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The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.

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TheTamerShrew · 15/12/2025 09:24

I’m posting because I’m struggling with how racism against Jews is being talked about here following the recent terrorist attack in Australia. What I’ve seen, again and again, is minimisation: it wasn’t really about Jews, it was more complicated than that, let’s not jump to conclusions, other groups have it worse. All the familiar caveats come out remarkably quickly when the victims are Jewish.

I want to say clearly: racism against Jews is racism. Full stop. It doesn’t become less serious because it’s uncomfortable, politically inconvenient, or doesn’t fit neatly into how some people understand racism. And it doesn’t need to compete with other forms of racism to be real or worthy of being named.

What I find particularly painful is how often antisemitism is explained away rather than confronted. We would rightly challenge this pattern if it happened after an attack on almost any other minority group. Yet when Jews are targeted, there seems to be an urge to dilute, reframe, or downplay what’s happened.
I’d really ask people to pause and self-reflect on why that might be.

Why does naming antisemitism feel harder?
Why is there a rush to qualify it, contextualise it out of existence, or deny it altogether?
Why is Jewish fear so often treated as oversensitivity rather than a rational response to a long and very real history?

Acknowledging racism is not an accusation against everyone else. It’s the first, necessary step in confronting it. If we can’t even name antisemitism when it’s staring us in the face, we have no chance of challenging it, let alone preventing it.

We don’t make the world safer by minimising hatred. We make it safer by recognising it honestly, even when that recognition makes us uncomfortable.

I hope this can be read in the spirit it’s intended: not to shut down discussion, but to ask people to explore and self reflect.

See the attached photo: in order to become Anti-racist, one needs to first acknowledge racism

The reactions to the Bondi Beach terrorist attack has shown how racist many posters are here.
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ParmaVioletTea · 15/12/2025 15:02

As David Baddiel says "Jews don't count."

There's an excellent podcast by Australian journalist Josh Szeps, called Uncomfortable Conversations, and today he's published a very moving & nuanced reflection on the massacre on Sunday.

https://uncomfortableconversations.substack.com/

His father was the wonderful actor Henri Szeps, who was born in a refugee camp. His father & grandmother were Holocaust survivors. It's very moving but worth a listen for a really informed thoughtful & nuanced view of Jew hatred.

Uncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps | Substack

The safe space for dangerous ideas. Click to read Uncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps, a Substack publication with tens of thousands of subscribers.

https://uncomfortableconversations.substack.com

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:05

Bloozie · 15/12/2025 14:54

I was responding to the poster: "I am a Zionist. I wasn’t when young, but I am now, and increasingly so. It just means the belief in the existence of the state of Israel."

If you read my post, I say yes, I believe Israel exists, and also has a right to exist.

The land was absolutely given to the Jewish people. It's a matter of historical record - there was no state of Israel on 13 May 1948, the land was Palestinian under British control. (Side note - Britain's behaviour in the decades leading up to the creation of the state of Israel was abysmal).

But none of the history of anything, justifies what happened in Australia this weekend. Nor do we know if even the terrorists are trying to use it as justification.

No, it was not GIVEN to anyone. You need to read a bit of history.
It wasn't Palestinian land under British control. It was an entire area that was the British mandate of Palestine. In what way was British behaviour "abysmal"? When they shut the gates of Palestine to desperate Jewish refugees from Europe in the 1940s at the behest of the Arabs?
Anyway, understandably, after WW2, the Brits wanted out as there was so much fighting between the Palestinian zionists and the Palestinian Arabs and it really was a thorn in their side. The Brits asked the UN to come up with a solution and a commission was established. This commission came up with the partition plan as the fairest solution .
On 30 November, 1948, the partition plan was put for a vote at the UN and was passed. The Palestinian Zionist leadership accepted it, the Arab leadership rejected it (no coutner proposal, out and out rejection to any Jewish political presence). The Palestinian Arabs began a civil war against the Palestinian zionists on that very day.
A civil war was fought with the Brits basically just counting down the days to when they would unilaterally leave.
On May 14 1948 at midnight, the British mandate in Palestine ended. On May 15, 1948 the Palestinian Zionists declared the State of Israel. The Palestinian Arabs did not declare a state of palestine. As soon as the Brits left, 5 neighbouring Arab states invaded the new state of Israel to destroy it. The Jordanians kept the West Bank (and expelled or massacred ALL the Jews including from the Old City of jerusalem) and the Egyptians the Gaza strip. Indeed, the land of mandatory Palestine that was later held by the Arabs was annexed to Jorden or controlled by Egypt and no state of Palestine was established.
This is all verifiable historical fact. HTH.
So please explain how it was "given" to the Jewish people?

