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To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/12/2025 11:36

“Incredibly sadly, we will have to restrict our membership on the basis of biological sex from April next year,” Green said. “But the message we really want to get across is that it remains our firm belief that transgender women are women, and that doesn’t change.”

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

Tellingly - they still think women can have a penis.

Women’s Institute will no longer accept trans women as members from April

Exclusive: CEO says decision taken with ‘utmost regret and sadness’ after supreme court ruling on definition of a woman

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

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ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 22:56

It is just another Transman Gotchabot, isn't it?

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 23:00

S1ngS1ng · 06/12/2025 19:23

Oh don’t be ridiculous. WI meetings are held in town halls with an array of facilities as regards toilets. There is no reason to ban trans women from brownies, guides or any other social meeting.

There is - they're men!!!

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:01

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 22:53

I really, really have. Look at the posts. But on the off chance you're not being totally disingenuous...

Yes, transmen can join because they're women, no contradiction there. However, transmen who truly pass as men can legally be excluded because they will be perceived as men and their presence will cause the same distress, alarm and self exclusion as actual men. This is considered an acceptable cost as safeguards do sometimes filter out the wrong person as an inevitable consequence of filtering out the right people and it's the transmen's problem to solve, as they chose to make these excessive physical changes.

Ok? I don't know how to simplify it any further.

Yeah that's cool. I'm just curious and asking questions.
But, obviously that would be discrimination. How would that be fair? Are y'all going to fight for their rights? That wouldn't be going by the sex, but by the gender (although I think this movement thinks it's the same?)
From a bureaucratic point of view I would guess a birth certificate would need to be provided. I'm sure most people would be against physical examination.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

medievalpenny · 06/12/2025 23:02

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:01

Yeah that's cool. I'm just curious and asking questions.
But, obviously that would be discrimination. How would that be fair? Are y'all going to fight for their rights? That wouldn't be going by the sex, but by the gender (although I think this movement thinks it's the same?)
From a bureaucratic point of view I would guess a birth certificate would need to be provided. I'm sure most people would be against physical examination.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

"Y'all"?

medievalpenny · 06/12/2025 23:02

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 22:56

It is just another Transman Gotchabot, isn't it?

Yes.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 06/12/2025 23:06

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:01

Yeah that's cool. I'm just curious and asking questions.
But, obviously that would be discrimination. How would that be fair? Are y'all going to fight for their rights? That wouldn't be going by the sex, but by the gender (although I think this movement thinks it's the same?)
From a bureaucratic point of view I would guess a birth certificate would need to be provided. I'm sure most people would be against physical examination.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

What would be discrimination?

Is it just me or does anyone else have no idea what this poster is saying?

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 23:06

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:58

Oh good God, not again. How do so many of you spend time in these discussions and not see the same gotchas and answers 50000000 times?

Fine. According to the ruling, if a woman really does pass that convincingly as a man, she can legally be excluded from a single sex space. That's because she will be perceived as a man and cause the same distress, alarm and self exclusion as if she really were one. It's also an acceptable cost in maintaining single sex spaces. In all safeguards, you sometimes keep out the wrong person, but that's how it has to be to keep out the right people.

That does present a problem for the TM but that's their problem and their doctors and surgeons should ensure they are fully informed.

However, a woman needs to do much, much, much more than have short hair and no makeup to actually pass as a man.

If I had a pound for every time someone's done the Transman Gotcha and this had to be explained, I could buy the WI myself. Why don't you lot read the SC ruling? It's pretty good.

I'm also fed up with the 'how will 'butch' (horrible expression) lesbians be affected? They won't. They're women and many are members and would carry on being welcome.

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 23:07

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:01

Yeah that's cool. I'm just curious and asking questions.
But, obviously that would be discrimination. How would that be fair? Are y'all going to fight for their rights? That wouldn't be going by the sex, but by the gender (although I think this movement thinks it's the same?)
From a bureaucratic point of view I would guess a birth certificate would need to be provided. I'm sure most people would be against physical examination.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

The SC judgement specifically protected the rights of women who ID as trans by ensuring they are covered by maternity and pregnancy protections.

And the 'gender critical' movement bases thinking on sex, not gender. Gender is just arbitrary social constructs, or sex stereotypes.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 23:08

threescoops · 06/12/2025 21:10

I don’t. He’s an activist even though many women cut him slack for old granny vibes. He only transitioned a few years ago and was instantly made WI cover star and elevated to the membership committee. He has form for scaremongering that the puberty blocker ban would mean menopausal WI members would not be able to get their HRT. Don’t be taken in like so many other trans handmaidens who like to virtue signal by fawning over him. What about his poor wife?

She's stood by him.

No idea why.

But he's now doing a 'call to arms' for trans allies and the 'sisters' are falling over themselves to rally round and sign up

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 23:08

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:01

Yeah that's cool. I'm just curious and asking questions.
But, obviously that would be discrimination. How would that be fair? Are y'all going to fight for their rights? That wouldn't be going by the sex, but by the gender (although I think this movement thinks it's the same?)
From a bureaucratic point of view I would guess a birth certificate would need to be provided. I'm sure most people would be against physical examination.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

We've been fighting for all women's sex based rights for years and that includes transmen. If it makes you feel better, I've never known a transman who passes as a man so I think they're most unlikely to be excluded if they suddenly decide they want to join the WI despite claiming to be men.

