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Girl Guides are now GIRL ONLY!

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Iamwhoiamwhoareyou · 02/12/2025 14:41

Following April's supreme court ruling, the Girl Guides have FINALLY made a statement and will remain GIRLS ONLY - Finally closing the door on admitting trans members or allowing BOYS to invade female only spaces/camp (which, would be done without informing parents that their daughter would be sharing a room with a biological male!) - I have a previous post in feminism chat for anyone wanting to read the previous thread on this

EMAIL RECEIVED HOT OFF THE PRESS 5 MIN AGO -

As the parent of a young member in Girlguiding, following April’s Supreme Court decision relating to sex and gender, we wanted to give you an update. Many organisations across the country have been facing complex decisions about what it means for girls and women and for the wider communities affected, including us.

Girlguiding’s governing charity documents set out that the membership and people who benefit from our organisation are girls and women. In April, the Supreme Court ruled that girls and women are defined in the Equality Act 2010 by their biological sex at birth.
Following detailed considerations, expert legal advice and input from senior members, young members and our Council, Girlguiding’s Board of Trustees has made the difficult decision that Girlguiding must change Girlguiding must change, following the Supreme Court’s ruling.

From today, 2 December, it is with a heavy heart that we are announcing trans girls and young women will no longer be able to join Girlguiding. This is a decision we would have preferred not to make, and we know that this may be upsetting for members of our community.

There will be no immediate changes for current young members but more information will be shared next week.

Most adult roles, including unit helpers, district helpers and administrative support, are already open to all, so we are confident that no volunteers will have to leave the organisation.

Girlguiding believes strongly in our value of inclusion, and we will continue to support young people and adults in marginalised groups. Over the next few months, we'll explore opportunities to champion this value and actively support young people who need us.

You can find our full statement and updated policy on our website.

We are proud to be the UK’s largest youth organisation dedicated to girls and is focused on creating an equal world for girls and young women. For over 100 years, we have been a welcoming space for all girls to have new experiences, support their communities, build friendships and grow their confidence.

While Girlguiding may feel a little different going forward, these core aims and principles will always be the same. We remain committed to treating everyone with dignity and respect, particularly those from marginalised groups that have felt the biggest impact of this decision.

If you have any immediate questions, we have our special support team in place, to give volunteers, parents and carers the best support we can. We are asking Girlguiding HQ, trading and country/region staff to refer any volunteer or parent who has questions about this announcement. Details below.

Contact [email protected] or 020 7532 3970
All calls/emails will be confidential, and the service will be open 24hrs, 7 days a week.
Find out more, including how this team will handle personal data.

Denise Wilson (Chair of Trustees), Felicity Oswald (CEO) and Tracy Foster (Chief Guide)

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dahliadream · 02/12/2025 20:51

medievalpenny · 02/12/2025 20:49

"If only you all knew a trans person like me, you would have much more enlightened views like mine." It's disrespectful.

You keep making massive unfounded assumptions and I have to wonder why.

Truly that's not why I said it - it's just that my views are very different to the majority on here, and they will be completely shaped by growing up alongside trans people. That's not something I can or want to deny. I don't believe that I am more enlightened than anyone else on here, but I have been surprised to find my views quite so out of kilter (for better or worse). It's just a difference of opinion isn't it, and opinions are shaped by our lived experience.

Lovelyview · 02/12/2025 20:51

ThatBlackCat · 02/12/2025 20:41

How can you know why females don't volunteer? It never dawned on you that women didn't volunteer because they didn't agree with GG including boys? You really truly cannot conceive of that? Because I would never volunteer for them. Because I would not want to support an organisation that shows such disregard for the needs and rights of girls.

There have been several contributers on Mumsnet over the past few years who have said they have left/been pushed out of GG over their gender critical views or that if they ever had to accept a boy in their troop they would leave. One of the key facets of transgenderism is that trans rights activists are so obnoxious people often just self exclude rather than expose themselves to accusations of bigotry and transphobia for having the perfectly sane believe that you can't change sex and your sex matters in certain situations.

SwirlyGates · 02/12/2025 20:52

Thulpelly · 02/12/2025 20:40

I’m sorry but I think it’s awful.

It doesn’t affect adult unit leaders/volunteers because that is open to all. It only affects the young members, who are going to have to leave.

It affects the young GIRLS, who now have their single-sex group back.

ThatBlackCat · 02/12/2025 20:52

justpassmethemouse · 02/12/2025 17:02

It’s still sad, no matter how small the minority. Every little piece of trans exclusion & non binary exclusion is sad.

There is no such thing as 'trans exclusion' ( and 'non binary' is not even a thing). It is MALE exclusion from a FEMALE ONLY space.

Putting a 'trans' label on males does not give them a loophole to access female only spaces.

It's sad that you centre males so much that you don't care about the needs and rights of the female sex.

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2025 20:52

@dahliadream You say that MtF trans people are no longer male? What do you think they are then?