And, again, NO ONE cares if you believe Israel exists. Or even that it has right to exist. No country has a right to exist (people have rights, not countries), they exist because they do.

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:08

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 14:56

I've already explained. These people are hateful and nuts, that's why they kill people. But even a hateful nutter thinks they are justified, and this is the basis on which they justify it TO THEMSELVES. Apologies if you find me rude but I find it rude to continue to say I am doing something I categorically am not doing.

Yes, but my point is that this is driven by age old anti semitism. As evidenced by the fact that this justification doesn't seem to happen with Buddhist temples or Russian orthodox churches.
There is a generalized hatred of the west as well, that's true, hence 9/11 and 7/7 but when it comes to targeting one specific group - well, that's generally gonna be the Jews as the hated minority. Twas always thus I guess.

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:11

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 14:59

Also the most cursory Google indicates Islamic charities and relief organisations with longstanding campaigns in support of the Rohingya, the Uighurs and other persecuted Muslim groups around the world. The Ummah is a real concept in Islam which most Muslims take seriously. It is only the radicalised whose bigotry leads to this 'hierarchy' of which you speak, largely based on the fact they hate Jews far more than Buddhists or Communists.

Edited

So Malaysians and Indonesians, those brave Muslim supporters of Palestine and the ummah, are quite happy to deny entry to desparate Rohingya refugees and send them out to die at sea. Because they're different (they hate the Rohingya).
But Palestine,oh Palestine - well, that's a noble cause.

HappyFace2025 · 15/12/2025 15:12

jeffgoldblum · 15/12/2025 15:02

This really is eye opening! Why are people who are of the Jewish faith routinely robbed of their nationality?
if someone is born in the U.K. they are automatically a citizen.
if someone is born in Australia they are automatically a citizen.
this is known commonly by everyone, since when does religion suddenly become someone’s nationality?
Israel, Palestine and Gaza bare no place in the discussion about Australian families being attacked! , yes they were Jewish, yes that’s why they were targeted but they were Australian! 😡

Unfortunately history illustrates that when countries turn on their Jewish citizens it no longer matters that they are British, Australian, French or American.
The Jews in Germany 100 years ago considered themselves to be German citizens first and foremost. My mother's family amongst them, many of whom perished in the Holocaust.

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 15:12

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:08

Yes, but my point is that this is driven by age old anti semitism. As evidenced by the fact that this justification doesn't seem to happen with Buddhist temples or Russian orthodox churches.
There is a generalized hatred of the west as well, that's true, hence 9/11 and 7/7 but when it comes to targeting one specific group - well, that's generally gonna be the Jews as the hated minority. Twas always thus I guess.

I know and no-one's saying otherwise. But in this instance, the war in Gaza is a part of the puzzle. Hence why it's being mentioned.

BackToLurk · 15/12/2025 15:13

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 14:23

I am well aware of that but they are not relevant to the context of this attack, which is what I had been asked to explain. Again your desperate misinterpreting for a gotcha is in very bad faith.

You're very keen on context. The wider context is the obsession with one conflict in the ME. Coincidentally the one that can be used as a stick to beat Jews with. We've heard a lot of people claiming to be 'pro-Palestinian', yet they only seem to be concerned about the treatment of Palestinians by Israel. There were no large marches organised to condemn the killings of Palestinians in Syria for example.

Similarly we don't see other governments' policies being used as justification for why that government's entire country should cease to exist. That's your context

Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 15:13

thesecondmrsdewinter20 · 15/12/2025 14:34

Sorry, i haven’t RTFT. But I wanted to comment because whilst I’m not Jewish, I am Australian, from Sydney (living in UK). I know people who were nearby and know of others who were at the Chanukah event. My heart is broken for those who have lost loved ones (I can’t get Matilda’s smiling face out of my head), for the Jewish community and for Sydney as a whole.

I was distressed this morning to see an Instagram post from The Guilty Feminist which I believe to be antisemitic, criticising widespread reporting of and discussion of the attack and labelling it a ‘PR opportunity’, being used to push anti-Arab fear. Has anyone else seen it?

So much wrong with the whole post that I don’t know where to begin. I will say though that i personally haven’t seen any ‘anti-Arab fear’ resulting from this in mainstream media / my social media feeds. Instead, I’ve seen lots of coverage of Ahmed al-Ahmed, a Muslim Australian from Syria who risked his own life to disarm the attacker. An incredibly brave, selfless man. Give him every single medal.

Ugh, I mean Instagram is just a hotbed of vile propaganda.