This is the law as outlined by the SC. It makes perfect sense to me and it's in line with other safeguarding rules in other areas. If you want to make extreme physical changes, that will bring consequences and your doctors should ensure you know about these because they're a problem you created and you therefore have to solve.

The WI wants sex and gender to be the same but has finally conceded that they are not.

Respectfully, if you are being sincere in these posts then I'm not sure you follow the issue sufficiently to have a discussion. You apparently read my full post explaining the Transman Gotcha but didn't understand a word of it, you don't understand what's just happened with the WI regarding sex and gender and you don't understand that women's sex based rights include transmen.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 23:10

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 21:46

She can't turn back time.

😂

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 23:13

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 23:08

She's stood by him.

No idea why.

But he's now doing a 'call to arms' for trans allies and the 'sisters' are falling over themselves to rally round and sign up

When men enter a space, they do tend to take over.

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:22

Oh, honey. Bless your heart. As per the Cambridge dictionary.

To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?
ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:26

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 23:08

We've been fighting for all women's sex based rights for years and that includes transmen. If it makes you feel better, I've never known a transman who passes as a man so I think they're most unlikely to be excluded if they suddenly decide they want to join the WI despite claiming to be men.

This is the law as outlined by the SC. It makes perfect sense to me and it's in line with other safeguarding rules in other areas. If you want to make extreme physical changes, that will bring consequences and your doctors should ensure you know about these because they're a problem you created and you therefore have to solve.

The WI wants sex and gender to be the same but has finally conceded that they are not.

Respectfully, if you are being sincere in these posts then I'm not sure you follow the issue sufficiently to have a discussion. You apparently read my full post explaining the Transman Gotcha but didn't understand a word of it, you don't understand what's just happened with the WI regarding sex and gender and you don't understand that women's sex based rights include transmen.

I believe you’ve said that you would be cool with excluding transmen if they pass though. I would find that discriminatory as you would be basing the decision in gender, not sex.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

CassOle · 06/12/2025 23:32

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:22

Oh, honey. Bless your heart. As per the Cambridge dictionary.

I suspect that the question was not 'what does Y'all mean'? I think it was 'are you American?'

Going by your post after the dictionary reply, I would like to know if you have read the FWS Supreme Court clarification?

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 23:39

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:26

I believe you’ve said that you would be cool with excluding transmen if they pass though. I would find that discriminatory as you would be basing the decision in gender, not sex.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

I believe you’ve said that you would be cool with excluding transmen if they pass though.

That's the law. It's a consequence of safeguards. Sometimes you get the wrong person. A woman who has made every effort to look like a man will have to find a solution for when she is taken to be one.

You are just bringing up the Transman Gotcha again and again, and I'm done with pretending that I think you might be sincere. We don't want knobs in the ladies' and we have legal protections to prevent it. Deal with it.

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:43

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 23:39

I believe you’ve said that you would be cool with excluding transmen if they pass though.

That's the law. It's a consequence of safeguards. Sometimes you get the wrong person. A woman who has made every effort to look like a man will have to find a solution for when she is taken to be one.

You are just bringing up the Transman Gotcha again and again, and I'm done with pretending that I think you might be sincere. We don't want knobs in the ladies' and we have legal protections to prevent it. Deal with it.

So you would throw them under the bus I see. No explanation needed, just excuses. Fair enough I guess.

5128gap · 06/12/2025 23:43

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:26

I believe you’ve said that you would be cool with excluding transmen if they pass though. I would find that discriminatory as you would be basing the decision in gender, not sex.
Plus what would be the passing metrics?

No, the decision would be based on her appearance not her 'gender'. The passing TM isn't excluded because all of a sudden her 'gender' takes precedence over her sex and people accept she IS a man. It's simply that if she's made herself convincingly look like a man, women might be uncomfortable/distressed around her.

CassOle · 06/12/2025 23:50

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:43

So you would throw them under the bus I see. No explanation needed, just excuses. Fair enough I guess.

So, you've not read the judgement yourself then?

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:52

5128gap · 06/12/2025 23:43

No, the decision would be based on her appearance not her 'gender'. The passing TM isn't excluded because all of a sudden her 'gender' takes precedence over her sex and people accept she IS a man. It's simply that if she's made herself convincingly look like a man, women might be uncomfortable/distressed around her.

But according to law, they would need to be treated according to the sex assigned at birth. So basing the rejection on visuals (since you don’t want to call it gender) would be discriminatory. I think it’s a logic conclusion.

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:53

CassOle · 06/12/2025 23:50

So, you've not read the judgement yourself then?

Have you?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 06/12/2025 23:58

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:43

So you would throw them under the bus I see. No explanation needed, just excuses. Fair enough I guess.

A woman who has taken such extreme steps to be deemed indistinguishable from a man has thrown herself under the bus. But in fairness, such a woman is also likely to understand that her presence in a female single sex space is likely to cause distress to other woman and therefore would have the decency to self exclude.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 06/12/2025 23:59

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 23:52

But according to law, they would need to be treated according to the sex assigned at birth. So basing the rejection on visuals (since you don’t want to call it gender) would be discriminatory. I think it’s a logic conclusion.

You definitely have not read the judgement. Come back when you have.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 00:06

The relevant passage :

To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?
SternJoyousBeev2 · 07/12/2025 00:08

Oh and sex is not assigned at birth. It is determined at conception and observed at birth.

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