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To ask who actually gets the toppings?

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Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 14:47

Light hearted of course but this happens so frequently I am genuinely perplexed!

I love ice cream, as do my kids (one is ND so sticks to the same flavour 😂) but me and my daughter like to try the new and unusual ones. As such, we go to the places where you’re paying far more than you ought to now and again because they tend to have the more ‘seasonal’ or unusual flavours and have a new one each month - hopefully you know what type of place I mean.

My question is, who gets the stuff that’s on the top? You know the bits that make it look attractive and lure you in? Because I eat FAR too much ice cream and I have never, ever been given one of the biscuits, big chucks of chocolate, liquorice allsorts or jammy dodgers that are adorning the ice cream!

I’m more than happy with the ice cream I’ve had, this is not a complaint at all but what are they doing with the toppings? Perhaps you work somewhere like this, do they just remove them? Am I just unlucky that I’ve never had just the right portion at the right time? Seems unlikely considering how often I eat it 🙈

I feel like I need to know - help!

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LasagneLasagne · 16/11/2025 19:40

It is probably the people who say 'Cor, can I have a bit of that (biscuit/chocolate/fruit) on the top, please'?
Worth a try. If you don't ask, you don't get 😉

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 19:57

Richardoo · 16/11/2025 18:28

The toppings go right across the container at our lovely ice cream place, pretty much everyone gets a bit. Didn't realise other places gatekeep them, they are integral to flavour at ours. My favourite being cinnamon apple crumble, with extra crumble in the topping and crunchy cinnamon bits.

Your shop or one local to you? If it’s your shop post a link please, we travel for good ice cream 😂

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Left · 16/11/2025 20:16

Oh OP - I went to this amazing gelato place (gelatoria?) in Spain and you could choose three toppings to be added, it was fabulous, I think you should visit and indulge in toppings to your heart’s content.

Looked back at my holiday pics - it was Rocambolesc in Girona 👌

Velvian · 16/11/2025 20:26

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 17:41

No! Where can you get this? x

Cornwall. 😅 Porthleven Harbour 14.5 years ago is the only specific location i can remember. Sorry.

MasterBeth · 16/11/2025 22:38

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 18:54

It’s just light hearted, I was a bit bored and genuinely curious and this is an anonymous forum. The staff in there are a bit unapproachable. I also used to be really obese so still carry some body image issues which probably is part of the reason I didn’t feel comfortable asking (scared of looking greedy maybe?) I had hoped by saying it’s light hearted and by being bright and breezy it would have been obvious it wasn’t that deep but here we are.

How is asking for some topping on an ice cream “deep”?

Just ask.

They’ll either give you some or they’ll say “oh, that’s just for show.”

You’re the one making it a big deal.

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 22:54

MasterBeth · 16/11/2025 22:38

How is asking for some topping on an ice cream “deep”?

Just ask.

They’ll either give you some or they’ll say “oh, that’s just for show.”

You’re the one making it a big deal.

Good night love x

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MySweetGeorgina · 17/11/2025 07:35

At £4 a scoop the toppings are a lot cheaper than the actual ice cream 😁

i am a cheapskate and just spend a £1 at pound land for a few choc bars if I need a sweet fix

but seriously, half a snickers bar would cost max £0,50 so here’s a new theory: they do not give the bits of topping as they are the cheap bit of the ice cream and people might complain 😅

Richardoo · 17/11/2025 12:06

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 16/11/2025 19:57

Your shop or one local to you? If it’s your shop post a link please, we travel for good ice cream 😂

Not my own personal shop, I'd be the size of a small bus if that were the case 🤣
I don't want out myself by putting the location as it's quite niche.

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 17/11/2025 14:27

Richardoo · 17/11/2025 12:06

Not my own personal shop, I'd be the size of a small bus if that were the case 🤣
I don't want out myself by putting the location as it's quite niche.

Fair enough, hopefully we stumble across it at some point x

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