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Make pyjamas acceptable in supermarkets on Sunday mornings

314 replies

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 11:31

It's Sunday morning. I'm jimjammed up. Warm and cosy.

But on the spur of the moment I want eggs and bacon for brekkie so need to go to the nearby supermarket.

AIBU to think that, whilst nightwear in supermarkets is an abomination at all other times, on a Sunday morning, cut off time 12pm (so only a 2-3hr window) it could be socially acceptable for people who also wake up on a Sunday morning and randomly decide they want something a bit more exciting than their usual fare to go to the shops* without having to get fully dressed? Or is it a slippery slope?

*food only, I'm not suggesting full scale wandering about town!

OP posts:
JetFlight · 11/01/2026 13:07

Surely you lose that cosy comfortable feeling as soon as you step outside the house into the fresh air, see people, cars and buildings.
Your pj bottoms cannot fight this.

ThejoyofNC · 11/01/2026 13:07

I love how now leggings are slovenly too 🤣

Jeschara · 11/01/2026 13:07

I am no pearl clutcher, but just no. Its absolutly slovenly.

Gwenhwyfar · 11/01/2026 13:07

Lollylavender · 11/01/2026 13:04

Two minutes is actually quite long - easy to pull over a hoody and jeans and grab a coat!

Edited

If you're putting them on top of the PJs then, yes, maybe.
In the winter, just putting my big winter shoes takes at least 2 minutes, the ones I need with snow and ice.

I went out yesterday and I'm sure it was 10 minutes to gather all the different layers I needed and put them on.

ruethewhirl · 11/01/2026 13:08

VickyEadieofThigh · 11/01/2026 12:15

I never go out in public without showering (which I do every morning) and dressing appropriately.

It's lazy as feck to go out in night clothes.

Do you have dogs? I know it's not relevant to the thread, but I'm just curious as a couple of dog owning friends of mine say their dogs need to be walked so early that they just get out of bed, fling on sweats, brush their teeth/hair and leave the shower/getting dressed 'properly' till they get back. Don't know how widespread this is among dog owners, but I have to say I'd do the same if I had a dog. Let the walk wake me up and then I'd feel up to tackling the shower.

OP, personally I think it's fine to do the above for a quick supermarket run though, especially if you're just talking about the corner shop or somewhere like Sainsbury's Local.

Frugalgal · 11/01/2026 13:09

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 11:31

It's Sunday morning. I'm jimjammed up. Warm and cosy.

But on the spur of the moment I want eggs and bacon for brekkie so need to go to the nearby supermarket.

AIBU to think that, whilst nightwear in supermarkets is an abomination at all other times, on a Sunday morning, cut off time 12pm (so only a 2-3hr window) it could be socially acceptable for people who also wake up on a Sunday morning and randomly decide they want something a bit more exciting than their usual fare to go to the shops* without having to get fully dressed? Or is it a slippery slope?

*food only, I'm not suggesting full scale wandering about town!

Nope. If it's unacceptable the rest of the time, it is unacceptable when you want to do it .

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 13:09

JetFlight · 11/01/2026 13:07

Surely you lose that cosy comfortable feeling as soon as you step outside the house into the fresh air, see people, cars and buildings.
Your pj bottoms cannot fight this.

Amazing though they are, I think even my jammie bottoms are not that powerful.

OP posts:
shellyleppard · 11/01/2026 13:11

Either get dressed or get it delivered?? Can still stay in PJ's then 🙃 don't ask me how I know Lol

ruethewhirl · 11/01/2026 13:11

HangryBrickShark · 11/01/2026 12:24

Ew its gross. Since 1987 I've never set foot out of the door without foundation and eyeliner and I'd not dream of going anywhere without showering my lower half and getting changed out of nightwear.

I despair of what this country is becoming and the lack of standards and self respect that some folks have. Sorry not trying to be mean.

Edited

Just your lower half and not your upper half? So you're leaving the house with a full face of makeup and sweaty pits?

