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Make pyjamas acceptable in supermarkets on Sunday mornings

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BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 11:31

It's Sunday morning. I'm jimjammed up. Warm and cosy.

But on the spur of the moment I want eggs and bacon for brekkie so need to go to the nearby supermarket.

AIBU to think that, whilst nightwear in supermarkets is an abomination at all other times, on a Sunday morning, cut off time 12pm (so only a 2-3hr window) it could be socially acceptable for people who also wake up on a Sunday morning and randomly decide they want something a bit more exciting than their usual fare to go to the shops* without having to get fully dressed? Or is it a slippery slope?

*food only, I'm not suggesting full scale wandering about town!

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ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 11/01/2026 12:33

I object on the grounds that when I’ve had to queue behind people in pyjamas, they always, frankly, smell of overnight bums. Revolting. Wash, and dress in something suitable, for the sake of fellow shoppers, please.

Alltheyellowbirds · 11/01/2026 12:33

sprigatito · 11/01/2026 12:28

You’re never going to get this idea past MN, where being “put together” is the pinnacle of social achievement 😂

I find it really fascinating that such high feeling is attached to really quite marginal differences in clothing. A pair of clean pyjamas doesn’t breach any concrete social rules in terms of decency; it’s basically a shirt and trousers, but it arouses disgust and contempt because it’s identifiable as “nightwear”. It’s a really weird quirk of human behaviour to me.

It’s not that. It’s because it’s not normally a clean pair is it, it’s the pair that’s been slept in all night (and however many previous nights). It’s dirty and smelly.

unbelievablybelievable · 11/01/2026 12:34

Ah, I fondly remember the most amazing PJ bottoms that were so comfy, plain charcoal, yoga-pants style so I could just stick a big winter coat over and no one was the wiser. Perfect for the winter school run.

Alas, I wore them so much I burned a hole in the thighs and they had to go.

YABU to not specifically buy plain PJ bottoms and a big, long coat for precisely this reason.

rosydreams · 11/01/2026 12:35

cardibach · 11/01/2026 12:29

Ypu are wrong. Streaky bacon is rubbish. Back bacon is the proper treat.

Streaky bacon is rubbish when bought from a supermarket try some good quality butchers or farm shop streaky .Always make a trip to a good quality butchers before Christmas for the good stuff

Gahr · 11/01/2026 12:35

YABU. I never want to see nightwear in supermarkets, it is completely inappropriate. This country is down-at-heel as it is and you want to make it even worse? Just no.

rosydreams · 11/01/2026 12:37

ItsPronouncedThroatwobblerMangrove · 11/01/2026 12:33

I object on the grounds that when I’ve had to queue behind people in pyjamas, they always, frankly, smell of overnight bums. Revolting. Wash, and dress in something suitable, for the sake of fellow shoppers, please.

The very idea of going outside my home unwashed is horrifying good lord .How are people not embarrassed

MagneticSquirrel · 11/01/2026 12:38

Whoosh delivery from Tesco or Uber Eats grocery delivery - no need to get changed at all!

cardibach · 11/01/2026 12:38

rosydreams · 11/01/2026 12:35

Streaky bacon is rubbish when bought from a supermarket try some good quality butchers or farm shop streaky .Always make a trip to a good quality butchers before Christmas for the good stuff

Oh, I’m sure it’s better than the supermarket stuff. But the same applies to back bacon purchased in those establishments, so the quality differential remains.

Cars4Gov · 11/01/2026 12:38

Never acceptable - Do you cook on PJ's? Assume you must then wash afterwards as can't imagine going back to bed with bacon smelling PJ's

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:39

BookAndPiano · 11/01/2026 12:32

I see you went to Asda, so can understand why you thought it might be acceptable to wear pyjamas. I understand that this is the supermarket of choice for PJ wearers! 😁

It looks nice though and I hope you enjoy your breakfast!

