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The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.

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TheTamerShrew · 15/12/2025 09:24

I’m posting because I’m struggling with how racism against Jews is being talked about here following the recent terrorist attack in Australia. What I’ve seen, again and again, is minimisation: it wasn’t really about Jews, it was more complicated than that, let’s not jump to conclusions, other groups have it worse. All the familiar caveats come out remarkably quickly when the victims are Jewish.

I want to say clearly: racism against Jews is racism. Full stop. It doesn’t become less serious because it’s uncomfortable, politically inconvenient, or doesn’t fit neatly into how some people understand racism. And it doesn’t need to compete with other forms of racism to be real or worthy of being named.

What I find particularly painful is how often antisemitism is explained away rather than confronted. We would rightly challenge this pattern if it happened after an attack on almost any other minority group. Yet when Jews are targeted, there seems to be an urge to dilute, reframe, or downplay what’s happened.
I’d really ask people to pause and self-reflect on why that might be.

Why does naming antisemitism feel harder?
Why is there a rush to qualify it, contextualise it out of existence, or deny it altogether?
Why is Jewish fear so often treated as oversensitivity rather than a rational response to a long and very real history?

Acknowledging racism is not an accusation against everyone else. It’s the first, necessary step in confronting it. If we can’t even name antisemitism when it’s staring us in the face, we have no chance of challenging it, let alone preventing it.

We don’t make the world safer by minimising hatred. We make it safer by recognising it honestly, even when that recognition makes us uncomfortable.

I hope this can be read in the spirit it’s intended: not to shut down discussion, but to ask people to explore and self reflect.

See the attached photo: in order to become Anti-racist, one needs to first acknowledge racism

The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.
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CypressGrove · 16/12/2025 08:05

In all the awfulness we saw some amazing bravery. Ahmed al-Ahmed who disarmed the older shooter and is recovering in hospital.
Reuven Morrison (62) who threw things at the older shooter to try and stop him, tragically shot and killed.
Boris (69) and Sofia (61) Gurman, locals passing by, who bravely tried to disarm the shooters as they first got out of their car, before becoming the first victims and dying in each other's arms.

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:06

IAmAHomewardBounder · 16/12/2025 08:04

whymadam

"Innocent Jewish people don't have to die because of Gaza, or anything else! Don't you get it? 🙄."

Gaza has nothing to do with Australia. A ten year old gunned down on a beach has absolutely nothing to do with Gaza. Don't you see how problematic it is when you condone the motives of terrorists?

Yes this goes for any post talking about how it’s expected and there’s a connection.

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:07

CypressGrove · 16/12/2025 08:05

In all the awfulness we saw some amazing bravery. Ahmed al-Ahmed who disarmed the older shooter and is recovering in hospital.
Reuven Morrison (62) who threw things at the older shooter to try and stop him, tragically shot and killed.
Boris (69) and Sofia (61) Gurman, locals passing by, who bravely tried to disarm the shooters as they first got out of their car, before becoming the first victims and dying in each other's arms.

My goodness that’s so sad.

Haemagoblin · 16/12/2025 08:10

KateShugakIsALegend · 16/12/2025 07:32

How is the war in Gaza linked to yesterday's attack? Please explain.

If you were to ask the men involved I'd be willing to bet good money they will say it was part of their motivation. So it plays a part. Not saying it justifies or legitimises their actions; but they will think it does and it may have been the specific incident that pushed ideological hatred over into actual violence, in the same way a woman leaving an abusive husband may be the trigger that pushes him over from abuse into murder. Noting that it has a bearing is not the same as making an excuse.

ChamonixMountainBum · 16/12/2025 08:12

HerNeighbourTotoro · 16/12/2025 06:23

You could argue that IDF has blood on their hands, not peaceful protesters supporting Palestine. You writing hateful comments is not really going to support the Jewish community, it's doing the opposite.
All the Free Palestine peopel I know have deep empathy and dont excuse violence towards Jewish people. Shame the same cant be said for the other side.