Helleofabore · 02/12/2025 20:52

Thinkingaloud85 · 02/12/2025 20:25

Scouts accept girls now, so I really think guides should accept boys.
Single-sex clubs are regressive imo.
And it means the whole gender debate can be side-stepped, and children aren't forced to choose hobbies and friendship groups based on sex.

GG exists not only to provide a male excluded space for female children, who may not be in spaces with male people for many reasons, including abuse by male people.

Female people have not achieved equality either. They still experience negative sex discrimination. So why would anyone remove a programme that was developed to provide female people with opportunities that they don’t have to compete with male people for when there are reasons those male people might get chosen that show that pattern of sex discrimination? And why remove a programme in this time of exceedingly high male child on female child abuse, sometimes driven by pornography, when female children want to have spaces away from male people?

JayJayEl · 02/12/2025 20:52

honeyytoast · 02/12/2025 20:50

I would have thought that if anything, the adult volunteers should be subject to this more than the kids?

Hear, hear!

All this talk of BOYS being a danger, yet no one has mentioned the (much more likely) danger of MEN volunteering at the groups!!!

Throckmorton · 02/12/2025 20:54

JayJayEl · 02/12/2025 20:52

Hear, hear!

All this talk of BOYS being a danger, yet no one has mentioned the (much more likely) danger of MEN volunteering at the groups!!!

Edited

It's been mentioned and discussed quite a bit up thread

CautiousLurker2 · 02/12/2025 20:54

@Thulpelly don’t you feel it’s really awful that young muslim girls would excluded from joining these groups due to boys taking part? Or is it just little boys you care about? Do girls not matter, no matter how much they deserve space away from their homes, a space in which to explore what being a girl might mean in wider society?

ThatBlackCat · 02/12/2025 20:54

JayJayEl · 02/12/2025 20:52

Hear, hear!

All this talk of BOYS being a danger, yet no one has mentioned the (much more likely) danger of MEN volunteering at the groups!!!

Edited

Again, it's not the adult men who are sleeping in with the girls. It's the boys (trans identified boys). Hence the difference.

medievalpenny · 02/12/2025 20:55

honeyytoast · 02/12/2025 20:50

I would have thought that if anything, the adult volunteers should be subject to this more than the kids?

In terms of the statement that they don't expect any adult volunteers to have to leave, I think what they are alluding to is the fact that certain volunteer roles are already open to men as well as women. So volunteers wouldn't have to leave altogether but they may have to change roles.

ThatCyanCat · 02/12/2025 20:56

dahliadream · 02/12/2025 20:51

Truly that's not why I said it - it's just that my views are very different to the majority on here, and they will be completely shaped by growing up alongside trans people. That's not something I can or want to deny. I don't believe that I am more enlightened than anyone else on here, but I have been surprised to find my views quite so out of kilter (for better or worse). It's just a difference of opinion isn't it, and opinions are shaped by our lived experience.

You are free to pretend that your loved ones are the opposite sex. You cannot demand that other people make the same pretence.

I know a few trans people. One is a complete arsehole for reasons entirely unrelated to being trans. The others are all very nice. I like them. But in every case it is embarrassingly obvious which sex they are. There's just nothing to differentiate them from other members of their sex. I'm sorry that they aren't what they want to be but that's how it is and they have the same rights as everyone else.

ThatBlackCat · 02/12/2025 20:56

justpassmethemouse · 02/12/2025 17:03

But it’s not boys they’re excluding, it’s trans girls.

'Trans girls' ARE boys. They are fully intact boys with penis and testicles. What is it about that, that you don't understand?

Or are you confusing trans girls (males with penis and testicles) with trans boys (female with female organs and anatomy)?

SwirlyGates · 02/12/2025 20:56

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2025 20:28

I disagree.

When I was in the Brownies, Christmas and Hallowe'en parties were often held with the Boy Scouts who used the same hall as us (but on another day of the week).

It changed the entire dynamic. (I recall that we thought that the Scout Leaders - all male - were a bit idiotic, never mind the boy scouts.)

When we went to secondary school open days for our kids, one of the schools had signs up in the classroom, along the lines of, "Boys, you can be thoughtful and caring!" and "Girls, don't be afraid to speak up in class!" They obviously had a problem with boys dominating the classroom.

user1471538275 · 02/12/2025 20:57

Definitely have mentioned the issue of men in girl guides in my posts.

The most important issue being that parents are aware that there are men in girl guides, rather than being lied to that they are actually women.

Not all positions in GG are open to men.

Helleofabore · 02/12/2025 20:58

dahliadream · 02/12/2025 20:30

I'm not trans so I can only imagine how it must feel, but I expect that as a trans girl or woman you'd feel that you'd really missed out on your 'girlhood' as such, and would really love to be part of a supportive, nurturing community of girls and women. Not sure that something mixed sex like Scouts would fit that bill.

