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Ice agent shoots a woman in the face part 3

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Moontan · 09/01/2026 15:35

Donald Trump has now said its okay to murder a woman. Because they are doing it for people's 'safety'

It is interesting how far humans will let themselves be abused by bad people.

I was watching a documentary about jonestown the cult.

Some people left the cult

They said that the leader beat people, raped people, starved people. He made them do physical labour for many hours a day. He demanded that they give him all of their money.

And yet still hundreds of people followed him.

People seem to keep supporting a person and staying there. Rather than saying "maybe i was wrong and this guy is actually a bad person"

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dapsnotplimsolls · 09/01/2026 22:50

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:46

Let assume that you are right and that the ICE officer didn't think that she was driving at him and didn't think that there was a risk to his life, then what do you think was his motive for shooting her?

He didn't like being taunted by a lesbian?

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 22:50

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:46

Let assume that you are right and that the ICE officer didn't think that she was driving at him and didn't think that there was a risk to his life, then what do you think was his motive for shooting her?

Testosterone, misogyny, hyper-masculinity, zero anger management, steroid abuse, PTSD, have-gun-want-to-use-it?

Echobelly · 09/01/2026 22:50

AnnasFangs · 09/01/2026 22:05

Doesn't show much sign of injury...

The fact that he just left the scene after killing someone is one of the things that disgusts me the most. Like it just didn't matter.

SheilaFentiman · 09/01/2026 22:51

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:46

Let assume that you are right and that the ICE officer didn't think that she was driving at him and didn't think that there was a risk to his life, then what do you think was his motive for shooting her?

Frustration that Renee’s wife was following and filming him; annoyance that Renee wouldn’t get out of the car but was going to drive off and “get away with it” - even though he had her licence plate and could clearly have followed up on who she was and any misdemeanour she had committed (such as obstruction)

Note - I am not saying she had committed such, but law enforcement would have had an avenue to pursue and investigate her if he felt there was a case to build.

NotTerfNorCis · 09/01/2026 22:52

Thing is, if someone is driving directly at you, why WOULD you shoot them? Aren't you more likely to get run over as they lose control of the car?

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:52

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/01/2026 22:31

And Trump wants to invade them for it.

You couldn’t make it up.

As sad and awful as this case is, the deaths of protesters in Iran have drawn no judgement from anybody on here. Why not?

SheilaFentiman · 09/01/2026 22:55

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:52

As sad and awful as this case is, the deaths of protesters in Iran have drawn no judgement from anybody on here. Why not?

Um, because this is a thread about ICE. There are other threads about the protests in Iran.

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/01/2026 22:55

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:46

Let assume that you are right and that the ICE officer didn't think that she was driving at him and didn't think that there was a risk to his life, then what do you think was his motive for shooting her?

Can we try to look at it objectively? Because when things don’t make sense, they often aren’t true. And her as a murderous domestic terrorist doesn’t make sense.

He is an undertrained, very stressed man who has been given carte blanche to treat people quite violently. He has a gun. He has been socialised to see people who resist as enemies. She is openly resisting. He’s angry, and possibly he is afraid. He’s in a high pressure situation and has to make a split second decision. His fight reflex kicks in and he fires.

Her flight reflex kicked in just before.

Which means he should be pled down to manslaughter or second or third degree murder. Wasn’t premeditated but was intentional.

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:57

SheilaFentiman · 09/01/2026 22:55

Um, because this is a thread about ICE. There are other threads about the protests in Iran.

Yet this one is far more popular, and the language far more emotive.

48 Iranian protesters have been murdered.

This is an example of what I said earlier about the left only seeing (justified here) fault in Western countries, and never ever others.

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:57

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/01/2026 22:55

Can we try to look at it objectively? Because when things don’t make sense, they often aren’t true. And her as a murderous domestic terrorist doesn’t make sense.

He is an undertrained, very stressed man who has been given carte blanche to treat people quite violently. He has a gun. He has been socialised to see people who resist as enemies. She is openly resisting. He’s angry, and possibly he is afraid. He’s in a high pressure situation and has to make a split second decision. His fight reflex kicks in and he fires.

Her flight reflex kicked in just before.

Which means he should be pled down to manslaughter or second or third degree murder. Wasn’t premeditated but was intentional.

I think this is a fair assessment.

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:58

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 22:07

It is a clear cut case. Her killing was not justified. If he had PTSD from a previous incident, he should not have been in charge of a firearm. Only a mentally ill person would have believed she was intending to run him over. Only a Fascist would actually think her killing was justifiable.