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I live in London and have seen up close several times the Pro Palestine marches and I dont know how any reasonable person can conclude that they did not contain a large dose of outright antisemitism. Be it the 'from the river to the sea' chants through to placards with the Jewish Star of David wrapped around a Nazi swastika and 'Gaza is the new Auschwitz'. If I was Jewish I would not feel at all comfortable being anywhere near the march. Despite the repeated claims that the protests are anti israel rather then anti Jewish i simply can't agree with that statement given what I have seen wirh my own eyes.

CypressGrove · 16/12/2025 08:12

Bondi Beach gunman Naveed Akram was a volunteer member of a street preaching group in Sydney’s west which has links to multiple Islamic State devotees, including self-declared martyrs and would-be soldiers.

A video from June 2019 shows a teenage Akram encouraging others to join the street preaching group:

“Whether it be raining, hailing or clear sky Allah will reward you for whatever actions you do in his cause … this will save you on the day of judgement.”

BackToLurk · 16/12/2025 08:18

Haemagoblin · 16/12/2025 08:10

If you were to ask the men involved I'd be willing to bet good money they will say it was part of their motivation. So it plays a part. Not saying it justifies or legitimises their actions; but they will think it does and it may have been the specific incident that pushed ideological hatred over into actual violence, in the same way a woman leaving an abusive husband may be the trigger that pushes him over from abuse into murder. Noting that it has a bearing is not the same as making an excuse.

If a random Asian man was attacked in the street what type of person do you think would mention grooming gangs in relation to it?

HappyFace2025 · 16/12/2025 08:18

ChamonixMountainBum · 16/12/2025 08:12

I live in London and have seen up close several times the Pro Palestine marches and I dont know how any reasonable person can conclude that they did not contain a large dose of outright antisemitism. Be it the 'from the river to the sea' chants through to placards with the Jewish Star of David wrapped around a Nazi swastika and 'Gaza is the new Auschwitz'. If I was Jewish I would not feel at all comfortable being anywhere near the march. Despite the repeated claims that the protests are anti israel rather then anti Jewish i simply can't agree with that statement given what I have seen wirh my own eyes.

So have I, while penned in with Stop The Hatred counter protesters, by police.

whymadam · 16/12/2025 08:19

KateShugakIsALegend · 16/12/2025 07:51

What is the reason?

Possibly, and I might be wrong, millions and millions of people, Jewish and non-Jewish, regard Israel as the homeland and heartland of the Jewish people and the Jewish faith. That's the one thing.
The other thing is Israel is committing genocide in Gaza.
Some people - maybe, for example, those who've had their family slaughtered in Gaza, I'm not sure - would feel the need to retaliate somehow.
None of the above are justified, it's barbaric.
There is also a complicated history of the ME issue, esp over the last 80 or so yrs, and this is the latest page in that book.

Catbenign · 16/12/2025 08:21

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AbbaCadaBra · 16/12/2025 08:24

KateShugakIsALegend · 16/12/2025 07:32

How is the war in Gaza linked to yesterday's attack? Please explain.

People aren’t saying it is right but it it is well researched that events such as what is happening in Gaza breed terrorism. There are children right now who have witnessed and experienced such atrocities that will lead to horrific acts in the future. Negotiating peace is always the only remedy. Even then…People who make the connection are not in agreement with it. They are pointing out the obvious. Perhaps it is too soon to do that because the murders are too painful. I also think it is more painful for Jewish people. While the rest of us are horrified and emotional I don’t think we feel it in the same way as we would if we were Jewish and that is not because we devalue Jewish life. If it happened here in London we would feel even worse. If it happened to people from the same spiritual background as me even worse and so on. You can’t condemn people for being human.

inamarina · 16/12/2025 08:24

Starconundrum · 16/12/2025 03:33

They are individuals not orchestrated hate groups. They have been brain washed by the very people that tell you to hate them.

