Help. Pregnant 40 and can't decide if I should keep or not

[Fluff85]

I have just found out I am pregnant at 40, we already have a beautiful 2.5 boy who took a long time to have with many miscarriages. We feel we don't want to roll the dice and risk all the complications possible risks with a second and feel we are lucky and happy with one. Not sure what to do, any advice welcome.

Sorry the above post was for @TheSwarm

I'm not saying you don't get to have an opinion, but emotionally blackmailing the OP on a thread like this with dubious comments about cells having thoughts and feelings is not the place to do it.

Emotional blackmail is a specific, harmful dynamic where fear, obligation, and guilt (FOG) are used to manipulate others into doing things, often with threat of "consequences" if they don't. This is just discomfort on your part and that's not my problem.