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Would you be happy to receive a Christmas cookie box as a gift?

197 replies

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 21:51

I’m planning on making Christmas cookie boxes for friends and family this year in place of plastic tat as gifts. I’m planning for them to include:

• homemade digestives (chocolate)
• chocolate salami (like a rocky road in a log)
• snickerdoodles
• lemon biscotti (nut free)
• triple chocolate peppermint cookies
• vanilla bean shortbread
• chocolate cookies
• stained glass window biscuits

would you be happy to receive these?

OP posts:
Pavementworrier · 02/12/2025 00:08

singmoon · 01/12/2025 23:33

Funny, I find highly processed biscuits etc a bit disgusting, but lovely homemade biscuits delightful

Homemade food is still processed

Just with more dubious hygiene

ExperiencedContractor · 02/12/2025 00:09

Personal preference isn’t it - personally I wouldn’t want this, but I’d politely thank you profusely and tell you they were delicious even if they didn’t get eaten, which they likely wouldn’t.
There’s already so much food consumed with the celebratory meals and subsequent leftovers that biscuits or extra sweet treats are of no interest to me.
There’s a whole spectrum between homemade cookies and plastic tat!

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:10

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 21:51

I’m planning on making Christmas cookie boxes for friends and family this year in place of plastic tat as gifts. I’m planning for them to include:

• homemade digestives (chocolate)
• chocolate salami (like a rocky road in a log)
• snickerdoodles
• lemon biscotti (nut free)
• triple chocolate peppermint cookies
• vanilla bean shortbread
• chocolate cookies
• stained glass window biscuits

would you be happy to receive these?

Absolutely!

Could you use a new friend??

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:11

PersephoneParlormaid · 01/12/2025 21:54

Personally no, as we get given a hamper every year so that, along with yours would be too much.

You don't have to eat it all on the same day!!

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:12

analysetheintelligence · 01/12/2025 21:55

I’d hate it and chuck it, I don’t see why it’s a binary choice between plastic tat and homemade?

Why would you chuck it?

if you don't eat biscuits why wouldn't you give it to someone that does?

Doingtheboxerbeat · 02/12/2025 00:14

I've never wanted to be friends with a Mumsnetter so much 😭 absolutely yes to this.

StruggleFlourish · 02/12/2025 00:15

OP, your idea of a Christmas gift for your friends and family sounds lovely. And what a lot of work! I think you've chosen a nice variety and that most people would be really thrilled to receive a gift like this.
Personally, I wouldn't, I would be so touched by the thought and I would be very aware of the amount of time / effort / skill/money that goes into creating a gift like this but I really don't like sweets... However, I could always share them with friends and family when they come over, and that's what I would do. So it wouldn't be a waste, I'd probably try half of each one of the different flavors just so I can say that I tried them but I wouldn't enjoy them myself, that having been said, I love baking for other people when I know that they enjoy it.

StruggleFlourish · 02/12/2025 00:17

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:12

Why would you chuck it?

if you don't eat biscuits why wouldn't you give it to someone that does?

Yeah, talk about making a binary choice.
"Eat it all myself.
Or
Chuck it."
There is no other choice.
😜

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:21

CheezePleeze · 01/12/2025 22:28

My colleague brought in a lovely homemade cake once and as I sat there eating it, I internally tutted at the dog hair stuck to the icing.

Then I remembered she doesn't have a dog and I have two! 🤭🤣

I think it'd come off my jumper.

🤣🤣🤣

socialdilemmawhattodo · 02/12/2025 00:22

Doingtheboxerbeat · 02/12/2025 00:14

I've never wanted to be friends with a Mumsnetter so much 😭 absolutely yes to this.

You haven't? What's wrong with you? We are lovely, yes argumentative, unreasonable, funny, articulate, love a drink BrewGinGinWineWine. We care about our gardens, pets, children, gender-critical rights, but so much more! I've only occasionally met mumsnetters in real life, but we laughed, a lot.

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:26

gannett · 01/12/2025 22:32

I wonder what it's like to have the kind of brain that automatically goes to hygiene horror when presented with homemade food. So glad I don't have one like that.

Hang around on MN long enough & you'll get one!