Look up.

Noone wants you dead, they want you scared and participating in their regime.

They are individuals and not orchestrated groups, yet they are brainwashed by someone from the outside? So orchestrated after all?
And by whom exactly?
Do you think Nigel Farage or Tommy Robinson brainwashed them?
And “no one wants you dead”, really? Not even the “brainwashed” ones?
There was a foiled terror attack on a Christmas market in Germany last week, yet another one.
What do you think the alleged perpetrators’ goal was?

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:27

AbbaCadaBra · 16/12/2025 08:24

People aren’t saying it is right but it it is well researched that events such as what is happening in Gaza breed terrorism. There are children right now who have witnessed and experienced such atrocities that will lead to horrific acts in the future. Negotiating peace is always the only remedy. Even then…People who make the connection are not in agreement with it. They are pointing out the obvious. Perhaps it is too soon to do that because the murders are too painful. I also think it is more painful for Jewish people. While the rest of us are horrified and emotional I don’t think we feel it in the same way as we would if we were Jewish and that is not because we devalue Jewish life. If it happened here in London we would feel even worse. If it happened to people from the same spiritual background as me even worse and so on. You can’t condemn people for being human.

The people shooting in Australia witnessed it? Why would you excuse their behaviour as being human?

dairydebris · 16/12/2025 08:32

whymadam · 16/12/2025 07:37

Tragically, it absolutely IS because they were Jewish, and it iS racist and anti-semitic. I think what people are trying to say on here is that the attack could be a retaliation for the genocide in Gaza.

And some of us can see how deeply problematic this framing is- particularly the use of the word retaliation.

Beachtastic · 16/12/2025 08:34

Starconundrum · 16/12/2025 02:07

Can you explain where you think I was wrong?

My issue is that many many posters are using this horrific attack to target and blame muslims.

They are doing that. You just need to read a few pages of the threads.

This perpetuates the hate.

So let's stop it now.

I think this was horrific. My full sympathy lies with the Jewish community and the Australian community. I will keep my trap shut as long as noone blames any other religion or race.

My issue is that many many posters are using this horrific attack to target and blame muslims.

I can't see anyone doing that on this thread, quite honestly. Perhaps they're doing it on some other social media you're absorbing, but this is not the place to attack posters who have done no such thing.

It's not our fault that "radical Islam" includes the word "Islam" despite being a perversion of it that has nothing to do with the Muslim faith. Maybe we should start calling it something else, but pretending it doesn't exist is not a sensible way forward when events like this are ramping up, including here in the UK.

CypressGrove · 16/12/2025 08:34

AbbaCadaBra · 16/12/2025 08:24

People aren’t saying it is right but it it is well researched that events such as what is happening in Gaza breed terrorism. There are children right now who have witnessed and experienced such atrocities that will lead to horrific acts in the future. Negotiating peace is always the only remedy. Even then…People who make the connection are not in agreement with it. They are pointing out the obvious. Perhaps it is too soon to do that because the murders are too painful. I also think it is more painful for Jewish people. While the rest of us are horrified and emotional I don’t think we feel it in the same way as we would if we were Jewish and that is not because we devalue Jewish life. If it happened here in London we would feel even worse. If it happened to people from the same spiritual background as me even worse and so on. You can’t condemn people for being human.

This scumbag was hanging out with ISIS linked groups long before Oct 7. I seriously doubt that he was motivated by sympathy relating to Gaza, but from a generalised hatred of Jews and an ideology that tells him ( his words): "Whether it be raining, hailing or clear sky Allah will reward you for whatever actions you do in his cause … this will save you on the day of judgement.”

EmeraldShamrock000 · 16/12/2025 08:34

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:06

Yes this goes for any post talking about how it’s expected and there’s a connection.