Tbh I don't think I've ever seen anyone wear identifiable jammies in our local ASDA.

It's situated at the end of town where people are probably more likely to condemn jimjam wearing!

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ByKeenBlueHelper · 11/01/2026 12:41

No get dressed I wouldn't do this

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BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:41

YABU to not specifically buy plain PJ bottoms and a big, long coat for precisely this reason.

You're right, my cosy jimjams have either reindeer on them or partridges in pear trees.

So it wouldn't even be seasonally appropriate for me to wear them to the supermarket now.

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BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:43

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Oh no! I'm a grammar pedant too and autocorrect has sorely let me down this morning.

I'll have to self flagellate with the streaky bacon as punishment.

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BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:45

cardibach · 11/01/2026 12:38

Oh, I’m sure it’s better than the supermarket stuff. But the same applies to back bacon purchased in those establishments, so the quality differential remains.

I'm beginning to think I should have showered, washed my hair, put on a completely new outfit, polished my shoes, valeted my car, and gone to the local farm shop instead.

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Mochudubh · 11/01/2026 12:46

SereneGoose · 11/01/2026 11:50

What Sunday laws in Scotland? Ive lived here all my life..you cant buy booze (in shops) before 10am or after 10pm on any day but other than that??
Also, in my town no-one dresses to shop local...but we've all got massive coats on so its (not) a secret.

I'm old enough to remember when you couldn't buy booze at all on a Sunday (apart from the local video shop/offie where if the owner knew you he would sell it to you under the counter). Then they changed it so you could buy it after 12 noon (once you'd been to Kirk).

Then for a brief window of maybe 2-3 years you could buy booze 24/7. Very handy because I used to do my shopping before work, just because I'm buying booze at 8am doesn't mean I'm about to drink it right away.

Then the SNP got in with their nanny state policies. So, even in the run up to Christmas, much as I'd like to get in and out of the shops before 10am, if I'm planning on buying alcohol for visitors, I have to wait till the shops are rammed.

Fuckers!

KaleidoscopeSmile · 11/01/2026 12:47

It isn't two hours where I am (England). I don't know anywhere that it is just two hours anymore.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 11/01/2026 12:47

catching · 11/01/2026 12:31

How does make up ‘fuck’ your skin? It really doesn’t

Foundation every day for 38 years certainly would.

Theonlywayicanloveyou · 11/01/2026 12:49

Overtheatlantic · 11/01/2026 11:45

“Back in my day” we never valued comfort over being properly dressed.

You are alive, posting on Mumsnet. This is your day.

BarbieShrimp · 11/01/2026 12:49

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 11:33

Yes but you're comfort is completely lost, and the whole cosy feel of Sunday has changed to day wear mode.

You couldn't get a sentence like this out of me under torture. Do actual adults think/say stuff like this?

Horses7 · 11/01/2026 12:49

Just nooooo - it will make many people think you’re a lazy slob (I would) and you’re bound to run into someone who you don’t want to see in your jim-jams 🤣

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:50

KaleidoscopeSmile · 11/01/2026 12:47

It isn't two hours where I am (England). I don't know anywhere that it is just two hours anymore.

It ranges between 1 and 2.5 hours here depending on the supermarket, but the .5 hour is only for browsing.

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BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:50

Horses7 · 11/01/2026 12:49

Just nooooo - it will make many people think you’re a lazy slob (I would) and you’re bound to run into someone who you don’t want to see in your jim-jams 🤣

This is true!

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Wynter25 · 11/01/2026 12:51

cardibach · 11/01/2026 12:29

Ypu are wrong. Streaky bacon is rubbish. Back bacon is the proper treat.

Agree. Back bacon is better

BoxingHare · 11/01/2026 12:51

BarbieShrimp · 11/01/2026 12:49

You couldn't get a sentence like this out of me under torture. Do actual adults think/say stuff like this?

Not seriously, I don't think!

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