Shitty note from new Neighbours after moving in

[Laylamum2]

We moved house on Friday - have had a hectic few days trying to sort things and have this week off work thankfully.

There is one bathroom in the house and this is upstairs at the front of the house which faces our driveway. Next to the driveway is a neighbours house directly opposite.

The seller has taken all blinds out of the property as is their right and we’ve spent today putting some new ones up, including in the bathroom.

Yesterday, a note got put through our door:

”Get blinds for your bathroom, we don’t want to see you having a shit”

The window is frosted but I assume at night with the light on you can see in.

This was obviously from our neighbours opposite. AIBU to say they went about this in a rude way? They could have sent a politer note or knocked on the door.

To be honest, I'd be glad someone had told me.

Love this, best response so far.

Do you have a cat who could park a turd when then are looking out the window?

How awful. Sorry this has been one of your earliest impressions of your new neighbours. Obviously you’ll be putting blinds up when you get a chance, but if the window is frosted it hardly matters. Ignore. I’d do this room last, after this, just so they feel ignored.

Glad I’m not the only one who immediately though sticking a picture of a giant turd in the window was the way to go 🫣😂🤷‍♀️

I can tell you that frosted glass in a bathroom at night does NOTHING to stop you seeing the horrendous sight of the naked neighbour getting out of the shower and wiping his arse etc! 🤢🤮😂

I’d be temped to stick a note back through their door with one word on it …”pervert”

Maybe it was a random passer-by instead of your neighbour?

Get new blinds - personalised with a photo of you sat on the loo on them

absolute twats chuck it in the bin and blank them you don’t want anything to fo with nutters like that.

The OP has put blinds up.

It is literally in the OP.

The seller has taken all blinds out of the property as is their right and we’ve spent today putting some new ones up, including in the bathroom.

Yesterday, a note got put through our door:

”Get blinds for your bathroom, we don’t want to see you having a shit”

I agree with you, but apparently there's no fun in that.

Of course ignore the note

or

Pop a shit in a box and leave it on their doorstep.

In spite of my previous post I wouldn't go making enemies yet. Who do you think posted the note through your letterbox? My guess isn't your neighbour opposite, but someone who hates your neighbour opposite.

Don't become some Troll's tool.

Tell them you have mirrors on your windows to reflect the sun out and they're actually watching themselves shit.

On the bright side, they’ve shown you who they are, so at least you know nice and early that they’re colossal bell ends.

I do like that wifi idea. 😆

Oh, and I'd be taking that as a green light to take your sweet time putting that new blind up.

@StarShapedWindow You two would either be great mates or arch enemies 🤣🤣

I think they were joking 😊

Ignore it, it's completely unreasonable - you are entitled to do bathroom stuff in your bathroom with or without blinds. Why are they watching your bathroom - if I saw someone doing bathroom stuff in a bathroom without a blind, I would avert my gaze as any normal person would! Just be cheery when you see them and move on.

Agree.

Please do this!!

2 mins later and I’m still laughing at this. Hilarious!

I would think they are real arseholes, but bear in mind that people can change/could be going through something and behaving uncharacteristically. Before we moved into our house we were having some trees cut down and needed to move our car briefly into the driveway opposite to let the equipment come through. Our first introduction to the neighbour was him shouting at us that we should get out of his driveway. We have since all become good friends and it transpires that he was having a very bad day that day, his girlfriend had left him and he had been drinking all night. He's a sweetie really.

That is probably not the case here though!

I've found one with a line: "he sees you when you're pooping" and you can fill in the rest.