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to think that he should mind his own bloody business.....

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pregnantpopcornprincess · 11/06/2008 09:38

I rushed to nursery this morning to drop DD off and as usual there were no spaces but there was a lovely big disabled one. I nipped in there, dropped DD off and ran back out to the car (I must have only been 5 minutes tops!), jumped in, popped the car into reverse and this old man holding a toddler jumped behind my car and started banging on the window.

The stupid idiot could have got himself and the child killed. I slammed the anchors on to avoid hitting him and then the penny dropped - I was about to get an ear bashing (in front of a busy nusery, full of people).

I wound down the window and he was off 'have you got a blue badge?' to which I replied, 'no I haven't thanks but I'm in a rush - good day to you'. I did up the window and tried to drive off. He junped in front of the car again - still holding the child so I carefully manouvered around him and drove off to see him shaking his fist and shouting.

Now, I know I shouldn't have parked there as I'm not disabled but if he was actually disabled himself then how on earth was he able to find the energy/mobility to run and jump behind and in front of my car all the time holding a toddler.May be he wants a badge so badly that he was willing to be run over in order to qualify!!!! Some people make me so mad. It's hard work trying to get DD to nursery (it opens at 8) and to get to work on time (I start at 8.30 and the journey can take up to 45 minutes depending on traffic) without having to stop and deal with some idiot who thinks he's a traffic warden, is clearly retired and probably has all the time in the world!!!!

I'm sure there are some that don't agree with me but I had to vent my frustration and I'm hoping there are some other working mothers out there who are also pushed for time, who can sympathise with me.

Oh, and I will park there again if there are no spaces and it saves me loosing my job.

OP posts:
Chequers · 12/06/2008 10:36

Message withdrawn

Teuch · 12/06/2008 17:08

Exactly chequers! We have established Pop is not a troll, but was very niave in both using the space, then posting on here about it.

She now understands the issue and has indicated that through remorse and an apology.

You live, you learn.

How many of us on here have adjusted some of our choices, behaviour or opinions through learning more about an issue?

2shoes · 12/06/2008 17:10
Teuch · 12/06/2008 17:13

no, 2shoes - your hugs are all jaggedy, like poky elbows

it should be like...

((((((((((((((((((((group hug)))))))))))))))))))

Teuch · 12/06/2008 17:14

...hun xx

lardylumps · 12/06/2008 17:23

Teuch you have gone to the dark side with all those hugs and huns......

2shoes · 12/06/2008 17:24

ccccccccccccccc hugsccccccccccccc
doesb't quite work

soxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

chegirl · 12/06/2008 17:45

Is this a pretend thread? Just checking. Amazed PPP that you didnt think this would happen! Wow.

If my OH takes my LO to school and some non disabled person is in the disabled parking spaces he has to come home. I suppose he could wait but how would he know that you would only be 5 mins? We have turned up at open evenings etc together only for him to have to drop me off while he goes home why? Guess. Yep all the spaces taken up by non disabled parents (and bloody teachers!).
When my DDDDD (darling darling darling darling daughter) was alive I would take her out for a treat and we would have to come home why? Yep ,no parking spaces. Obviously I am not blaming you for this (unless you live in East London) but do you get my point?

unknownrebelbang · 12/06/2008 17:55

This thread has to be a wind-up.

Surely?

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