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To think all schools should teach children the old traditional hymns

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Staringintothevoid616 · 23/11/2025 13:44

Just switching between channels and Songs of Praise came on. It was a run down of the most popular school hymns.complete with recorders It brought back many memories and how important communal singing is. It doesn’t matter what your religion is, everyone should know the most popular hymns as a way of uniting society.

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Finity · 24/11/2025 20:56

Mrsmch123 · 24/11/2025 20:47

Nope. My kid doesn't need Jesus in his life.

You won’t always get to decide that for him. Just saying.

Yourlifeinyourhands · 24/11/2025 20:57

Hmm not sure I agree with this given some of the lyrics!

Volpini · 24/11/2025 21:02

Havent RTFT but my daughter attends a culturally diverse grammar school and at the school Christmas concert the audience (parents) are invited to join in and sing carols. More than 60% of those in attendance practice other religions - they understandably look baffled to be asked to sing carols and mostly dont join in. I find it embarrassing - it’s borderline offensive. Every year I dread it and hope they don’t do it.
Singing hymns in schools in 2025 Britain is completely inappropriate and divisive. If people want to sing religious songs and pass on that legacy to their kids, they should attend the appropriate place of worship with them and sing them there.
(I say this as someone confirmed in a CofE church with 2 kids who have been choristers!)

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:05

Catwench · 24/11/2025 20:51

I have seen multiple social media posts and memes referring to belting out Jesus bangers in assembly and all sorts.

I've gone looking for, and have found, some posts of that nature, and I wouldnt necessarily read them as being insincere.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 24/11/2025 21:06

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 20:53

At the service I attended this year we sang Abide With Me and I Vow to Thee My Country.

Was the service full of people desperately shuffling from foot to foot and looking at the floor mumbling "shite, if only I'd learned the words to these in school", or was there some sort of song sheet thing with the lyrics on?

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 21:15

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 24/11/2025 21:06

Was the service full of people desperately shuffling from foot to foot and looking at the floor mumbling "shite, if only I'd learned the words to these in school", or was there some sort of song sheet thing with the lyrics on?

😂It was all right there in a hymn book so even the poor, school-hymn-deprived-divided-society wretches could sing along with ease. Stirring stuff. Very moving.

Catwench · 24/11/2025 21:15

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:05

I've gone looking for, and have found, some posts of that nature, and I wouldnt necessarily read them as being insincere.

Some are, some aren’t. However you don’t tend to find them respected in the same way as other religions are. In a society where everyone should be equal, unfortunately certain things are not.

pointythings · 24/11/2025 21:15

Catwench · 24/11/2025 20:51

I have seen multiple social media posts and memes referring to belting out Jesus bangers in assembly and all sorts.

Calling something a banger is a positive. If a hymn is a banger, it means it is engaging, great to sing and has a great tune. Not mocking at all, just the way language has changed.

'Belting out a song' is also considered a positive - it suggests that singing the song is a powerful and enjoyable experience.

pointythings · 24/11/2025 21:18

BartholemewTheCat · 24/11/2025 20:28

The superiority complex is hilarious for someone with such dreadful taste in music. FWIW, I love a hymn. But I don’t agree with enforcing them as some kind of societal standard. Should we all stand in the mornings and swear allegiance to the King, too?

I don't think liking Nightwish or other metal music is 'dreadful'. I'm partial to Nightwish myself. Also Linkin Park, Bring me the Horizon. And Bach, Sibelius, Brahms. And Kate Bush. Many of us don't walk narrow straits in terms of musical taste.

But compulsory hymn singing in schools - still a fat hell, no.

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:18

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 20:53

At the service I attended this year we sang Abide With Me and I Vow to Thee My Country.

I vaguely know the former but not the latter, so gave it a google, and it was interesting to see that it seems to be subject of some controversy among Christians (concerns that it represents a Nationalist co-option of faith).

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 21:21

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:18

I vaguely know the former but not the latter, so gave it a google, and it was interesting to see that it seems to be subject of some controversy among Christians (concerns that it represents a Nationalist co-option of faith).

There were a lot of military personnel at the service, sea cadets, RNLI and police officers. Perhaps that influenced the choice of hymn.