That sort of thing was very much the trend on MN immediately after 7/10. Lots of posters saying it was a false flag exercise by Israel itself, and that the attacks had given them "the excuse they needed" etc... 😩

EasternStandard · 15/12/2025 15:15

Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 15:13

Ugh, I mean Instagram is just a hotbed of vile propaganda.

That sort of thing was very much the trend on MN immediately after 7/10. Lots of posters saying it was a false flag exercise by Israel itself, and that the attacks had given them "the excuse they needed" etc... 😩

It’s horrendous isn’t it.

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:17

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 15:12

I know and no-one's saying otherwise. But in this instance, the war in Gaza is a part of the puzzle. Hence why it's being mentioned.

Right, it's the excuse. But before Gaza, Jews were a target. Synagogues and Jewish insitutions have been a favourite target of Muslim extremists for a long time.

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:19

BackToLurk · 15/12/2025 15:13

You're very keen on context. The wider context is the obsession with one conflict in the ME. Coincidentally the one that can be used as a stick to beat Jews with. We've heard a lot of people claiming to be 'pro-Palestinian', yet they only seem to be concerned about the treatment of Palestinians by Israel. There were no large marches organised to condemn the killings of Palestinians in Syria for example.

Similarly we don't see other governments' policies being used as justification for why that government's entire country should cease to exist. That's your context

heck, they were waving Hezbollah flags at some marches when Hezbollah massacred many Palestinians in Syria. Even Jeremy Corbyn called Hezbollah his friends. As long as they hate Israel.

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 15:19

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:17

Right, it's the excuse. But before Gaza, Jews were a target. Synagogues and Jewish insitutions have been a favourite target of Muslim extremists for a long time.

So have we got to the point you accept that mentioning it is not the same as justifying the attacks? Or are we still there?

PluckyChancer · 15/12/2025 15:22

xmasstress12 · 15/12/2025 11:46

Netanyahu and his actions have put a target on the backs of ordinary Jews across the world.

So by that logic the UK public attacks were to be expected and so are future ones?

Surely that’s obvious? 🤷🏻‍♀️

YouveGotNoBloodyIdea · 15/12/2025 15:24

AbbaCadaBra · 15/12/2025 12:02

It is difficult not to risk the accusation of antisemitism when you view this event in the context of the war that is currently being waged in Gaza in which tens of thousands(?) of Palestinians have been killed. I find it really complex because I think the Bondi murders are horrific and I also can't help thinking of what the Palestinian people have endured and continue to endure while we become inured to their suffering and the sheer scale of the numbers involved, the way they were starved, eye witness reports of children being shot in the head and groin. It is all so impossible to make sense of when you witness what human beings are capable of. We don't want Jewish people to fear for their lives and we know that will continue to be a threat as long as what is going on in Gaza continues, and will probably continue as retaliatory gesture even when it is over. Most of us just want it all to stop, but that currently seems like a naive desire, albeit a heartfelt one.

I don't find it difficult to not be antisemitic. Most decent people don't. Decent people do not try to suggest that anyone living in Australia bears any responsibility for the conduct of a government, in a war, thousands of miles away. Some people, OTOH, find the whole "Israel/palestine" debate a very handy way to frame, and therefore disguise, their own Antisemitism.

Jews in Australia were not attacked because of the war in Gaza. They were attacked because of the antisemitism ingrained in radical Islam. This is a theological issue, not a political one. Those same radical islamists were behind Oct 7th, the massacre at the Ariane Grande concert, the Christmas Market murders, Westminster bridge, 9/11, 7/7 - because WE are all also targets of their hatred, anyone who does not belong to their particular interpretation of Islam is to be killed because by doing so - whether or not they survive themselves - they are winning a place in paradise. They hate and despise us, they just hate Jews more.

If you don't understand the deeply religious beliefs motivating these people then you will look for "reasons" like a political argument over land. It's much deeper than that - and it's very very dark.

Hiptothisjive · 15/12/2025 15:24

Nothingbutstress · 15/12/2025 11:36

I totally agree with you OP and I think it’s disgusting that certain chants etc have been allowed at the Palestine marches. This antisemitism has been stoked and stoked by the marches.

We all know which group is the problem. It isn’t Sikhs, Hindus, Jews or Christians shooting people dead, running them over in Christmas markets, blowing them up in the street. Unfortunately people seem to want to ignore the problem until it is their child being killed by radical islamists. I also feel that the events of October 7th are far too overlooked.

Sorry not to pile on but add 'attacking Jews in synagogues' as well.

Totally agree with you!

Beachtastic · 15/12/2025 15:24

Haemagoblin · 15/12/2025 15:19

So have we got to the point you accept that mentioning it is not the same as justifying the attacks? Or are we still there?

