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Would you be happy to receive a Christmas cookie box as a gift?

197 replies

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 21:51

I’m planning on making Christmas cookie boxes for friends and family this year in place of plastic tat as gifts. I’m planning for them to include:

• homemade digestives (chocolate)
• chocolate salami (like a rocky road in a log)
• snickerdoodles
• lemon biscotti (nut free)
• triple chocolate peppermint cookies
• vanilla bean shortbread
• chocolate cookies
• stained glass window biscuits

would you be happy to receive these?

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PeachRings · 01/12/2025 22:36

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 01/12/2025 22:34

Sounds lovely but I would personally cut down on the number of different flavours as it will take you forever. Also if you are putting in same box, the flavours might end up rubbing off on each other and being a bit weird.

I’m planning a good couple of weekends of baking, I have some birthday cakes to make anyway in the next couple of weeks. And I use bags to keep them all apart!

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Ponderingwindow · 01/12/2025 22:36

If I don’t have allergies, the answer would be yes. However, I wouldn’t be able to keep anything in the box because of cross contamination so I would just feel bad.

I would just thank you though because we likely don’t have the kind of relationship where I can explain the problem without it being awkward.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 01/12/2025 22:38

Not for me, but i dont have a sweet tooth. But you must be a competent baker to even think of attempting this, so people who do like cookies would probably love it.

mondaytosunday · 01/12/2025 22:38

Ooo yes I’m all fur anything homemade! I used to have an apple tree and would make Christmas chutney and chilli apple jelly as gifts.
Some of your list I’d not like (the chocolate salami and triple chocolate peppermint) but I think with home baked/made gifts it really is the thought and effort that counts and would appreciate anything.

Branster · 01/12/2025 22:39

Yes please OP. Shall I drop off an empty tin to save you individual wrapping?
Not only I would enjoy eating (savouring) the biscuits but I am fully aware how much effort it takes to produce such a gift. And home baking is not a cheap hobby anymore. I would be very impressed and appreciative.
There is a small Italian deli I visit once a year to buy these amazing biscuits they sell. They make beautiful unexpected presents. I have to re-distribute quite quickly otherwise we'd eat them all ourselves.

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 22:39

socialdilemmawhattodo · 01/12/2025 22:38

Not for me, but i dont have a sweet tooth. But you must be a competent baker to even think of attempting this, so people who do like cookies would probably love it.

I’m very much the family baker. I’m working on Christmas Eve this year so no Christmas dessert from me, which is why I’m bringing back my cookies 😂

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willstarttomorrow · 01/12/2025 22:43

Sorry, no. I appreciate it is a lot of effort (and expensive ingredients) but there is a lot there that would just not get eaten so is as wasteful as generic christmas gifts (that could at least be donated). No offense to you OP, but lots of people I know do similar. It is not about the recipient at all, more about what the giver has decided should be appreciated.

FreyjaOfTheNorth · 01/12/2025 22:44

Meh. I’d be happy to receive home-baked goods for Christmas and I’m a very competent baker. So I would expect something a little more exciting than these flavors. Something that requires a bit more effort than snickerdoodles or chocolate chip cookies if it’s a gift. These are very “every day” cookies. At least where I live (not the UK) they are.

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 22:47

it's sad that normally the gifts you receive are "the normal useless shite" @PeachRings

FunMustard · 01/12/2025 22:48

I would be totally happy with that, but we don't tend to do presents at all for anyone outside of family, with whom we do a Secret Santa, so I'd be embarrassed as I wouldn't have anything to give to you.

CheezePleeze · 01/12/2025 22:48

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 22:47

it's sad that normally the gifts you receive are "the normal useless shite" @PeachRings

Stick around for the post Christmas day threads and you'll be blubbing your eyes out! 👀🤣

Randomlygeneratedname · 01/12/2025 22:48

I think it's a lovely idea but I wouldn't like it/would rather just meet for a coffee or something. I can't eat a lot of sugar as it makes me really poorly, problem is I bloody love the stuff so try to not have it in the house to avoid giving in. At Christmas, this house is loaded with savoury snack/treats but no chocolate/fancy biscuits. My kids moan but I developed this sugar intolerance whilst pregnant with my first and got worse with my second (then never went away) so they really only have themselves to blame.

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 22:48

Alicorn1707 · 01/12/2025 22:47

it's sad that normally the gifts you receive are "the normal useless shite" @PeachRings

I just think amongst adults especially when there are children in the family it ends up being a lot of gift sets and stuff! I’d rather gift something like this than a gift set or anything like that

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FastTurtle · 01/12/2025 22:50

No they would be wasted on my family, I’m not mad on home made stuff or stuff in general.

hulahooper2 · 01/12/2025 22:51

not for me sorry , I’m always wary of people’s hygiene making home made goods , especially after seeing a cat on someone’s worktop

Poonu · 01/12/2025 22:51

Honestly no. It seems like something you would give with a present.

Lifeispeacefulthere · 01/12/2025 22:57

Is say thanks but no, we really don't need extra food at Christmas on top of what we get in and it sounds like they would go off quite quickly. Why not agree not to do gifts, that's the best gift of all I think! Pressure off, no unwanted anything. Perfect.

CatBilledDuckypuss · 01/12/2025 23:01

Best present ever was home made cookies wrapped securely in foil and posted to us. I'd never had something like it before and it'll always go down well with us. I'm saddened that someone said they'd chuck it - I certainly wouldn't want to send to anyone I hadn't checked with before, because what a waste.

TheWytch · 01/12/2025 23:01

My household would love it.

In return you'd get a box of my handmade chocolate truffles

Throneofgame · 01/12/2025 23:02

Colinorpercy · 01/12/2025 21:56

Absolutely! although the only thing I wonder is if I’d get to eat them all before they went past their best as it sounds a lot! Depends how many it’s to feed though I suppose (I have a small family!).

Everything listed can be frozen then defrosted and heated when they're ready to be eaten.

steff13 · 01/12/2025 23:04

I'm happy when anyone cares about me enough to get me a gift. And I would rather not have more things sitting around my house.

Throneofgame · 01/12/2025 23:05

Roundaboot · 01/12/2025 22:15

Yeah, same. We have so much food over the festive period and are also out visiting family and friends and eating out, I just don't think they'd get eaten while still fresh.
I'd love something homemade with a longer shelf life though. Things like pickles, chutneys and jams are always appreciated

Don't you own a freezer? Everything OP has listed can be put in the freezer to be defrosted when you're ready to eat them.

Pavementworrier · 01/12/2025 23:05

I find homemade a bit disgusting tbh (esp chocolate truffles shudder)

PeachRings · 01/12/2025 23:06

Throneofgame · 01/12/2025 23:02

Everything listed can be frozen then defrosted and heated when they're ready to be eaten.

I may end up just keeping them all for myself and eating them all 😁

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rainbowsparkle28 · 01/12/2025 23:07

No I wouldn’t but if they were gluten free coeliac suitable oh my gosh absolutely yes 😂