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girlmuma · 03/12/2025 21:28

There are laws against this to protect the innocent and for many, there is no right to take a life irrespective of the crime. Some people think that a death sentence is actually an easy option compared to years of unrelenting fear living in a prison among people who know what you did.

regardless of any of these things, if someone hurt my babies in the way this animal did, I would want to kill them with my bare hands, so I do also really reason with your sentiment.

Grammarnut · 03/12/2025 23:00

SerendipityJane · 03/12/2025 17:15

Why not ? We used to.

Why not? We used to but we have decided it is not acceptable to do this. Killing someone tended to be used as an example of what would happen to you if you broke the law. We don't act in that way now - not because it is ineffective but because it is unjust. And that's better.
Besides, there is an argument that removing freedom for life is a better punishment than death.

KTheGrey · 03/12/2025 23:20

Bagsintheboot · 03/12/2025 20:56

Sure, it may be. But how do you define "pretty clear" in other cases?

A conviction of murder is a conviction of murder, regardless of clarity, and would, in your world, carry the death penalty. Will we only convict of murder in cases like Rudukubanas? Will all the other less-clear-but-still-probable murderers now walk free because we can't convict them where it means the death penalty? Or do we take the risk of sentencing innocent people to death?

Nah mate don’t put words in my mouth. I didn’t say I supported the death penalty. I said that AR looks like a clearly guilty case to me - ie plainly unambiguously guilty does exist.

The last two hangings in England that I am aware of were Derek Bentley and Ruth Ellis, and neither would get a ‘fully’ guilty verdict now, iyswim.

Somebody told me that he thinks all prison and punishment is revenge, but for myself I genuinely think the issue is how people are to be protected from dangerous criminals. I don’t approve of state murder, but equally I don’t think AR is ever going to be safe to release, and atm he is also a risk to prison officers. We currently seem to have an emergent law-of-the-jungle situation among prisoners, given the recent killings of two sex offenders in prison. I do not have an answer; too complicated for me.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/12/2025 23:20

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 03/12/2025 16:55

Because he apparently has human rights, despite waiving them when he did what he did. That's why.

Human rights need to apply to everyone or they're worthless.

Bikergran · 03/12/2025 23:26

He won't have an easy time in prison.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/12/2025 23:28

NotrialNodeal · 03/12/2025 20:58

But with the technology, DNA etc that we have today it would be virtually impossible to wrongly hang someone.

I don't share your confidence on that. Evidence can often be interpreted in multiple ways, it's not always clear cut.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/12/2025 23:33

@KTheGrey

"Nah mate don’t put words in my mouth. I didn’t say I supported the death penalty. I said that AR looks like a clearly guilty case to me - ie plainly unambiguously guilty does exist."

Someone can have unambiguously committed a crime, but not be considered fully responsible for their actions. Not commenting specifically on AR, just pointing out that these things can be complicated.

OonaStubbs · 03/12/2025 23:45

There should be a referendum on bringing back the death penalty just like there was for Brexit. I am fairly certain that "yes" would win.

OonaStubbs · 03/12/2025 23:46

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 03/12/2025 23:20

Human rights need to apply to everyone or they're worthless.

What about the "human rights" of victims of crime? Don't they count?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/12/2025 23:47

OonaStubbs · 03/12/2025 23:46

What about the "human rights" of victims of crime? Don't they count?

How exactly are the human rights of the victims protected or upheld by executing the perpetrators?

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/12/2025 23:51

I think convicted paedophiles/rapists/murderers should be given the choice. Long prison sentences or lethal injection.

Robin2025 · 04/12/2025 01:46

He's despicable, but we got rid of the death penalty for good reasons.

OonaStubbs · 04/12/2025 01:58

Just put them in a cell, solitary confinement with no visitors or interaction with anyone, ever. And leave a cyanide capsule in there for them as "an option".

XWKD · 04/12/2025 02:54

HermioneWeasley · 03/12/2025 16:49

I don’t know. Where there’s no doubt (like Axel Rudakabana) I think we should have the death penalty

So prison is for cases where there is doubt i.e. not guilty?