Sorry but I must admit I'm struggling to grasp what you're saying. It sounds as though (???) you're saying that for a few dangerous nut jobs, the Israel–Gaza war gives them the excuse they need to commit violent acts. Well, yes; but you also have to understand that they would do this sort of thing with or without the excuse of a war. Their hatred of Jews is eternal.

I'm also worried that the constant "but Israel!" comments on threads like this just feed into their propaganda machine, which has been running on overdrive ever since the first "pro-Palestinian" marches in London were organised on 7 October 2023 to present Hamas as freedom fighters against oppression. That was a clever DARVO move, because the Western liberal mind can embrace those concepts much more readily than actually getting our heads round the rabid religious fervour and genocidal intentions that actually motivate them to want Israel and Jews destroyed.

WhodunitAgatha · 15/12/2025 15:25

OP, you're not wrong and there's been a fair bit of anti-Semitism and minimising on mumsnet (to those posters I really hope you feel shame, but I suspect you're doubling down).
What I will say is fuck the virtue signallers, the bekinders, the Hamas groupies and the 6th form politicians- I honestly think the sane majority is finding it's voice- and balls.
Yes, the media class will minimise- they're in a cult- but we will now call it out.
Look at the results of your poll- I find that heartening.
Thank you for starting this thread- it helps to see that many feel the same at this shitty time.

HappyFace2025 · 15/12/2025 15:26

sabababa · 15/12/2025 15:17

Right, it's the excuse. But before Gaza, Jews were a target. Synagogues and Jewish insitutions have been a favourite target of Muslim extremists for a long time.

Far too many people seem not to know (or worse, care) that antisemitic attacks came before 7 October. They increased exponentially from then onwards.

Sewingaddict · 15/12/2025 15:28

Yanbu, there is a fanatic group, and it is mostly the same usernames everytime, despite frequent deletions, of mumsnet posters that appear on every single Jewish antisemitism related thread. Minimising, derailing (so much derailing), denying antisemitism and determined to do a “gotcha” to try and prove the Jewish person or topic wrong and often feels like they’re trying to get the thread deleted. They are vile antisemites but also just a reflection of society, as there are many vile antisemitic people walking amongst us.

jeffgoldblum · 15/12/2025 15:30

HappyFace2025 · 15/12/2025 15:12

Unfortunately history illustrates that when countries turn on their Jewish citizens it no longer matters that they are British, Australian, French or American.
The Jews in Germany 100 years ago considered themselves to be German citizens first and foremost. My mother's family amongst them, many of whom perished in the Holocaust.

I know but I would have hoped that society would have moved on ! Apparently it hasn’t changed 🤷‍♀️

TrippingOverMyAssets · 15/12/2025 15:31

xmasstress12 · 15/12/2025 11:46

Netanyahu and his actions have put a target on the backs of ordinary Jews across the world.

So by that logic the UK public attacks were to be expected and so are future ones?

Well do you think it his actions have made the Jewish community any safer?

SpaceRaccoon · 15/12/2025 15:34

TrippingOverMyAssets · 15/12/2025 15:31

Well do you think it his actions have made the Jewish community any safer?

Islamic terrorists are the ones killing Jewish people and making them unsafe - they have agency, no-one can "make" them attack and kill innocent people against their will.

jeffgoldblum · 15/12/2025 15:40

TrippingOverMyAssets · 15/12/2025 15:31

Well do you think it his actions have made the Jewish community any safer?

Are you aware that Jewish schools and places of worship in the U.K. had security guards and measures before oct 7 and Gaza?
are you aware that they were subjected to racist attacks frequently before oct 7 and Gaza?
because it seems to me that obviously you weren’t or didn’t care enough to notice before these things happened.

Friendlyfart · 15/12/2025 15:42

CurlewKate · 15/12/2025 11:05

I have absolutely no problem naming anti Semitism. I have no problem saying that the Bondi Beach atrocity was an anti Semitic attack. I also have no trouble saying that it is possible to object very strongly to the behaviour of the Israeli government without being anti Semitic.

Israel bingo!

I am Jewish and I have no control over what the Israeli government does and nor did the poor souls at Bondi.

Unfortunately all the pro-Pally marches do is add fuel to the fire legitimising Jew-hatred because idiots think that Jewish people have influence in what happens in a country thousands of miles away.

TrippingOverMyAssets · 15/12/2025 15:42

SpaceRaccoon · 15/12/2025 15:34

Islamic terrorists are the ones killing Jewish people and making them unsafe - they have agency, no-one can "make" them attack and kill innocent people against their will.

Yes. But have the actions of Netanyahu in response to these Islamic Terrorists made the Jewish community safer?

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