No male person has a ‘girlhood’.

They might reject their ‘boyhood’ but that doesn’t give them a ‘girlhood’. Their version of ‘girlhood’ will be nothing like a female child’s experience at all.

There is no way possible for any male person to experience ‘girlhood’. Why do you spread such misinformation?

Thinkingaloud85 · 02/12/2025 20:59

user1471538275 · 02/12/2025 20:45

I don't really care that people think single sex provision is regressive.

By that reasoning progress is defined by all mixed sex provision - mixed sex sports, mixed sex prison, mixed sex hospital provision

Hmmm... let's think - which particular group will benefit from that and which group will lose out

I don't agree that progress is increasing provision to already powerful groups

How would mixed sex maternity and gynaecology work? Would men just barge in and say 'I think I'm pregnant' and the midwives just ignore the women giving birth to worship at this miracle?

Sport is different because it is physically competitive. Prisons similarly so because it is a physically violent place. Healthcare in some instances segragates by sex for reasons of privacy and dignity.

In other areas of life though, boys and girls should be considered equal, treated equally and have access to the same opportunities. They need to get to know each other, become friends with one another and not treat each other like another species.

Otherwise, you will end up with a segregated society, where men and women are strangers to each other. Like Afghanistan.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 02/12/2025 20:59

dahliadream · 02/12/2025 20:51

Truly that's not why I said it - it's just that my views are very different to the majority on here, and they will be completely shaped by growing up alongside trans people. That's not something I can or want to deny. I don't believe that I am more enlightened than anyone else on here, but I have been surprised to find my views quite so out of kilter (for better or worse). It's just a difference of opinion isn't it, and opinions are shaped by our lived experience.

Sex being binary and immutable in humans is not an opinion. It is fact.

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2025 21:00

JayJayEl · 02/12/2025 20:52

Hear, hear!

All this talk of BOYS being a danger, yet no one has mentioned the (much more likely) danger of MEN volunteering at the groups!!!

Edited

I think that it's been touched on?

I'd expect Brown Owls and Guide leaders, etc to be women. There's been previous discussion on these boards about how problematic it is that trans identified men have applied to be Guide leaders etc, given the need to supervise girls whilst camping etc.

I'm no longer involved in Guiding, so I can't comment on what role men currently play though it's not unusual for men to be brought in as outside speakers, drivers or interpreters. They wouldn't be allowed anywhere near accommodation.

JudgeJ · 02/12/2025 21:00

TappaMcFeety · 02/12/2025 14:51

‘With a heavy heart’ PFT!

How did this madness ever happen in the first place - brilliant news!

This happened in the first place because it was a trendy bandwagon onto which all the 'right on' people jumped, another divisive bandwagon will be along shortly.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 02/12/2025 21:01

dahliadream · 02/12/2025 20:42

So I don't believe they are still male, which is where our point of difference is. I'm speaking as someone with trans family members which is perhaps why my views opposed many of those here.

So you think they have actually literally changed sex then?

Or are you just subscribing to a "polite" fiction which happens to take away from women and girls, while offering them up as emotional support NPCs for men and boys?

That's "be kind" but only to the males of the species, which isn't actually kind at all is it?

In fact it's pretty sexist wouldn't you say, when you really think about it, isn't it?

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2025 21:01

SwirlyGates · 02/12/2025 20:56

When we went to secondary school open days for our kids, one of the schools had signs up in the classroom, along the lines of, "Boys, you can be thoughtful and caring!" and "Girls, don't be afraid to speak up in class!" They obviously had a problem with boys dominating the classroom.

Yup. That was what happened at our joint events - the boys tried to take over. (Ditto the Scout leaders.)

Throckmorton · 02/12/2025 21:02

Thinkingaloud85 · 02/12/2025 20:59

Sport is different because it is physically competitive. Prisons similarly so because it is a physically violent place. Healthcare in some instances segragates by sex for reasons of privacy and dignity.

In other areas of life though, boys and girls should be considered equal, treated equally and have access to the same opportunities. They need to get to know each other, become friends with one another and not treat each other like another species.

Otherwise, you will end up with a segregated society, where men and women are strangers to each other. Like Afghanistan.

Oh COME on - having single sex spaces means we risk becoming like a Taliban-led state?!

SternJoyousBeev2 · 02/12/2025 21:02

Single sex organisation. Relying on legal sex discrmation. No boys allowed, even the perfectly lovely ones.

Scout2016 · 02/12/2025 21:03

Where's the apology for being wrong for so long and wanting to use girls as props to facilitate boys' falsehoods?

This should read "sorry, what we did was wrong. We are even more sorry that we have 100% known it was wrong since April and stalled. Sorry to all the girls who just wanted to do activities with and spend time amongst other girls and were not only denied that but made to participate in perpetuating a delusion.

Sorry also to all the owls and volunteers who were put in an appalling position."

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