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Keeping kids in from play at lunchtime.

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

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Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 22:33

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 22:10

At our school those that need it do additional maths before school - they come in at 8.10 rather than 8.50 2 or 3 days per week. Which is a bit of a challenge when have 2 children in same school starting at different times, but I'm extremely grateful as these small group sessions really helped my daughter.

OP, when do you think the teacher should be doing these sessions if not at lunch? Doing them during standard class time isn't fair on those who do know their timetables already.

At my son's school it is during standard class time with intervention groups. My son is behind in pretty much everything due to missing most of Year 3 and almost all of Year 4 because of medical reasons, he only started Year 4 for the first time after the Easter holidays and is now in Year 5.

He does a maths intervention group and a handwriting intervention group. He also has maths work adapted when necessary because it's just too much for him otherwise but he does cope fine with other work at Year 5 level.

It's a real challenge and we're working closely with the school to help catch him up. Taking away his break times has never been suggested.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 22:36

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 22:33

At my son's school it is during standard class time with intervention groups. My son is behind in pretty much everything due to missing most of Year 3 and almost all of Year 4 because of medical reasons, he only started Year 4 for the first time after the Easter holidays and is now in Year 5.

He does a maths intervention group and a handwriting intervention group. He also has maths work adapted when necessary because it's just too much for him otherwise but he does cope fine with other work at Year 5 level.

It's a real challenge and we're working closely with the school to help catch him up. Taking away his break times has never been suggested.

That's great if a school has funding for TAs to run intervention groups.

Many don't.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 22:45

VickyEadieofThigh · 14/11/2025 21:43

You think knowing multiplication tables is "old fashioned"?

🙄

Yes in the sense that it is learning by rote and not a deeper understanding, that is sort of old fashioned. I can see how recalling these facts from memory will help with doing timed tests that children have to do in this country. Its really for the sake of speed.

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JSMill · 14/11/2025 22:51

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 22:45

Yes in the sense that it is learning by rote and not a deeper understanding, that is sort of old fashioned. I can see how recalling these facts from memory will help with doing timed tests that children have to do in this country. Its really for the sake of speed.

Fgs. Knowing times tables enables children to do so many maths questions so much more quickly. That’s why they get tested. It’s not about teaching something because there’s a test coming up. It’s a very important skill.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 22:51

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 22:36

That's great if a school has funding for TAs to run intervention groups.

Many don't.

Right now the class has TA's and a student teacher. My son has 2:1 TA's due to a physical disability (a reason for his long absence).

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 22:53

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 22:45

Yes in the sense that it is learning by rote and not a deeper understanding, that is sort of old fashioned. I can see how recalling these facts from memory will help with doing timed tests that children have to do in this country. Its really for the sake of speed.

No. It's because you struggle with pretty much every other number topic in Maths if you can't quickly recall your times tables. You need times tables for column multiplication, division, fractions, statistics and data, area, and many others.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 22:54

JSMill · 14/11/2025 22:51

Fgs. Knowing times tables enables children to do so many maths questions so much more quickly. That’s why they get tested. It’s not about teaching something because there’s a test coming up. It’s a very important skill.

Yes that's what I said, its about speed. Or perhaps you didn't mean to quote me

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Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 22:55

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 22:51

Right now the class has TA's and a student teacher. My son has 2:1 TA's due to a physical disability (a reason for his long absence).

That's great. Many schools don't though. Interventions where groups go out for catch up/pre-teaching is a thing of the past in many schools.

Bungle2168 · 14/11/2025 22:55

Free extra tuition? What’s not to like!

And why are you not reinforcing his learning at home if your son is falling behind at school?

LancashireSquirrel · 14/11/2025 23:01

TT Jockstraps Grin

JSMill · 14/11/2025 23:05

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 22:54

Yes that's what I said, its about speed. Or perhaps you didn't mean to quote me

You said you could see how knowing times tables could help with the tests in this country. I want to rephrase what I said. Knowing times tables is imperative for doing so many calculations in maths. Knowing times tables has always been important and the parents of my generation didn’t push back. They did what they could. Parents these days are spoiled. They just need to make sure their dcs make use of the many apps available.

