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to think that he should mind his own bloody business.....

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pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 09:38

I rushed to nursery this morning to drop DD off and as usual there were no spaces but there was a lovely big disabled one. I nipped in there, dropped DD off and ran back out to the car (I must have only been 5 minutes tops!), jumped in, popped the car into reverse and this old man holding a toddler jumped behind my car and started banging on the window.

The stupid idiot could have got himself and the child killed. I slammed the anchors on to avoid hitting him and then the penny dropped - I was about to get an ear bashing (in front of a busy nusery, full of people).

I wound down the window and he was off 'have you got a blue badge?' to which I replied, 'no I haven't thanks but I'm in a rush - good day to you'. I did up the window and tried to drive off. He junped in front of the car again - still holding the child so I carefully manouvered around him and drove off to see him shaking his fist and shouting.

Now, I know I shouldn't have parked there as I'm not disabled but if he was actually disabled himself then how on earth was he able to find the energy/mobility to run and jump behind and in front of my car all the time holding a toddler.May be he wants a badge so badly that he was willing to be run over in order to qualify!!!! Some people make me so mad. It's hard work trying to get DD to nursery (it opens at 8) and to get to work on time (I start at 8.30 and the journey can take up to 45 minutes depending on traffic) without having to stop and deal with some idiot who thinks he's a traffic warden, is clearly retired and probably has all the time in the world!!!!

I'm sure there are some that don't agree with me but I had to vent my frustration and I'm hoping there are some other working mothers out there who are also pushed for time, who can sympathise with me.

Oh, and I will park there again if there are no spaces and it saves me loosing my job.

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pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 10:39

Thanks Kay and Gateau, neither of you agree with what I did but you are clearly nice people. Thanks for being NICE about my naughtiness.

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fryalot · 11/06/2008 10:42

erm... I do believe that I apologised for calling you a troll.

I did not do so to be nasty, I genuinely thought that you were. As soon as it was pointed out to me that your OP was genuine, I took back my troll comments, apologised and said that I thought you were, in fact, being unreasonable.

Which was what you asked.

Gateau · 11/06/2008 10:43

herbie, maybe you could READ my post in its entirety - not just what you choose to read -before you reply to it. Or maybe I should explain what I meant: I far from condone what ppp did. I am just saying I don't think there is any excuse for nastiness. There are other more constructive ways of people stating what they think.

Gateau · 11/06/2008 10:43

herbie, maybe you could READ my post in its entirety - not just what you choose to read -before you reply to it. Or maybe I should explain what I meant: I far from condone what ppp did. I am just saying I don't think there is any excuse for nastiness. There are other more constructive ways of people stating what they think.

YeahBut · 11/06/2008 10:44

YABVU, and daft to post on here about it.

pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 10:44

I think Cappuccino said the worst thing by threatening to knock me out. Ladies that fight and punch is quite frankly disgusting. Thanks for threatening me. I hope you are proud of yourself.

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Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:45

oh lol lol lol at my 'threatening violence'

this is an anonymous forum

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHO THE FECKING WOMAN IS

do you think I am going to devote my life to driving round nurseries the breadth of teh country, knocking pregnant women to the ground in case she is one of them?

good grief

herbietea · 11/06/2008 10:45

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kayzisexpecting · 11/06/2008 10:46

You still shouldn't threaten it. Makes you a million times worse than PPP.

YeahBut · 11/06/2008 10:46

Pop, stop making it worse.

lazarou · 11/06/2008 10:46

But PPP, you have to understand this is the sort of thing people have to put up with on a regular basis. Imagine if it was you, and it happened all the time, and then one day you just had enough. I think you are just digging yourself a great big hole tbh

Oliveoil · 11/06/2008 10:48

WINDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD UPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

Step away from the thread ladies

Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:48

can anyone help me?

I am trying to arm my car but I can't find a decent AK47 online for love nor money

Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:48

ah olive wonderful

maybe you could find me a practical combat wardrobe in M&S

I have always admired your style

YeahBut · 11/06/2008 10:49

Capp, you need one of these

Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:51

oh yeabut that is great

but I cannot see a windscreen in which to display my blue badge

coppertop · 11/06/2008 10:52

Capp and her friend patrolling nursery car parks

Oliveoil · 11/06/2008 10:52

Blue badge, wtf do you need one of those for, just park where you want fgs [rolls eyes]

Gateau · 11/06/2008 10:52

True; but why call her names, as some posters have done??! It's just childish name-slinging!That's my point - punto. Look, I'm not up for an argument here - that's just my opinion and I'm entitled to it. I'm off now; I've far too much to do to get further embroiled in this.

Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:52

copper I haven't laughed so hard in ages

Cappuccino · 11/06/2008 10:54

oh sorry I didn't know we weren't allowed to call people names

maybe it was the post "The stupid idiot could have got himself and the child killed" that threw me off the scent

hatrick · 11/06/2008 10:55

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misdee · 11/06/2008 10:55

PPP as you now know, you were being very unreasonable.

my dh is disabled. he doesnt need the disabled spaces as much as he didnt, but when he was connected to the heart pump he needed disabled spaces all the time. when we couldnt find one we had to hang around for one to come free (and considering he ran on batteries to keep him alive we couldnt wait long) or go home and try again later.

pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 10:57

Cappuccino - in response to your comment 'copper I haven't laughed so hard in ages' - well doesnt the saying go 'little things please little minds'.

Thanks for everyones input.

Have a good day.

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MehgaLegs · 11/06/2008 10:58

Unbelievable thread!

Why on earth would you confess to this? You are titally in the wrong and some of your comments are outrageous!

"Tis only a space" FFS!

"Oh, and I will park there again if there are no spaces and it saves me loosing my job." - So you really don't give a shit.

I think you are unbelievably selfish and self centered. I manage to get 4 kids, including 1 disabled, to school every single day on time.

Yes YABVVVVVVVVU.