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Man knocking telling me to come outside

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AmberHiker · 11/01/2026 01:07

At around 11pm, when all the houses were dark and quiet, an unknown man repeatedly knocked on my door. He didn’t knock loudly like it was an emergency – it was light but constant, which somehow felt worse.

I was home alone with my young child, which already made me feel vulnerable. I didn’t open the door but spoke through the glass. He told me there was an issue with “cars outside” and kept saying I should come out and look. His story was vague and didn’t really make sense. He had a dog right up at my door and he stood a few steps back. I started recording the conversation on my phone.

As it went on, he became more agitated. He then said he was going home but still told me I should come out and check for myself. I didn’t.

After he left, I looked outside properly from my kitchen window . The only car there was mine. There was absolutely nothing wrong with it – no lights on, no windows open, no damage, nothing. There were no other cars like he’d suggested either. There was literally no reason for him to knock on my door late at night.

The fact that he knocked repeatedly, tried to get me to come outside, and used a story that wasn’t true has really shaken me. Being alone at night with my child, in the dark, with someone trying to lure me outside has made me feel unsafe in my own home. I keep thinking how different it could have been if I’d opened the door.

I’ve reported it, but I just wanted to share in case it helps someone else trust their instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.

OP posts:
Irritatediron · 12/01/2026 20:44

Did you share this on facebook OP? This exact situation was posted in my local community chat in sussex, otherwise it might be happening in other places ?

Daygloboo · 13/01/2026 01:25

AmberHiker · 11/01/2026 01:07

At around 11pm, when all the houses were dark and quiet, an unknown man repeatedly knocked on my door. He didn’t knock loudly like it was an emergency – it was light but constant, which somehow felt worse.

I was home alone with my young child, which already made me feel vulnerable. I didn’t open the door but spoke through the glass. He told me there was an issue with “cars outside” and kept saying I should come out and look. His story was vague and didn’t really make sense. He had a dog right up at my door and he stood a few steps back. I started recording the conversation on my phone.

As it went on, he became more agitated. He then said he was going home but still told me I should come out and check for myself. I didn’t.

After he left, I looked outside properly from my kitchen window . The only car there was mine. There was absolutely nothing wrong with it – no lights on, no windows open, no damage, nothing. There were no other cars like he’d suggested either. There was literally no reason for him to knock on my door late at night.

The fact that he knocked repeatedly, tried to get me to come outside, and used a story that wasn’t true has really shaken me. Being alone at night with my child, in the dark, with someone trying to lure me outside has made me feel unsafe in my own home. I keep thinking how different it could have been if I’d opened the door.

I’ve reported it, but I just wanted to share in case it helps someone else trust their instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.

I suppose it's possible he was harmless but maybe a bit mentally instable or ' simple' but not in a dangerous way. Even so, have a plan incase it happens again. There was a post a few months ago on here of a woman who started having things like that happen. Someone suggested the people doing it thought someone else lived at the house and not her and that's why they were doing it. A sort of nistaken identity thing. You ssid about the deliveroo driver. So maybe if other things start happening too it could be someone thinking they are targetting someone else and not you ??

diamondsonasunday · 13/01/2026 07:39

ElizabethsTailor · 11/01/2026 13:07

I think you are agreeing with me that he wasn’t very articulate.

She said she didn’t go outside to look. Any of those things could be missed by just checking from one angle.

OP has since checked and driven her car and there is nothing wrong with it so clearly this man did have nefarious intentions. I dont know why you are so determined to make out this was an innocent thing when clearly it wasn't. There was nothing wrong with OP's car- she has updated this.

NotThisShitAgain121 · 13/01/2026 14:23

That is fucked u. I hope you are okay. Time to invest in a ring doorbell.

NotThisShitAgain121 · 13/01/2026 14:29

Ask the the neighbours nearby if they have any footage of him on their ring doorbell's if they have them.

ElizabethsTailor · 13/01/2026 19:16

diamondsonasunday · 13/01/2026 07:39

OP has since checked and driven her car and there is nothing wrong with it so clearly this man did have nefarious intentions. I dont know why you are so determined to make out this was an innocent thing when clearly it wasn't. There was nothing wrong with OP's car- she has updated this.

Looks like you might have been confused at the chronological order of the posts - mine and then OPs subsequent update.

Glittertwins · 13/01/2026 19:42

I have a spare battery for my doorbell so I always have a charged one to swap to as we can’t hard wire ours.

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