DelphiniumBlue · 14/11/2025 23:10

They're not going to be doing tables for the whole of the lunch break. I'd put money on it being for 15 mins max, and probably less. No one wants children to miss break, they get all ansty and are difficult to teach if they haven't had the opportunity to run around and let off steam.

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 14/11/2025 23:44

I totally disagree with this. Children need more time to play,outdoors especially and teachers need their break. TTR is something that can easily be done at home, in the car, wherever.

Sometimeswinning · 14/11/2025 23:49

It’s for MTCs I imagine. Chill out. I’d personally have no issue for the extra attention my child got at school. Some parents have zero aspirations for their kids.

sittingonabeach · 14/11/2025 23:49

@Oblahdeeoblahdoe it could be but there are parents like OP who don’t do them at home, so those kids are the ones missing their lunch break. There is an easy solution for OP so their DC doesn’t have to miss some of their break time

CypressGrove · 14/11/2025 23:50

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 14/11/2025 23:44

I totally disagree with this. Children need more time to play,outdoors especially and teachers need their break. TTR is something that can easily be done at home, in the car, wherever.

Not by teachers it can't though, so if parents aren't doing it then what are the options.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 23:54

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 22:10

At our school those that need it do additional maths before school - they come in at 8.10 rather than 8.50 2 or 3 days per week. Which is a bit of a challenge when have 2 children in same school starting at different times, but I'm extremely grateful as these small group sessions really helped my daughter.

OP, when do you think the teacher should be doing these sessions if not at lunch? Doing them during standard class time isn't fair on those who do know their timetables already.

Yes that's what I said, its about speed. Or perhaps you didn't mean to quote me

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 23:58

Bungle2168 · 14/11/2025 22:55

Free extra tuition? What’s not to like!

And why are you not reinforcing his learning at home if your son is falling behind at school?

You can go back and read the thread if interested. He isn't falling behind its the whole class that is being kept in

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 23:58

You can go back and read the thread if interested. He isn't falling behind its the whole class that is being kept in

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Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 15/11/2025 00:00

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 23:54

Yes that's what I said, its about speed. Or perhaps you didn't mean to quote me

It's not just speed. Times tables are a fundamental building block for all future Maths learning.

If you don't want your child to have to do catch up in his lunch break, you should have practiced with him at home.

Givemeachaitealatte · 15/11/2025 00:02

Honestly, the obsession with knowing your timetables in the curriculum is insane. I don't know my times tables off by heart, it just wouldn't stick and do you know what? It's not impacted my life in the slightest, I have a great job and a calculator in my pocket if I get stuck.

MN is bizarre sometimes, why are we all thinking children losing playtime where they experience joy and creativity to learning something that doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things - it's just learning something off by heart, it's not actually telling you how intelligent they are.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 15/11/2025 00:12

If you don’t want your child to get free extra tuition just tell the school. I find it bizarre because in my area maths tuition is expensive and difficult to find.

I never learned my times tables and I have an A in a level in maths (before Astar existed) and an engineering degree from a Russel group uni. But I never needed to learn them because I could do multiplication the long way pretty quickly and found the vast majority of maths easy. Most kids aren’t that lucky.

Givemeachaitealatte · 15/11/2025 00:15

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 15/11/2025 00:00

It's not just speed. Times tables are a fundamental building block for all future Maths learning.

If you don't want your child to have to do catch up in his lunch break, you should have practiced with him at home.

I managed to pass my GCSE maths, obtain A levels, a degree, a master's degree and a great job all without knowing my times tables off by heart.

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 00:23

@Givemeachaitealatte but you must understand the fundamentals behind them and I assume you are not saying you don’t know things like 2 x 2

steff13 · 15/11/2025 00:31

LittleMonsterWrangler · 14/11/2025 19:06

If it was only for the children who don’t know their times tables yet, I’d be working with my child at home to help them learn so they can go and play!

This would be my response as well.