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I’m terrible at my job, AIBU to try and get in to the civil service?

180 replies

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:17

I work in finance admin and although I’m extremely organised and proactive, numbers are not my strong point. I also have no pension to speak of so I feel like I need to concentrate on finding a role that won’t give me searing maths anxiety and has decent benefits.

from what I’ve heard it’s quite difficult to get in to, but if I can, what departments would be best to get apply to so I can get my foot in the door?

OP posts:
FrenchandSaunders · 07/01/2026 13:01

Ponoka7 · 07/01/2026 12:33

We've just bought a shared ownership from a HA that's now often in the Liverpool Echo (their housing is just on the border of Liverpool), tbf, I think incompetence is on the person specification.

Nothing to do with the Civil Service ... HAs are independent and work alongside the council, which is local Govt, not central.

EnterFunnyNameHere · 07/01/2026 13:10

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 07/01/2026 12:45

OP, on another thread (which gave her this brilliant idea)

”I’m am definitely going to try and get in to the CS after reading these posts. I don’t want a high pressure, money making (for someone else) job. I want to be finished by 10am!!”

Tax payers want and deserve hard workers. As an ex-civil servant I certainly wasn’t “done by 10am” and often worked till midnight depending on what was happening. (Was senior, but still.). You may be happy to tread water, but I’m bloody well not paying for it!

Well said @AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti!

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/work/5470678-private-to-public-sector-struggling-to-adjust?reply=149653166

With that attitude OP, i don't think we want you as a civil servant!

Private to public sector - struggling to adjust | Mumsnet

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pocketpairs · 07/01/2026 13:14

Try the council or civil service, most of these jobs are easy with flexi time and great pensions.

ThatCyanCat · 07/01/2026 13:16

Sameshitedifferentdaze · 07/01/2026 12:47

Yes and entirely predictable and tedious.

Well, that does suggest everyone was thinking it.

Zebedee999 · 07/01/2026 13:20

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:17

I work in finance admin and although I’m extremely organised and proactive, numbers are not my strong point. I also have no pension to speak of so I feel like I need to concentrate on finding a role that won’t give me searing maths anxiety and has decent benefits.

from what I’ve heard it’s quite difficult to get in to, but if I can, what departments would be best to get apply to so I can get my foot in the door?

Your best bet is to look at what offices there are around you. In some places its MoD, others it DfT etc then focus on jobs at those places. Roles are quite varied, don't rule yourself out of most roles as they are usually quite broad in nature and give good training.

Some people here are saying that the CS is shedding jobs. It is in some roles/areas but is always recruiting for natural wastage etc.

Benefits in the CS are off the scale, 6 months full sick pay!!! Unbelievable to those of us in the private sector. Same with much more paid holiday than the private sector and excellent pensions and early retirement age too. Also the CS are immune from the pressures to "pay your way".

Good luck.

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:23

HoskinsChoice · 07/01/2026 12:35

😂😂😂 That was my first thought but you're very brave to actually say it. Maybe run and hide for a while.

What is it you both do that gives you the time to post on a forum?

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:24

Zebedee999 · 07/01/2026 13:20

Your best bet is to look at what offices there are around you. In some places its MoD, others it DfT etc then focus on jobs at those places. Roles are quite varied, don't rule yourself out of most roles as they are usually quite broad in nature and give good training.

Some people here are saying that the CS is shedding jobs. It is in some roles/areas but is always recruiting for natural wastage etc.

Benefits in the CS are off the scale, 6 months full sick pay!!! Unbelievable to those of us in the private sector. Same with much more paid holiday than the private sector and excellent pensions and early retirement age too. Also the CS are immune from the pressures to "pay your way".

Good luck.

Civil Service retirement age for my 62 year old DH is 66. The days of early retirement are long gone.

Wordsmithery · 07/01/2026 13:25

InveterateWineDrinker · 07/01/2026 12:27

If you're so incompetent you've even noticed it yourself, I suspect you'd fit in very well in the Civil Service.

Edited

You're a charmer aren't you

Tereseta · 07/01/2026 13:26

Ponoka7 · 07/01/2026 12:33

We've just bought a shared ownership from a HA that's now often in the Liverpool Echo (their housing is just on the border of Liverpool), tbf, I think incompetence is on the person specification.

