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To think that the success of male comedians online playing eccentric female characters is a true sign of misogyny?

112 replies

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 10:55

I can think of loads of male comedians who've made it big by acting out characters who are funny, eccentric middle aged women

Its all the rage on tiktok, men just donning a wig and acting like their mums

Cant think of many female comedians doing the same thing and getting success from it 🤔

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MrsSkylerWhite · 10/12/2025 10:58

Such as?

XWKD · 10/12/2025 10:59

I used to love Cissie and Ada.

ThatVividReader · 10/12/2025 10:59

I see women doing it too, in my limited experience of online stuff.

I don't think it's biased by sex.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:00

MrsSkylerWhite · 10/12/2025 10:58

Such as?

Mrs browns boys
David walliams

On tiktok theres loads of guys 'portraying their mum'

Its everywhere!

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MrsSkylerWhite · 10/12/2025 11:00

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:00

Mrs browns boys
David walliams

On tiktok theres loads of guys 'portraying their mum'

Its everywhere!

D

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:01

ThatVividReader · 10/12/2025 10:59

I see women doing it too, in my limited experience of online stuff.

I don't think it's biased by sex.

Jennifer Lopez Reaction GIF

I dont know any women who have done as well as the men do

Why can't a woman play Mrs browns boys!? Might make it the tiniest bit funny then 😒

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MrsSkylerWhite · 10/12/2025 11:01

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:00

Mrs browns boys
David walliams

On tiktok theres loads of guys 'portraying their mum'

Its everywhere!

Don’t look at TikTok.

Can’t stand those two but I just don’t watch.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 10/12/2025 11:02

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:01

I dont know any women who have done as well as the men do

Why can't a woman play Mrs browns boys!? Might make it the tiniest bit funny then 😒

Exactly. It's the most cringey, unfunny thing I've ever seen. Such a pathetic attempt at humour.

LoserWinner · 10/12/2025 11:04

Stephen Fry, whom I generally don’t like very much, is an astonishingly brilliant Lady Bracknell in ‘The Importance of Being Earnest’ at the Noel Coward Theatre in London.

grannycake · 10/12/2025 11:04

French & Saunders did a couple of sketches where there were men

XWKD · 10/12/2025 11:05

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:01

I dont know any women who have done as well as the men do

Why can't a woman play Mrs browns boys!? Might make it the tiniest bit funny then 😒

The original Mrs. Brown was Angelica Houston in Agnes Brown.

I think Mr's Brown's Boys is dreadful, but not because of the sex of the actor.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:05

grannycake · 10/12/2025 11:04

French & Saunders did a couple of sketches where there were men

I love Jennifer Saunders 🥰

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mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:07

Slightyamusedandsilly · 10/12/2025 11:02

Exactly. It's the most cringey, unfunny thing I've ever seen. Such a pathetic attempt at humour.

Its the worst thing in the world!

Forget war and poverty. Sitting through Mrs browns boys on Christmas night is the true definition of human suffering.

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TheHateIsNotGood · 10/12/2025 11:07

Kathy Burke as Perry

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:08

XWKD · 10/12/2025 11:05

The original Mrs. Brown was Angelica Houston in Agnes Brown.

I think Mr's Brown's Boys is dreadful, but not because of the sex of the actor.

So a role that previously belonged to a woman has been given to a man to pretend to be a woman!?!

Cancel the show immediately imo 😭

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XWKD · 10/12/2025 11:09

Meryl Streep playing Donald Trump.

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/12/2025 11:11

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:08

So a role that previously belonged to a woman has been given to a man to pretend to be a woman!?!

Cancel the show immediately imo 😭

Well, not exactly because Brendan O’Carroll did write it, to be fair to him.
Still doesn’t make it funny though.

XWKD · 10/12/2025 11:12

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:08

So a role that previously belonged to a woman has been given to a man to pretend to be a woman!?!

Cancel the show immediately imo 😭

It didn't "belong" to a woman. It belongs to Brendan O'Carroll who wrote the book, so he's free to play her if he wishes. It should be cancelled because it's bloody awful.

PollyBell · 10/12/2025 11:14

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:08

So a role that previously belonged to a woman has been given to a man to pretend to be a woman!?!

Cancel the show immediately imo 😭

So who wrote it in the first place?

notionpotion · 10/12/2025 11:14

XWKD · 10/12/2025 10:59

I used to love Cissie and Ada.

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Absolutely - genius!!

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/12/2025 11:15

LoserWinner · 10/12/2025 11:04

Stephen Fry, whom I generally don’t like very much, is an astonishingly brilliant Lady Bracknell in ‘The Importance of Being Earnest’ at the Noel Coward Theatre in London.

Sharon D. Clarke was far better.
In fact, the whole of the cast at The National, were better.

bumblingbovine49 · 10/12/2025 11:16

You are probably right but it is not new.

Les Dawson - Cissie and Ada and https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p00c3k26
Alec Guiness did this in ' Kind Hearts and Coronets
Robin Williams - Mrs Doubtfire
Eddie Murphy and the Nutty Professor films
Monty Python did a lot of this sort of thing

Paul O'Grady and Lily Savage
Barry Humphries and Dame Edna Everage

I can think of a lot of female comedians who do or have done this too
Caroline Aherne and Mrs Merton.

Kathy Burke did this quite a bit when she was younger
Jennifer Saunders and Edina Monsoon.

Tracey Ullman did this a lot as did Julie Walters

I know some people will say the last two I listed for men (Paul O'Grady and Barry Humphries) are different and cool because this is bit more like drag which is apparently OK Hmm but I can't see much difference in the basics really, although the execution is what actually makes it offensive or not to me.

So what type of female middle aged character is being represented makes the difference. Is it a complex, albeit funny character portrayed with warmth and affection, even if laughing at their foibles or is it a character that relies on shallow sterotypes and crude cruelty for laughs. I'd say Paul O'Grady and Barry Humphries and most of the ones prtrayed by the female comedians (though not all) fall into the former, whereas a lot done by the men are in the sterotype catergory and I do find those a bit offensive - as a 'just past' middle aged women myself

BBC One - The Best of Les Dawson, Episode 4, Ada's Peculiar Complaint

Ada visits the doctor to alleviate her chaffing.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p00c3k26

MrsSkylerWhite · 10/12/2025 11:17

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/12/2025 11:15

Sharon D. Clarke was far better.
In fact, the whole of the cast at The National, were better.

Bertie Carvel was the most brilliant Miss Trunchbull.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 10/12/2025 11:18

I dont know 😭

I just think theres so many guys on tiktok pretending to be women, and so many comedians who do it too

And it irks me. Would they be as well recieved were they playing men?

I love French and saunders and Kathy burke yes, but I cant think of anyone younger

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Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 10/12/2025 11:19

The one that pissed me right of was Madame in Ballet Shoes at The National being played by a man. He was very good but there is a dearth of parts available for middle aged women. What does it actually add it being played by a bloke?

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