ridiculous!
Do you really believe this?

Do you think thrillers & murder mystery shows teach people how to be criminals?

Line of Duty taught me a lot about the criminal underworld, do you think it made some people think they could set up an organized crime group?

You're all missing the point, is it deliberate?

It's the scale of the prize money that makes it so different from other game shows.

And your examples show that you're missing the point because in all those shows the baddies lose.

GCSEBiostruggles · 17/01/2026 09:24

On balance I think it is actually a good thing. It shows a lot of egoism and it's effects, it also shows cognitive dissonance very clearly, gaslighting and manipulation. I think it is actually teaching the public about social interactions and bias in a very subtle way.

LlynTegid · 17/01/2026 09:24

It is a game show of sorts, nothing else. I hope the BBC don't flog it to death as they do with far too many things, the example that comes to mind is The Apprentice.

I think we should be concerned with the real traitors, such as the Prime Minister who unlawfully suspended Parliament and the leader of Reform.

Fulmine · 17/01/2026 09:25

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:10

I'm glad you started this thread. I know a few people who feel the same way about it but as the poll shows, we're really in a minority.

What i don't understand is why so many people can't see how vile it is to gain a huge monetary rewards for lying skillfully.

At the very least the winner will be a sociopath hiding in plain sight, by definition as only those people will have the skills to win.

Don't people realise it requires the same traits to win this game as to scam people out of their savings, tell old people they need a new roof when they don't, and catfish women?

Well no, it doesn't require those traits - because the faithful can win.

Tooobvious · 17/01/2026 09:26

MasterBeth · 17/01/2026 07:57

If anything, The Traitors is problematic because it celebrates idiocy, hunches, acting without evidence and groupthink. The murder stuff is merely cartoony and silly.

I find it hard to watch it because the legit answer to the question "Who do you think is a Traitor?" is almost always "It's impossible to say because there is nothing they have been asked to do that will reveal who they are."

Until the last rounds, if you're a Traitor, you just have to lie well when you talk about whether you're a Traitor or not. There are really no other "strategies" and it is idiotic to pretend there are.

Except, as Joe demonstrated in Celebrity Traitors, it is vital not just to correctly identify the traitor(s) but also to be able to persuade others that you are correct. It’s particularly relevant with the rise of political demagogues, who set out to persuade others that they alone know the correct solution to the country's problems.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/01/2026 09:27

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:10

I'm glad you started this thread. I know a few people who feel the same way about it but as the poll shows, we're really in a minority.

What i don't understand is why so many people can't see how vile it is to gain a huge monetary rewards for lying skillfully.

At the very least the winner will be a sociopath hiding in plain sight, by definition as only those people will have the skills to win.

Don't people realise it requires the same traits to win this game as to scam people out of their savings, tell old people they need a new roof when they don't, and catfish women?

Not if a faithful wins 🤷🏼‍♀️

It’s a game, literally a game played between consenting adults. They know going in to it that someone will be lying. It’s hardly deception when they’ve all agreed that some of them will be lying. That to me is why it feels quite wholesome and a great family programme. Unlike some other reality TV shows where there are often examples of poor behaviour which isn’t necessary and more damaging to society ( for example, Love Island and the misogyny/gaslighting).
Traitors is literally just a party game on a huge scale.

Those selected to be traitors are just acting. It’s not real life and if you watch them being interviewed afterwards they’re all friends and often nice people.

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:29

Fulmine · 17/01/2026 09:25

Well no, it doesn't require those traits - because the faithful can win.

Just because they are playing a faithful doesn't mean they don't win by using sociopathic abilities to manipulate how other people behave. You can't win anything worth a lot of money or power in this world by being "nice".

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/01/2026 09:29

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:20

You're all missing the point, is it deliberate?

It's the scale of the prize money that makes it so different from other game shows.

And your examples show that you're missing the point because in all those shows the baddies lose.

Last year two faithful won.

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:30

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/01/2026 09:29

Last year two faithful won.

See post above yours.

GCSEBiostruggles · 17/01/2026 09:32

LlynTegid · 17/01/2026 09:24

It is a game show of sorts, nothing else. I hope the BBC don't flog it to death as they do with far too many things, the example that comes to mind is The Apprentice.

I think we should be concerned with the real traitors, such as the Prime Minister who unlawfully suspended Parliament and the leader of Reform.

Exactly - in my mind it shows what happens when people get power. Across the board!