What does that have to do with civil service?

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:26

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:24

Civil Service retirement age for my 62 year old DH is 66. The days of early retirement are long gone.

Edited

Depends on his service surely?

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:28

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:26

Depends on his service surely?

He has been a civil servant since he was 18!

He could choose to go early but he wouldn't get his full pension.

climbintheback · 07/01/2026 13:28

Bin man?

Thanksforyourlackofthought · 07/01/2026 13:29

I was going to give some suggestions and advice on the recruitment process ( personal statement and behaviours) but having seen the comment re: finishing at 10am, I think I'll save it.
Just a heads up - the 6 months sick pay from day one is no more. You get one month per year worked, one month half pay per year worked after that.

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:30

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:28

He has been a civil servant since he was 18!

He could choose to go early but he wouldn't get his full pension.

Edited

So why can’t he retire?

Bavariamaria · 07/01/2026 13:30

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:49

What on earth is going on here 😂 how is this goady??

I like the idea of civil service as there is opportunity to progress in departments if you excel, excellent benefits such as pension contributions which I don’t get in the private sector, and I’d actually be working for a purpose rather than just making someone else rich.

Bollocks - not heard of auto enrollment?

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:31

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:30

So why can’t he retire?

Because he wouldn't get his full pension for another 4 years.

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:31

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:30

So why can’t he retire?

Just saw your edit. He CAN retire, he chooses not to.

KitWyn · 07/01/2026 13:31

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:49

What on earth is going on here 😂 how is this goady??

I like the idea of civil service as there is opportunity to progress in departments if you excel, excellent benefits such as pension contributions which I don’t get in the private sector, and I’d actually be working for a purpose rather than just making someone else rich.

Start with your skills. What are you good at? What do you enjoy? How much money do you need to make? Do you want to work 9-5 or are you flexible?

If you're reliable, a quick learner (bar maths), with excellent people skills (both with colleagues and customers) there are probably lots of potential jobs you'll enjoy.

It's much better to move purposefully towards something you believe will be better. Not just set out to escape something unsatisfactory. You may wind up somewhere even worse!

Differentforgirls · 07/01/2026 13:32

Cailleachnamara · 07/01/2026 13:31

Because he wouldn't get his full pension for another 4 years.

We did that. Both me and my husband. 67 was our new pension age. Both went at 60 with two decent pensions and lump sums.

researchers3 · 07/01/2026 13:34

50Balesofgrey · 07/01/2026 12:29

Don't be so rude

Indeed! And often it's more competent people who question their own accuracy/skill.

1dayatatime · 07/01/2026 13:35

InveterateWineDrinker · 07/01/2026 12:27

If you're so incompetent you've even noticed it yourself, I suspect you'd fit in very well in the Civil Service.

Edited

That's somewhat unfair, you have the level of competence to at least recognise your own incompetence. As such you are probably over qualified to join the civil service, where an inability to recognise your own incompetence is a key job requirement.

LondonPapa · 07/01/2026 13:36

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:17

I work in finance admin and although I’m extremely organised and proactive, numbers are not my strong point. I also have no pension to speak of so I feel like I need to concentrate on finding a role that won’t give me searing maths anxiety and has decent benefits.

from what I’ve heard it’s quite difficult to get in to, but if I can, what departments would be best to get apply to so I can get my foot in the door?

Please god, no. Stay away.

feebeecat · 07/01/2026 13:37

Ponoka7 · 07/01/2026 12:33

We've just bought a shared ownership from a HA that's now often in the Liverpool Echo (their housing is just on the border of Liverpool), tbf, I think incompetence is on the person specification.

HA and possibly LA involvement then, what’s that got to do with the civil service?

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 13:38

Calm down, It’s just a job.

OP posts:
AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 07/01/2026 13:38

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2026 12:49

What on earth is going on here 😂 how is this goady??

I like the idea of civil service as there is opportunity to progress in departments if you excel, excellent benefits such as pension contributions which I don’t get in the private sector, and I’d actually be working for a purpose rather than just making someone else rich.

Legally you have to be getting employer pension conts