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To think of going to Tunisia or Turkey for a holiday alone?

64 replies

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:20

I’m a woman in my mid twenties. You can get an all inclusive hotel in Tunisia or Turkey for under £500. All I want is a cheap week in the sun. AIBU to go? My family all think I’d be stupid because it’s a risk. But it’s all I want

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Wowzel · 26/12/2025 16:21

I'd happily go to Turkey (and have been 6 times), but wouldn't do Tunisia in your position.

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:22

Wowzel · 26/12/2025 16:21

I'd happily go to Turkey (and have been 6 times), but wouldn't do Tunisia in your position.

All id do is the hotel. I’d literally not leave for the week 🤣

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SweeetFannyAdams · 26/12/2025 16:22

No-one on Mumsnet is going to tell you, you shouldn't go on holiday alone.

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:24

SweeetFannyAdams · 26/12/2025 16:22

No-one on Mumsnet is going to tell you, you shouldn't go on holiday alone.

Why?

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SweeetFannyAdams · 26/12/2025 16:25

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:24

Why?

Because why would they?

You're an adult.

If you want to go on holiday alone then just go for it like thousands of us do every year 🤷‍♂️

You're no more at risk in an AI in Turkey or Tunisia than you are anywhere else.

Holluschickie · 26/12/2025 16:26

I have travelled all around Turkey alone. But I am S Asian. Nobody harasses me the way they might blonde women.

Holluschickie · 26/12/2025 16:27

I will never do AI though.

Orangesandlemons77 · 26/12/2025 16:27

We went to a really nice all inclusive with it's own beach in Turkey in the summer. I'd go there on my own it felt safe. It's called Marmaris Bay Resort.

dunroamingfornow · 26/12/2025 16:27

I wouldn’t do Tunisia. I thought people were exaggerating the harassment women receive. They weren’t. It was off the scale and that was with a male friend in tow. Edited to add this was within a resort

Holluschickie · 26/12/2025 16:28

Hinestly such a waste to go to the most beautiful country in the world and never leave the resort though.

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:30

SweeetFannyAdams · 26/12/2025 16:25

Because why would they?

You're an adult.

If you want to go on holiday alone then just go for it like thousands of us do every year 🤷‍♂️

You're no more at risk in an AI in Turkey or Tunisia than you are anywhere else.

I thought you meant people wouldn’t say that I shouldn’t be going alone 🤣

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peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:31

Holluschickie · 26/12/2025 16:27

I will never do AI though.

I have four city breaks booked in next year as well, but i’d just like a lazy one too!

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Welikebeingcosy · 26/12/2025 16:36

The holiday resorts in Turkiye are more British than some places in actual Britain. You'll be absolutely fine there. I spent the whole summer in one of them alone at 18 and made loads of both British and Turkish friends- I had a blast.

dairydebris · 26/12/2025 16:36

If I wanted a week in the sun solo I'd choose Greece, Italy, Spain and enjoy the odd wander or sightseeing / browsing too. I dont think a week sitting by a pool in an AI with families, kids and couples drinking will be what you want it to be.
Best solo sun week I ever had was Sardinia. Cheap room, beautiful beaches walks and food.

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:39

dairydebris · 26/12/2025 16:36

If I wanted a week in the sun solo I'd choose Greece, Italy, Spain and enjoy the odd wander or sightseeing / browsing too. I dont think a week sitting by a pool in an AI with families, kids and couples drinking will be what you want it to be.
Best solo sun week I ever had was Sardinia. Cheap room, beautiful beaches walks and food.

All I want is a pool and a place to eat, I’m happy to be surrounded by families etc because all I want is to chill for a week. Like I said I’ve got four really go go go trips booked in 2026, so I’m getting my fill of sightseeing etc there

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Alittlefrustrated · 26/12/2025 16:39

You will be targeted. 100 %. I found Turkey really bad in my 30's (and I was with DP, and am an olive skinned brown eyed brunette).
AI Tunisia was fine (but again with DP).

Selok · 26/12/2025 16:40

We went to Tunisia two years ago, my husband and 18 year old daughter! We went all inclusive and one day we planned to do some sightseeing in town, some shopping etc. We didn’t enjoy our day out of the hotel as it didn’t feel very safe wandering in town. I can’t explain it but I didn’t like the whole experience so we won’t be going back, also removed Marrakesh from our list too!

FryingPam · 26/12/2025 16:40

Not leaving the hotel is fine. Otherwise no, you’ll be harassed without end as a female alone.

Clearinguptheclutter · 26/12/2025 16:40

I’d avoid North Africa entirely unless with a male partner sadly

Turkey probably ok but it’s an awfully long way to go to just stay in a hotel. And I don’t fancy AI at all. If booze is effectively “free” surely that attracts a certain crowd.

I’d go to Italy or Spain or
Greece and enjoy a bit of a mooch around alongside the chilling out near the pool

Doseofreality · 26/12/2025 16:41

Depends how much cock you want, many a willing waiter in both places.

Meadowfinch · 26/12/2025 16:41

On your own? Go to Greece or Croatia instead.

gogomomo2 · 26/12/2025 16:41

If travelling alone i would wait until a week or less before departure and grab a bargain

dairydebris · 26/12/2025 16:41

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:39

All I want is a pool and a place to eat, I’m happy to be surrounded by families etc because all I want is to chill for a week. Like I said I’ve got four really go go go trips booked in 2026, so I’m getting my fill of sightseeing etc there

Turkey with an adults only pool.

peoplewatchingonthewaybackhome · 26/12/2025 16:43

Sorry I should’ve said in my OP - I’m going on four exploration holidays next year, literally go go go for the entire time. All I want is a week to rot by the pool and read books, I’m not looking to make friends or explore 😂

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Labamba78 · 26/12/2025 16:45

I really didn’t enjoy Tunisia and we stayed in our hotel pretty much all of the time. I still got harassed, and I was with my boyfriend. Really unpleasant experience.