GCSEBiostruggles · 17/01/2026 09:33

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:29

Just because they are playing a faithful doesn't mean they don't win by using sociopathic abilities to manipulate how other people behave. You can't win anything worth a lot of money or power in this world by being "nice".

Edited

What do you think business is? Manipulation and profit driven gains.

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:33

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/01/2026 09:27

Not if a faithful wins 🤷🏼‍♀️

It’s a game, literally a game played between consenting adults. They know going in to it that someone will be lying. It’s hardly deception when they’ve all agreed that some of them will be lying. That to me is why it feels quite wholesome and a great family programme. Unlike some other reality TV shows where there are often examples of poor behaviour which isn’t necessary and more damaging to society ( for example, Love Island and the misogyny/gaslighting).
Traitors is literally just a party game on a huge scale.

Those selected to be traitors are just acting. It’s not real life and if you watch them being interviewed afterwards they’re all friends and often nice people.

Those selected to be traitors are just acting. It’s not real life and if you watch them being interviewed afterwards they’re all friends and often nice people.

You don't seem to realise how many people in day to day life are acting.

DeftBrickWriter · 17/01/2026 09:36

'Would i lie to you' has been going for I think 17 years now. YOU MUST NEVER WATCH IT, OP

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:37

GCSEBiostruggles · 17/01/2026 09:33

What do you think business is? Manipulation and profit driven gains.

Not usually presented as harmless light entertainment for family viewing. Usually feted and rewarded only when the person creates lots of jobs and/or lots of tax. Imprisoned when the same skills are used against vulnerable people.

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:38

DeftBrickWriter · 17/01/2026 09:36

'Would i lie to you' has been going for I think 17 years now. YOU MUST NEVER WATCH IT, OP

There is no prize money on WILTY. The scale of the prize money changes everything.

1apenny2apenny · 17/01/2026 09:39

In my experience it mimics real life in many ways eg I’ve also found that the workplace is full of faithfuls who are honest hard working team players and some traitors (natural ones) that are out for themselves and will walk over anyone and do anything to achieve their goal. Many of these seems to think it’s normal behaviour!

Perhaps it will help some people realise that actually it’s a bit like real life but done for fun in a castle. Perhaps it might be an eye opener for some to understand that everyone isn’t always who they appear to be.

PistachioTiramisu · 17/01/2026 09:39

I think you are taking it much too seriously, OP. It is a GAME SHOW, not a documentary on how people can be duplicitous! It's fun and entertaining, and, as a PP said, it has got whole families sitting down to watch it together and talk about it, which must be a good thing.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 17/01/2026 09:40

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:33

Those selected to be traitors are just acting. It’s not real life and if you watch them being interviewed afterwards they’re all friends and often nice people.

You don't seem to realise how many people in day to day life are acting.

WTF does that have to do with a TV game show I’m specifically watching for entertainment? People who have zero impact on my life other than some light family entertainment and discussion in the pub with my friends?

You realise it’s a highly curated television show don’t you? People aren’t really walking around in green cloaks murdering people in plain sight. Although my son did go to his school Halloween party as a Traitor but no murders were reported so I think we’re all good.

GCSEBiostruggles · 17/01/2026 09:40

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:37

Not usually presented as harmless light entertainment for family viewing. Usually feted and rewarded only when the person creates lots of jobs and/or lots of tax. Imprisoned when the same skills are used against vulnerable people.

Exactly. There is now research that women are more susceptible to gambling and excessive spending just before their periods and we should all be worried that if business get hold of our cycles we will be targeted at those times because we are vulnerable. It is cut throat and using less people and more AI by the minute (so bye to any jobs)

MannequinsArePeopleToo · 17/01/2026 09:41

saltandvinegarchipsticks · 17/01/2026 08:49

So shit that you’ve watched almost until the end.

or alternatively, you just watched last night’s episode, in which case it’s no wonder you didn’t get it.

Partly correct.
I watched each episode up til ast night ( although scrolling on my phone in the bits I found particularly tiresome). And I get it.
So now I can say with confidence that it is ( in my opinion) unmitigated shit TV.

(Edit to add this is the first of the series I've watched so far)

cloudtreecarpet · 17/01/2026 09:42

Imdunfer · 17/01/2026 09:20

You're all missing the point, is it deliberate?

It's the scale of the prize money that makes it so different from other game shows.

And your examples show that you're missing the point because in all those shows the baddies lose.

Sorry, what point am I missing?

It's a game.