WTF has fascism got to do with this tragic death?

NotTerfNorCis · 09/01/2026 22:59

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:57

Yet this one is far more popular, and the language far more emotive.

48 Iranian protesters have been murdered.

This is an example of what I said earlier about the left only seeing (justified here) fault in Western countries, and never ever others.

There's no controversy over that one. Nobody is supporting the Iranian regime. Iran is not an ally of Britain, nor does it have huge cultural relevance, nor is news from Iran constantly in everyone's face.

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 23:00

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:52

As sad and awful as this case is, the deaths of protesters in Iran have drawn no judgement from anybody on here. Why not?

This isn’t a thread about Iran, and Iran does not pretend to be either democratic, interested in human rights, or bothered about police brutality. Still, as we are apparently being asked to compare this event to protests in Iran, then Iranians appear to be braver than most American citizens as, rather than criticising each other for putting themselves in harm’s way and “asking for it”, they are apparently encouraging each other to keep protesting, even if they do die as a result.

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:01

NotTerfNorCis · 09/01/2026 22:59

There's no controversy over that one. Nobody is supporting the Iranian regime. Iran is not an ally of Britain, nor does it have huge cultural relevance, nor is news from Iran constantly in everyone's face.

Very sad to see you dismissing Iran on the basis it doesn’t have McDonalds and speak English (or something).

LlttledrummergirI · 09/01/2026 23:01

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:49

Sorry to disrupt your echo chamber with questions and observations.

There's asking sensible questions and making useful observations and engaging in a thread with good and genuine intent.

Or there's spinning a narrative and being an arse for the sake of it.

I've read your posts and have my thoughts on you but I'm sure that as you post, your intentions will become clear.

Mumsnet is not an echo chamber, far from. It, but some subjects usually bring a consensus and I am saddened that the murder of a mum has brought out arseholes.

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:03

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 23:00

This isn’t a thread about Iran, and Iran does not pretend to be either democratic, interested in human rights, or bothered about police brutality. Still, as we are apparently being asked to compare this event to protests in Iran, then Iranians appear to be braver than most American citizens as, rather than criticising each other for putting themselves in harm’s way and “asking for it”, they are apparently encouraging each other to keep protesting, even if they do die as a result.

Does Donald Trump pretend to care about human rights?

There’s no right wing, white man at the heart of it, so the left wing here don’t care.

If Trump strikes them again, they’ll suddenly care.

NotTerfNorCis · 09/01/2026 23:03

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:01

Very sad to see you dismissing Iran on the basis it doesn’t have McDonalds and speak English (or something).

Where do you get that from?

What influence does modern Iran have on Britain compared to the influence exercised by the US?

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 23:03

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 22:58

WTF has fascism got to do with this tragic death?

Nothing if you think the killing was unjustified - as made clear in the post.

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:03

NotTerfNorCis · 09/01/2026 23:03

Where do you get that from?

What influence does modern Iran have on Britain compared to the influence exercised by the US?

What influence is exercised on us by the US?

SheilaFentiman · 09/01/2026 23:05

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 22:57

Yet this one is far more popular, and the language far more emotive.

48 Iranian protesters have been murdered.

This is an example of what I said earlier about the left only seeing (justified here) fault in Western countries, and never ever others.

It’s not “the left” at all.

It is human nature that one death feels like a tragedy and multiple deaths feel more abstract. We already have a feel for Renee as a person from her wife, ex husband, neighbours etc.

Additionally, this is primarily a UK site and the UK and US have been long standing allies, in WW2, NATO etc. What Trump’s government does has a larger impact on the UK than what an Iranian government does.

SheilaFentiman · 09/01/2026 23:06

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:03

What influence is exercised on us by the US?

Ohhhh, and here was me engaging with you in good faith.

Never mind.

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/01/2026 23:06

OK everyone. Sealioning, whataboutary, moving goalposts and trolling are tactics.

Back to the shooting.

Walkaround · 09/01/2026 23:09

Playingvideogames · 09/01/2026 23:03

What influence is exercised on us by the US?

Oooh, Donald, we love your tariffs, your comments about Greenland and your stance on Ukraine, none of that influences our behaviour in the slightest. Also, we wanted to invite you over for another state visit because we love you so much 😍. 🤣🤣🤣.

TheSalvadorsStickbymebaby · 09/01/2026 23:09

dapsnotplimsolls · 09/01/2026 18:48

Have the ICE defenders not found this thread yet? Or should we expect them around 11pm UK time?

That's when they appeared last night.

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