Flannelfeet · 24/11/2025 21:22

I can just picture all the children singing smack my bitch up during assembly instead of onward Christian soldiers. 😆 🤣 😂

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 24/11/2025 21:22

hettie · 24/11/2025 20:07

I see we are still searching for the mythical 'national and local events' that require us all to be able to sing a certain collection of ancient Christian hymns......For clarity, Remembrance Sunday events are not all based in church ceremonies. .....I would hazard a guess that the number of people who attend a Remembrance Sunday church service is roughly equivalent to the number of people who attend church services (so a tiny percentage of the population), maybe a slightly higher percentage but still no where near enough people to warrant teaching hymns to all kids.....

The one we attend is outdoors and well attended by people of all ages even though it is usually raining and howling with wind in these parts. There is a strong youth contingent. I am always touched by those veterans and ex-service people with their medals - fewer each time- and the emergency services which send representatives, the local brass band and choir. The community stops, quiet and reflective for 30 minutes and remembers.

For DD, who has been to Auschwitz, it is an annual reminder that she can be a vessel for peace and supporting those whose voices are stifled. A mark of respect for those she has come from and those they were with defending our right to freedom.

Of course it isn’t only in-person attendance that matters. I meant for us it is vital, and even with that, we aren’t singing the hymns or saying the prayers.

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 21:23

Incidentally @NiftyBird Charles and Diana had that hymn at their wedding.

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 24/11/2025 21:23

Flannelfeet · 24/11/2025 21:22

I can just picture all the children singing smack my bitch up during assembly instead of onward Christian soldiers. 😆 🤣 😂

I nearly suggested Firestarter earlier!

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:25

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 21:21

There were a lot of military personnel at the service, sea cadets, RNLI and police officers. Perhaps that influenced the choice of hymn.

Understandly. It seems to be one-part Hymn, one part nationist military anthem (and I can understand why that would make some church leaders uncomfortable).

FWIW, in the context of WW1, a nationalist military anthem is really quite understandable and may have afforded a lot of comfort to people very much in need of it.

Flannelfeet · 24/11/2025 21:25

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 24/11/2025 21:23

I nearly suggested Firestarter earlier!

😆 🤣 😂 that would be a good one too! 🤣🤣🤣

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 24/11/2025 21:31

SeaAndStars · 24/11/2025 20:53

At the service I attended this year we sang Abide With Me and I Vow to Thee My Country.

We had Abide with Me (at about 12bpm) and I can’t even recall the second one.

Welsh anthem was its usual rousing joy though.

NiftyBird · 24/11/2025 21:37

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 24/11/2025 21:31

We had Abide with Me (at about 12bpm) and I can’t even recall the second one.

Welsh anthem was its usual rousing joy though.

We struggled with the latter, at least in secondary. A lot of mumbling, a full-throated Gwlad x 2, then back to mumbling.

labtest57 · 24/11/2025 21:47

scalt · 24/11/2025 18:09

This is mumsnet, where those who believe in god have an “imaginary friend”, are “deluded”, and if they suggest any “organised religion” activity, they are “indoctrinating” your children.

I like traditional hymns, but the times when most schools did them are gone. “Who put the colours in the rainbow? It surely can’t be chance!”

Unless its Islam...

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 24/11/2025 21:52

labtest57 · 24/11/2025 21:47

Unless its Islam...

Yes, atheists famously deny the existence of Gods, unless it's whatever Muslims believe in and then they change their minds.

When people take the piss out of religion, they invariably mean ALL religion, Islam included. It's no less ridiculous than any of the others.

BatshitOutofHell · 24/11/2025 21:53

Staringintothevoid616 · 24/11/2025 20:23

Glad to have kept you entertained😀

They didn’t say they were entertained.

pointythings · 24/11/2025 21:59

labtest57 · 24/11/2025 21:47

Unless its Islam...

I have no eyeroll big enough for the stupidity of this statement.

As for the rainbow - that would be physics.

labtest57 · 24/11/2025 22:05

pointythings · 24/11/2025 21:59

I have no eyeroll big enough for the stupidity of this statement.

As for the rainbow - that would be physics.

I haven't mentioned a rainbow. I have a physics degree

Catwench · 24/11/2025 22:07

pointythings · 24/11/2025 21:15

Calling something a banger is a positive. If a hymn is a banger, it means it is engaging, great to sing and has a great tune. Not mocking at all, just the way language has changed.

'Belting out a song' is also considered a positive - it suggests that singing the song is a powerful and enjoyable experience.

In theory yes. This was in a mocking context. It was also a very small comment amongst the ones I have seen and the first one that came to
mind. Most were very negative.

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