I agree with you.
The 7/7 bus attacks, the Ariana, Manchester concert attack, wasn’t assumed to be expected. There obviously is a connection to Islamic terror groupings in these attacks, this time it was the Jewish community, the excuses and reasoning is off the scale.

Twiglets1 · 16/12/2025 08:34

Retaliation on completely unconnected people including a 10 year old girl - makes sense.

whymadam · 16/12/2025 08:36

dairydebris · 16/12/2025 08:32

And some of us can see how deeply problematic this framing is- particularly the use of the word retaliation.

I understand. It's also problematic when people can't face, even consider, reality.

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:37

whymadam · 16/12/2025 08:36

I understand. It's also problematic when people can't face, even consider, reality.

What are people not considering? I don’t think it’s the case people can’t see the threat, they say it’s there. Just not for the reasons you do.

Catbenign · 16/12/2025 08:39

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dairydebris · 16/12/2025 08:40

whymadam · 16/12/2025 08:36

I understand. It's also problematic when people can't face, even consider, reality.

Just try asking yourself why youre on a thread about an antisemitic attack on innocent families explaining it because of 'Gaza'.

The hatred that arises in people commiting these attacks is as old as the hills. And you've got a gentle hand on their back whispering ' retaliation '.

Beachtastic · 16/12/2025 08:41

AbbaCadaBra · 16/12/2025 08:24

People aren’t saying it is right but it it is well researched that events such as what is happening in Gaza breed terrorism. There are children right now who have witnessed and experienced such atrocities that will lead to horrific acts in the future. Negotiating peace is always the only remedy. Even then…People who make the connection are not in agreement with it. They are pointing out the obvious. Perhaps it is too soon to do that because the murders are too painful. I also think it is more painful for Jewish people. While the rest of us are horrified and emotional I don’t think we feel it in the same way as we would if we were Jewish and that is not because we devalue Jewish life. If it happened here in London we would feel even worse. If it happened to people from the same spiritual background as me even worse and so on. You can’t condemn people for being human.

The atrocities of 7 October were not caused by the Gaza war and were carried out by Gazan civilian mobs alongside Hamas. The mobs probably escalated things to a level of sadism that was beyond what Hamas intended. Are you expecting those attacks to "breed terrorism" among Israelis?

What breeds terrorism is a dangerous ideology that wants Israel and the Jewish people to be obliterated and promises material and heavenly rewards for anyone helping to achieve this.

7 October was a two-pronged attack: one "on the ground" as it were, and the other in the streets of our cities and on social media. The latter is gaining impetus, as evidenced by some of the responses on this thread.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 16/12/2025 08:41

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I'm not really understanding the arguments here.

After 9/11, there was a huge reaction by non-Muslim Americans against Muslims who lived in America. The people who expressed a lot of anti-Muslim sentiments were probably bigots anyway, the sort of people who were homophobic and sexist and probably anti-Semitic, too. But they may not have given much thought to Islam before the attacks. After, their bigoted nature came out, enabled by so many others expressing the same thing after the attacks. Observing this effect is NOT to blame Muslims in, say, Saudi Arabia for 9/11. Or Muslims anywhere, for that matter. Neither is it saying that those reactions were right, or OK, or understandable. It is simply an observation of what happened.

As another poster wrote, the effects of events on terrorism is well-researched. To be clear, it's the terrorists' fault, and not the fault of anyone else.

The nutters of Hamas going on the rampage on October 7 somehow gave certain evil people licence to express their anti-Semitic views out loud. That is NOT to blame ordinary Muslims anywhere else. This is merely an observation of the phenomenon where some people take the side of evil when bad things happen.

EasternStandard · 16/12/2025 08:42

Starconundrum · 16/12/2025 03:33

They are individuals not orchestrated hate groups. They have been brain washed by the very people that tell you to hate them.

Look up.

Noone wants you dead, they want you scared and participating in their regime.

What do you mean in this post, people have died due to the terrorism. That was the intention.

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