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Keeping kids in from play at lunchtime.

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

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FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 20:19

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 19:53

It's concerning that the need for play and physical activity is often totally overlooked. They're probably taking nothing in after lunch because they've not had any opportunity to rest and play. Most children in year 4 are 8, they should not be sat down learning for almost 6/7 hours straight - we really have education wrong here.

You’re right, they shouldn’t be spending their lunch breaks learning; parents should have stepped in long ago.

DarkLion · 14/11/2025 20:20

At my sons school we were invited to a parents assembly at the end of year 3 I believe it was about teaching maths at home. I’m 29 but many of the methods even I was taught have changed and I found it really helpful. It was in this that they went into the times table check in year 4. My son was using timetables rockstars regularly and got 100% on his check. I can’t understand for that reason why your child’s school didn’t do something similar because then it might have cut the need for children to lose their playtime along with teachers using their lunch time, even if only SOME parents did the work with kids at home because now you’ve found out you weren’t aware of what they needed to focus on so just seems to be something that could have been avoided

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 20:21

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:56

No I actually didn't sorry. We were given a qr code inside his planner that logs you into a variety of apps. But nothing was communicated from the school about when we should use them and what for. I assumed they were for later on in the year or for older years. I check all the school emails and newsletters carefully but this has not been included.

It’s definitely time to feedback to the school because even if they have told the parents, it hasn’t been in a way that works (which perhaps reflects the number of them losing their break time now).

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:23

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:12

I wouldn't think badly of the teacher at all as like it's been pointed out, they'd be giving up their break too but I just know that my son would be gutted and feel punished and that is what I'd want to avoid.

That's understandable to want to avoid that. But it could be explained to him as a positive thing for him?

ClassicalQueen · 14/11/2025 20:23

If your DC don’t know their times tables by Year 4, they are in need of extra support. I’d applaud the school for this. I’m a teacher for reference.

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:28

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:23

That's understandable to want to avoid that. But it could be explained to him as a positive thing for him?

It could be tried but I really doubt he'd see it as a positive thing, especially with his friends asking why he can't play outside etc.

As I've said, I'm glad his school haven't handled it in that way.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:28

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:28

It could be tried but I really doubt he'd see it as a positive thing, especially with his friends asking why he can't play outside etc.

As I've said, I'm glad his school haven't handled it in that way.

Fair enough.

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 20:40

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 19:53

It's concerning that the need for play and physical activity is often totally overlooked. They're probably taking nothing in after lunch because they've not had any opportunity to rest and play. Most children in year 4 are 8, they should not be sat down learning for almost 6/7 hours straight - we really have education wrong here.

They won't be learning for 6 hours straight. They are still getting their morning break and their lunchtime when they eat, just not their lunch playtime.

And hopefully they have scheduled this on a day the children have a physical activity like PE or forest school or swimming, so they are still getting a movement break.

Suntots · 14/11/2025 21:01

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

Of course it’s school’s responsibility to let parents know of upcoming tests and how they want the children to practice - apparently in this case with TTR. Education is far more school’s responsibility than it is their job to get involved with parking, interfere with parental choices about online access, advertise local charity events and complain about the contents of lunchboxes, but school seems to manage to send all those emails!

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 21:02

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

I follow the news quite closely and haven't been aware. Is there a reason why this has been in the news lately? I knew the children do tests in year 6 and the year 2 test was scrapped by the time he was in year 2. He generally achieves very well in school especially in maths and I had no idea he needed to know his times tables. I tended to avoid this like this when I work with him at home as times tables seem quite old fashioned

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justasking111 · 14/11/2025 21:07

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:07

This.

We used to do the times table on the school run. Otherwise at bath time, bed time. Wrote them up on a sheet stuck on a wall in the kitchen.

Did the same with spelling.

Strictlycomeparent · 14/11/2025 21:08

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:22

What's so unacceptable? timetables are a life skill, surely you should be grateful the teachers are giving extra tuition if you can't teach them yourself at home?

I am opposed to the removing of playtime for any reason really. Those children with the most challenging behaviour or need to catch up academically need to have big movement and play the most.

My child is practising at home his times tables, but for those who can’t or won’t I would like this to happen in school without the removal of playtime. I feel so strongly that it’s vitally important - more so actually than times tables (although it’s not an either /or and doesn’t have to be). Evidence also shows children learn more after exercise.

Pricelessadvice · 14/11/2025 21:09

Do they not send times tables home for them to learn? That was a staple weekly homework when I was that age. We had a spelling and times tables test every single week.

mamagogo1 · 14/11/2025 21:11

It’s good the teachers give up their break I suppose. I don’t understand the obsession with learning them though, I don’t know move off by heart and have 2 degrees! Wasn’t a “thing” when I was at school. Ditto the phonics “thing”

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 21:11

justasking111 · 14/11/2025 21:07

We used to do the times table on the school run. Otherwise at bath time, bed time. Wrote them up on a sheet stuck on a wall in the kitchen.

Did the same with spelling.