(Not meaning to be goady, I'm sure that's not the case but it was what jumped out at me...)

user2848502016 · 11/01/2026 13:11

How hard is it to change to proper trousers at least and chuck a coat over your pyjama top?!
(I did this many times when I had a newborn and DD to get to preschool!)

molifly · 11/01/2026 13:12

Why are grown adults still in their pyjamas unless Ill at 11.30am? Odd

ruethewhirl · 11/01/2026 13:14

Meant to say, though - OP, Deliveroo's your friend here (or Whoosh or Uber Eats, as pps have mentioned), unless you live in a far-flung corner of the Outer Hebrides or something (in which case I'd argue that PJs at the shops would be a lot less important 😃)

Commonsenseisnotsocommon · 11/01/2026 13:15

Just get organised and stop being lazy!

Friendlygingercat · 11/01/2026 13:15

Why do you care what a bunch of randoms think? You are never going to meet these people again in your life so why place value on their opinion? So long as you are decently covered and the pjs are not skimpy or see through I can see no problem. Just throw on a long coat and the chances are no one will even notice.

One time I opened the door to a courier wearing a kaftan which is my usual leasure wear, He grinned and said "Sorry I got you out of bed" "This is a kaftan not a nightie. Ive been up since 8am sonny" I told him in a terse voice. He looked very sheepish.

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 13:16

He looked very sheepish

As he should!

OP posts:
pimplebum · 11/01/2026 13:16

molifly · 11/01/2026 13:12

Why are grown adults still in their pyjamas unless Ill at 11.30am? Odd

i am still in pjs

over Xmas and at weekends I stay in pjs until I want to go out. It’s one of the best bits of the holiday , so Cosy and comforting I think it’s also pretty standard thing to do

I don’t think the queen ever did it but I do

aneelli · 11/01/2026 13:19

Just change your bottoms and wear a coat. We don’t want to go out seeing lazy ppl dressed in pjs

JudgeJ · 11/01/2026 13:23

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 11:31

It's Sunday morning. I'm jimjammed up. Warm and cosy.

But on the spur of the moment I want eggs and bacon for brekkie so need to go to the nearby supermarket.

AIBU to think that, whilst nightwear in supermarkets is an abomination at all other times, on a Sunday morning, cut off time 12pm (so only a 2-3hr window) it could be socially acceptable for people who also wake up on a Sunday morning and randomly decide they want something a bit more exciting than their usual fare to go to the shops* without having to get fully dressed? Or is it a slippery slope?

*food only, I'm not suggesting full scale wandering about town!

You seem to want to set things to suit you, specific times, when in reality it's easy enough to slip something on, even over your pyjamas, to go to the shops or, better still, make sure you have basic stuff like bacon and eggs in, bought earlier in the week.

HoarFrosted · 11/01/2026 13:24

This is what corner shops* are for. I live in a university city and it's not that unusual to see someone nipping out for the makings of breakfast less than fully attired. The footwear or bed hair is often the giveaway. Makes me nostalgic!

*In a pinch the small neighbourhood supermarkets can be counted as corner shops.

ElleintheWoods · 11/01/2026 13:26

Fine, you can have that window.

In return I want 6.5 days a week proper enforced dress code applied in supermarkets. We’re talking Paris fashion week or ladies’ day level dress up. Skirts, heels, blazers, feathers, cashmere, silk. Fascinators.

Express and convenience stores can be exempt.

wineosaurusrex · 11/01/2026 13:27

It is fine. So many people do it. Who cares if a few people silently seethe.

80smonster · 11/01/2026 13:27

Do you live in Catford? It was a trend round that way, not just on weekends either.

Brightonrockkk · 11/01/2026 13:27

I have worn my pjamas when popping to the shop on occasion ama 🤣

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 13:28

ElleintheWoods · 11/01/2026 13:26

Fine, you can have that window.

In return I want 6.5 days a week proper enforced dress code applied in supermarkets. We’re talking Paris fashion week or ladies’ day level dress up. Skirts, heels, blazers, feathers, cashmere, silk. Fascinators.

Express and convenience stores can be exempt.

Done!

Double breasted suits, and suitable hats for the men, too.

OP posts:
BoredZelda · 11/01/2026 13:30

LVhandbagsatdawn · 11/01/2026 11:36

Sorry but this is ridiculous. If your clothes are that uncomfortable you need new clothes.

I have never understood why people think jeans, shirts etc are uncomfortable. If they are then you're wearing the wrong bloody size.

Or, you have other sensitivities around clothing. It doesn’t matter what size of jeans I wear, they are uncomfortable. This has been the case as far back as I can remember, no matter what the shape of my body or the style of jeans.

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