OtterlyAstounding · 04/12/2025 03:32

On a practical level I'm not in favour of giving the state the ability to kill people, and yet in these cases where a person's guilt is incontrovertible, I find it hard to argue against the death penalty - without expensive, drawn-out appeals. Just sentencing and then execution as soon as possible.

I'm aware that even in those cases where the evidence appears incontrovertible, there might be a margin of error, but I find it statistically acceptable that a very, very, very small percentage of innocent people might be executed.

People will of course react strongly to that statement, but considering the number of people (including children) who die because their specific cancer treatment isn't publicly funded, who die because the mental health services don't provide enough care, who die because essential medical services are delayed by waiting lists, and other failures of the public health system, we are clearly fine with the state allowing innocent people to die.

So yes - I'm divided on the matter, but in principle I'm not against the death penalty for cases where the perpetrator is incontrovertibly guilty.

OtterlyAstounding · 04/12/2025 03:49

Lurkingandlearning · 03/12/2025 17:02

I wonder how many of the people who want capital punishment to be returned would be willing to pull the lever. Not who will bluster hypothetically that would be happy to, but who would actually kill the convict.

I am sure that I would be able to do so. Having killed animals before (for food, or out of necessity) and having found it to be a mildly upsetting experience each time, I honestly think executing a paedophile would be easier than an innocent animal.

It would be an unpleasant job, and no doubt carry some degree of psychological toll, but there would be a certain satisfaction to knowing that you are removing a monster from the world.

OtterlyAstounding · 04/12/2025 04:07

HelenaWaiting · 03/12/2025 17:48

Because it's illogical. We imprison people for murder because killing people is wrong. Yet people will advocate killing convicted murderers "because killing people is wrong". It's nonsensical.

State-sanctioned executions are not the same as individuals murdering people, just as the state imprisoning people is not the same as an individual locking someone in their basement for years.

Whyjustwhy83 · 04/12/2025 04:21

He'll be out in a few years, look how long that teen who did the same got 8 years I think. Is that really a sentence to fit these sort of crimes? He'll be out up at the tax payers expenses and out to do similar in the future I bet.

Copperoliverbear · 04/12/2025 04:23

100% I agree that’s exactly what they deserve all of them, but this country is weak

sashh · 04/12/2025 04:37

Have a read of what happened to Richard Huckle. Then Ian Watkins. Ian Huntly is still alive but he's had a couple of attacks, one of which slashed his throat.

This latest one will not be having an easy time. Prisons are overcrowded, things that shouldn't happen are happening.

Alexandra2001 · 04/12/2025 07:07

OonaStubbs · 03/12/2025 23:46

What about the "human rights" of victims of crime? Don't they count?

I know someone whose son was murdered, very brutally, neither parent wanted the murderers to hang, the 2 convicted are out now, still with around 30 or 40 years of their lives left.

Hanging doesn't mean less murders or child abuse & many victims families don't want the death penalty.

Should the state demand a hanging but the family doesn't, whose "rights" would be respected?

On referendums, the last time we had one, it was hardly a success.

randomchap · 04/12/2025 07:19

Whyjustwhy83 · 04/12/2025 04:21

He'll be out in a few years, look how long that teen who did the same got 8 years I think. Is that really a sentence to fit these sort of crimes? He'll be out up at the tax payers expenses and out to do similar in the future I bet.

Which case was this?

Whyjustwhy83 · 04/12/2025 08:01

@randomchap 18yr old a few weeks back in this country Thomas waller. He was abusing kids in the bathroom and making videos

Didimum · 04/12/2025 08:04

HermioneWeasley · 03/12/2025 16:49

I don’t know. Where there’s no doubt (like Axel Rudakabana) I think we should have the death penalty

You convict someone with degrees of doubt. You convict or you don’t convict.

tuvamoodyson · 04/12/2025 08:05

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 03/12/2025 16:56

But he had the right to take away kids' innocence and screw them up for life, didn't he?

He very obviously didn’t have the right though, did he? He has been convicted and sent to prison.