My family did too. I can do them all by rote except my nines because my mam taught me to do them on my fingers (so easy)! She always made it into a game for us in the days before apps. Both of my parents can recite theirs too and they are late 70s and one almost 80.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 21:33

mamagogo1 · 14/11/2025 21:11

It’s good the teachers give up their break I suppose. I don’t understand the obsession with learning them though, I don’t know move off by heart and have 2 degrees! Wasn’t a “thing” when I was at school. Ditto the phonics “thing”

Times tables have been a "thing" since before compulsory education was mandated.

Phonics has been a "thing" since the Victorian times. There was a blip in the 60s/70s/80s with the whole word approach, but back to phonics by the 90s.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 21:36

Strictlycomeparent · 14/11/2025 21:08

I am opposed to the removing of playtime for any reason really. Those children with the most challenging behaviour or need to catch up academically need to have big movement and play the most.

My child is practising at home his times tables, but for those who can’t or won’t I would like this to happen in school without the removal of playtime. I feel so strongly that it’s vitally important - more so actually than times tables (although it’s not an either /or and doesn’t have to be). Evidence also shows children learn more after exercise.

So what would your child and any other child who does know their tables, be doing while the ones that don't are having this catch up session with the teacher? What lesson will your child forfeit so those children whose parents can't be bothered, get this extra session?

RoseAlone · 14/11/2025 21:40

Well done to the school for introducing this. If you don't want him to miss his lunchtime playtime then help him learn his times tables at home. It's not rocket science.

Bluepiano · 14/11/2025 21:41

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 21:02

I follow the news quite closely and haven't been aware. Is there a reason why this has been in the news lately? I knew the children do tests in year 6 and the year 2 test was scrapped by the time he was in year 2. He generally achieves very well in school especially in maths and I had no idea he needed to know his times tables. I tended to avoid this like this when I work with him at home as times tables seem quite old fashioned

Fast, automatic recall of multiplication facts is a fundamental skill needed for any maths past year 3. In primary alone he will need them for fractions, area and perimeter, ratio and proportion, column multiplication, algebra, factors, prime numbers….the list is endless. Not knowing times tables can cause real cognitive overload when they are trying to master any of the maths skills listed above.

VickyEadieofThigh · 14/11/2025 21:43

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 21:02

I follow the news quite closely and haven't been aware. Is there a reason why this has been in the news lately? I knew the children do tests in year 6 and the year 2 test was scrapped by the time he was in year 2. He generally achieves very well in school especially in maths and I had no idea he needed to know his times tables. I tended to avoid this like this when I work with him at home as times tables seem quite old fashioned

You think knowing multiplication tables is "old fashioned"?

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CraftyGin · 14/11/2025 21:43

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

You can reinforce times tables at home - and you should.

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 21:51

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 20:40

They won't be learning for 6 hours straight. They are still getting their morning break and their lunchtime when they eat, just not their lunch playtime.

And hopefully they have scheduled this on a day the children have a physical activity like PE or forest school or swimming, so they are still getting a movement break.

Eating isn’t play - it’s a basic need. Expecting young children to manage on two 15-minute breaks plus enough time to eat simply isn’t enough, and it’s unrealistic to think otherwise. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve seen break time removed as a consequence for young children, or 4 and 5 year olds told that “good listening” means sitting still with their legs crossed for 30 minutes. We then expect children to stay regulated when, in reality, what their bodies need in order to regulate is movement. It’s bonkers. Movement and play at break times and lunchtime should never be negotiable.

The issue isn’t with teachers - I have a great deal of respect for them - it’s the system and all the pointless testing. I also don't know all of my timetables off by heart and when I was about 8 I was moved down several year groups to my little sisters class (mortifying) to do Maths, probably partly because I couldn't recite them! I couldn't grasp how to tell the time - I remember being told this was why and how wonderful my sister was at Maths in comparison. I got A's at A level, a first class BSc and have almost finished my Masters in a field closely related to child development - the evidence points to the need for sufficient physical activity and meaningful play to support learning not cramming an extra lesson in at lunch.

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 22:10

At our school those that need it do additional maths before school - they come in at 8.10 rather than 8.50 2 or 3 days per week. Which is a bit of a challenge when have 2 children in same school starting at different times, but I'm extremely grateful as these small group sessions really helped my daughter.

OP, when do you think the teacher should be doing these sessions if not at lunch? Doing them during standard class time isn't fair on those who do know their timetables already.

CypressGrove · 14/11/2025 22:33

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:39

No I dont want to complain! That's why I'm on here scoping the situation. I haven't complained about anything but in thr past when I have raised issues (only twice) it hasn't gone down well and the teachers seemed defensive and honestly one seemed very frosty after that and I was surprised a professional would be like that. So I'm very conscious to stay away and not communicate concerns after that. I had no idea year 4 children needed to know these in year 4 until I saw some replies above and Im quite diligent about checking the school emails. I will definitely do some practicing with him and I'm sure he'll pick them up easily as hes otherwise been very good and enthusiastic with maths.

Even If he is good at maths, not knowing time tables will slow him down and set him back. I'm surprised it hasn't come up already - our school was quite clear they don't have time for times tables on the curriculum and asked parents to work on them at home. It's great they are supporting kids at lunchtime that still don't know them though.