I can no longer buy things at school fairs or home made from markets anymore reading about other people's hygiene (or lack of!!)

but all of my friends/family are fine.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 02/12/2025 00:27

BauhausOfEliott · 01/12/2025 23:35

Yes, I might not be mad keen on eating something made by a total stranger, but if I know someone well enough to exchange Christmas presents with them, I’m going to know they’re not the sort of person who keeps old newspapers in the bathtub and hoards their own turds in Tupperware or leaves dirty nappies on the worktops.

OP, you’re getting some quite joyless responses on here from the ‘Ooh no, I never eat sugar’ and ‘We couldn’t possibly eat a biscuit at Christmas, we’ll already have shared a whole mince pie between us so we’ll all be stuffed’ brigade. I would be delighted if a mate made up a box of homemade biscuits for me as a Christmas present. And most homemade biscuits keep
pretty well in an airtight tin.

Its not joyless, some of us genuinely prefer savoury to sweet. We were asked by OP what WE thought. I shared honestly. Now if she had been discussing home-made houmous, crackers and a cheese board trust me my hand would have been up first!

Itiswhysofew · 02/12/2025 00:32

Yes please. I'm so tired of hunting around, trying to think of appropriate gifts. A cookie box would be heaven 😍

InterestedDad37 · 02/12/2025 00:34

I'd love it 😊😋
My address is.... 😀

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:37

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 23:06

I may end up just keeping them all for myself and eating them all 😁

I'll PM my address to you, just to save you from yourself you understand!!

in all seriousness I don't understand why you posted? You know your friends/family enjoy your baking, why ask randoms on the internet??

AutumnLeavesFallingFast · 02/12/2025 00:39

OneReasonWhy · 01/12/2025 23:09

No, but I am on a low sugar diet, even at Christmas, so they’d just get binned which is a waste.

Edited

Why not give them to someone else who can eat them??

pizzaHeart · 02/12/2025 00:39

I wouldn’t like it as a gift for me. I do baking myself and have a lot of things at Christmas plus I don’t like most of your listed items.
I wouldn’t mind you bringing them with you so we could have a cup of tea but I wouldn’t consider it as a personal Christmas present.
I would be ok without a present. I agree with PPs that there is happy medium between homemade biscuits and plastic tat, at least in my case there are plenty options.

If it’s because you were short of money I would be fine with just a card and it could be homemade.

Cat1504 · 02/12/2025 01:07

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 21:56

I just think that between the normal useless shite you get at this time of year and something I’m passionate about, I’d rather gift people something nice and tasty! Out of interest why would you hate it?

I would say thank you very much then bin it….I eat my mums baking and my DDs …..no one else’s

caringcarer · 02/12/2025 01:09

It's a lot of biscuits to receive in one go if actually prefer to receive biscuits every month for the year instead of so many at once.

IcyPuddles · 02/12/2025 01:58

Honestly, if you don’t want to get me plastic tat, I’d rather you just buy me a really nice box of biscuits, rather than homemade.

skippy67 · 02/12/2025 02:46

I'd accept it with a smile, then either give it away or bin it. I don't like home made gifts. Especially food ones.

CurlewKate · 02/12/2025 04:46

It’s a lovely idea and most people would be absolutely delighted. But Mumsnet is not a good place to ask this. I haven’t read the thread, but here’s my bingo card.
I only eat 1 biscuit a year-they’ll go to waste.
Home made? If you can’t afford a proper present don’t give anything.Fortnum and Masons sell delicious tins of biscuits.
I only eat food made in a sterile lab-anything else is too dangerous-they’d go straight in the bin.
It’s a bit show-offy, isn’t it? Not everyone has the time or the skill to do something like this.
Are you suggesting I’m fat?

CheeseIsMyIdol · 02/12/2025 05:19

Don’t people have freezers? They won’t go to waste if stored there.

CheeseIsMyIdol · 02/12/2025 05:21

Sounds nice but I’d include something not terribly sweet like spice or ginger. I’d cut the chocolate offerings as chocolate is plentiful at holidays.

Mothership4two · 02/12/2025 05:40

TBH I wouldn't really as we aren't really a biscuit household and I am sure most would end up in the bin. But if you know you are giving to people with sweet tooths then go for it

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